Kwa wadada wenzangu: tuwe makini na aina hii ya wanaume.......

LD said:
Sorry wapendwa kwa kumjibia Michelle!!! Mi nimemwelewa hivi, sio tusiwasikilize wala wasiwe na malengo ya mbele hapana!! Ila tuwe waangalifu/makini..... Ni kweli kabisa kuna wanaume wanajua kabisa msichana huyu nikimuingia kwa gia ya kutaka tunda, kustarehe nk nk tu basi hatakubali, anakuja na gia ya kutaka kuoa, anaongelea ndoa, anakujengea picha ya maisha yenu, anakuteka in way kwamba akili yako inaona mnaishi kwenye ndoa kabisa....atakuita mke wangu, mama watoto wangu...ataanza kukuambia mtoto wetu ataitwa Paka Mweusi, yani basi tu ilimradi amefanikiwa kuiteka nafsi yako na akili yako. Mwisho wa yote anakuvuta anakufanyia alichokuwa anakitaka/kilenga anakubwaga hapo. Ule ushetani wake unaanza kuuona sasa hadi utajuta kupenda...wakati huo maisha yako yote umeyafungia kwake.....kwa hiyo hao watu wapo na wapo sana tuuuuuu!!!
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Ookeey!
 
Path Finder said:
You always have points. Swala ni je watakuelewa wenzako?
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watanielewa tu manake naamini nao wamekutana nayo haya niliyokutana nayo.....wasipoelewa basi tena,sina la kufanya ila niwe nimesema tu!!!
 
Michelle said:
Nafikiri umechagua kutokunielewa....sijasema wanaume wasitoe ahadi...kila kitu kina nafasi yake na muda wake....na sijasema kila nilichosema kina apply kwa kila mwanaume na mwanamke....waweza kuwa exception.....maana yangu ni kuwa wapo wanaume wanaokuja na ahadi za uongo.....ili mradi tu apate anachokitaka aondoke.....nimetaja sifa za naadhi yao hapo..... na kushauri tuchukue muda kuwafahamu wanaume na ahadi zao na si ukishaahidiwa ndoa wewe ushapanua miguu yako......hakuna niliposema wasitambulishe,ila its insanity kumuamini mtu uliyekutana nae juzi akienda kukutambulisha kwa rafiki na ndugu zake while hata unachofanya hakijui.....ni mtazamo,tuliokutanan nayo tunaelewa.
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Sawa Michelle!
 
Michelle said:
mi nahisi huwa tunapumzika au kujipa muda but sidhani kuwa tunaacha kutafuta love....ok,let me stop looking for it maybe atakuja....l.o.l:hand:
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Aisee mimi nimecheka kweli haya mambo banaa hayana formula unaweza kusubiri weee mpaka ukachina kama samaki l.o.l, by the way i am done with that issue all went well
 
The Boss said:
waulize wenzio.
wengi hupata love wakiwa wamesha give up kabisa...
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kuna tofauti ya ku-give up na ku stop looking for love? giving up means you have lost hope but you will appreciate if it happens you get what you were looking for......not looking means you are not at all interested in love....
 
The Finest said:
Aisee mimi nimecheka kweli haya mambo banaa hayana formula unaweza kusubiri weee mpaka ukachina kama samaki l.o.l, by the way i am done with that issue all went well
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umeona eeeh.....hakuna formula...mi nahisi when i have love is when more love come to me....l.o.l

am glad it went well.....bravoo!
 
Michelle said:
kuna tofauti ya ku-give up na ku stop looking for love? giving up means you have lost hope but you will appreciate if it happens you get what you were looking for......not looking means you are not at all interested in love....
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exactly ..
walipata love walipokuwa hawana interest kabisa....very true and possible...
 
The Boss said:
exactly ..
walipata love walipokuwa hawana interest kabisa....very true and possible...
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I agree with you now....i think this applies to other things as well....mimi when i have lost hope,lets say looking for a job its when i get a job...
 
Michelle katika hii mada wanaume unawahukumu bure tukinamama mnachotakiwa mkifahamu na ikibidi mkikubali ni kwamba at that particular moment mwanamme anapokuwa anatoa ahadi za ndoa/kuzaa/likizo kila mwaka/kujenga nyumba etc huwa mara nyingi anamaanisha hivyo kweli.Sincerely speaking mara nyingi at that time anapokutamkia anataka kukuoa kweli huwa anataka kukuoa(at that particular time). Tatizo ni kwamba katika maisha ya mwanadamu huwa hakuna condition ambayo ni constant na ndo maana hisia ya mapenzi unayoweza kuwa nayo leo wewe kwangu kesho inaweza kubadilika (emotions are fluidy). My point is wanaume (walio wengi) huwa hawatoi ahadi wakijua purposely kuwa ni ya uongo ili wapewe uroda, la hasha, on the contrary conditions ndo huwa zina change na kusababisha uone 'ala kumbe alikuwa ananilaghai'. Yanayoweza kusababisha baadhi ya mabadiliko haya wanaume tunayajua wenyewe!
 
Bishanga said:
Michelle katika hii mada wanaume unawahukumu bure tukinamama mnachotakiwa mkifahamu na ikibidi mkikubali ni kwamba at that particular moment mwanamme anapokuwa anatoa ahadi za ndoa/kuzaa/likizo kila mwaka/kujenga nyumba etc huwa mara nyingi anamaanisha hivyo kweli.Sincerely speaking mara nyingi at that time anapokutamkia anataka kukuoa kweli huwa anataka kukuoa(at that particular time). Tatizo ni kwamba katika maisha ya mwanadamu huwa hakuna condition ambayo ni constant na ndo maana hisia ya mapenzi unayoweza kuwa nayo leo wewe kwangu kesho inaweza kubadilika (emotions are fluidy). My point is wanaume (walio wengi) huwa hawatoi ahadi wakijua purposely kuwa ni ya uongo ili wapewe uroda, la hasha, on the contrary conditions ndo huwa zina change na kusababisha uone 'ala kumbe alikuwa ananilaghai'. Yanayoweza kusababisha baadhi ya mabadiliko haya wanaume tunayajua wenyewe!
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Nashukuru kwa maoni yako mazuri.....kwahiyo unaonaje muwe mnaziangalia kwanza hizo conditions kabla ya kuomba kufanya mapenzi au kutoa ahadi???? ingesaidia sana kama unachosema ni ukweli.....wanaume muwe mnachukua muda kuwafahamu wanawake kabla ya kuahidi na kuwa na uhusiano wa kiamapenzi ili kuepusha kuumiza watu pale the so called CONDITIONS zinapokuwa hazipo???
 
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