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Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by nyumba kubwa, Jul 17, 2011.

  1. nyumba kubwa

    nyumba kubwa JF-Expert Member

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    [h=3]Nimekutana na hii thread toka one of good blogs nikaona si mbaya kushare na ninyi. For me this is good advice but challenging.

    Secrets to a Happy Marriage[/h]

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    Have you ever wondered "what is the secret to a long and happy marriage?" Our collection of tried aand true marriage advice tips will help you answer that very question! These secrets to a happy marriage come straight from the horse's mouth -- those who are happily married!

    1.Never assume.

    2.Compliment more than you criticize.

    3.For each time you vent about your husband/wife to your friends, tell three positive stories.

    4.Remember that it is ok to do things differently (e.g. there is more than one way to peel a potato or fold the laundry).

    5.Always make time for the two of you.

    6.Marry someone that you enjoy listening and talking to.

    7.Remember that marriage is sometimes a bed of roses and sometimes there are thorns.

    8.Remember that the best gift that you can give your children is to love their mother/father.

    9.Be fair! Split the housework, spending money, etc evenly. This way you are never resentful of your partners contributions (or lack of) or expenditures.

    10.Never go to bed angry. (Unless it's 3a.m. and you're exhausted, angry, and not thinking straight.)

    11.Remember that people do fight. It's how you do it that matters.

    12.Before starting an argument, consider if it's really worth it.

    13.Fight naked. ;)

    14.Agree to disagree.

    15.Never, ever mention the "D" word (divorce).

    16.Do you want to be right or do you want to be married?

    17.Respect each other's privacy.

    18.Remember that "love is like childhood. You need to learn to share."

    19.Marriage is not 50/50, it's two people giving 100/100 all of the time.

    20.Surprise each other now and then.

    21.The secret to a happy marriage is two TV's!

    22.Have date night!

    23.Never pass up an opportunity to say "I love you".

    24.Hold hands.

    25.Hug & kiss every day (several times a day actually!).

    26.Always believe that you got better than you deserved.

    27.Be quick to say "I'm sorry".

    28.Choose the one you love, then love the one you choose.

    29.Keep the in-laws out of your marriage!

    30.Love isn't always a feeling, it's a decision.

    31.Hang in there. It's worth it.

    32.Play nice, play often, love much.

    33.Never air your dirty laundry as a couple in public.

    34.Never keep secrets from each other.

    35.Be each other's champion. No matter what, take your husband or wife's side first!

    36.Communication is the key!

    37.Always respect each other.

    38.Never underestimate the power of a good belly-laugh and don't be afraid to laugh at yourself.

    39.It's the little things that matter most.

    40.Never use the words 'Always' and 'Never' in a fight.

    41.It's ok to argue, but never use curse words to express your anger.

    42.Never compare your marriage to others. What you see on the outside is not always what it is on the inside.

    43.Don't make love in the same place/position everytime. Variety is the spice of life!
    You might also like:


    Ten Ways to Keep Your Marriage Fresh



    8 Things you Should Talk About Before Marriage



    9 Love Tips That Saved My Best Friend’s Marriage …



    Marriage Proposal Dos and Don'ts

     
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    Mokoyo JF-Expert Member

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    Nimeipenda hiyo namba 6. Thanks
     
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    King'asti JF-Expert Member

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    nice one, thanks nyumba kubwa
     
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    AshaDii Platinum Member

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    Nk tungefanya robo tu ya hio list... ndoa zingekua za amani saaana.... Dah!

    THANK YOU for the Useful POST...

    Love isn't always a feeling, it's a decision - Nyumba Kubwa (JF Member)
     
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    nyumba kubwa JF-Expert Member

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    Yaani AshaDii nimesave hii kitu kwenye desktop from now on I will try to practice (hata kwa kujilazimisha) and see if it works. Kazi kweli kweli.

     
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    nyumba kubwa JF-Expert Member

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    AshaDii naona unaniquote; I am not an authority nimecopy tu mwaya. Naogopa plagerism hii ni kazi ya wenyewe. aaah

     
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    AshaDii Platinum Member

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    ha ha ha... umenimaliza.... Dah! Picha ya wanao unatoa... bora hata uweke picha ya mzeya....lol

    Never go to bed angry. (Unless it's 3a.m. and you're exhausted, angry, and not thinking straight.)

    Hio nakushauri kama una 6/6 wape watoto chukua cha 3/3 hata kama mmekwaluzana.... mnapatana...lol
     
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    nyumba kubwa JF-Expert Member

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    Umenikumbusha blog moja nilitembelea jamaa analalamika mchumba wake anaongea sana na anafikiria kumpiga chini kisa anaongea sana. Sasa mtu ambaye akiongea kwako ni kero iweje awe ni chaguo la maisha yako??? Nadhani jamaa angesoma hapa.

     
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    nyumba kubwa JF-Expert Member

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    Nimecheka point ya kuwa na TV mbili (kama si fumbo). That real works. Jamaa akiwa anaangalia mpira wewe aah kwenye series. TV ikiwa moja lazima mtagombana aisee.

     
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    Ave Ave Maria JF-Expert Member

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    So useful..... but no.2, no.8 na no.42 zimenifanya nitikise kichwa mara kumi kumi kuunga mkono hoja!
     
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    AshaDii Platinum Member

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    NK TV ikiwa moja, remote lazima ibomoke... sio kugombea... ila Hio ni best option mikwaruzo midogo dogo hii mmmh!


    Enways nimependa hii Fight naked.Sijui mkiwa na hasira mtakumbuka kuvua kwanza...lol
     
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    Ave Ave Maria JF-Expert Member

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    Mi kuna hiyo moja bado naitafakari kwa kina zaidi. "Fight naked"???
     
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    zomba JF-Expert Member

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    Mie nnawake wawili na sijafata hata moja ya hiyo mmoja miaka 30 tukonae mwingine miaka 15 na nataka kuongeza watatu.
     
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    zomba JF-Expert Member

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    Rule yangu ni moja tu. Kuwaheshimu wakati wote.
     
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    nyumba kubwa JF-Expert Member

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    Mkishakuwa naked hamna fighting tena hapo. Nadhani hiyo ni treak anayoweza tumia mkosaji. Ukijua umekosa wavua nguo mapema na kumsaidia na mwenzio. Kwa kifupi hiyo ni rushwa.

     
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    aaaiiiisseeee!!
     
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    AshaDii Platinum Member

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    Ufisadi unaanzia chumbani.... very funny... in other words ni kubaka (kwa psychology....)
     
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    Eiyer JF-Expert Member

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    Nimependa sana no 1
     
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    Nsiande JF-Expert Member

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    Big up nyumba kubwa!!!!

    Nimependa two tv's...kwavile weekend naangalia recorded programs!
     
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    17. Respect each other's privacy

    hapa nimetatizika tena....
     
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