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Kwa nini watoto wa kiume huwaonea wivu mama zao kuliko baba zao?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Kashaijabutege, Dec 13, 2010.

  1. Kashaijabutege

    Kashaijabutege JF-Expert Member

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    Wana jamvi,

    Hivi ni kweli watoto wa kiume huona wivu sana wanapowakuta mama zao na wanaume wasio baba zao, kuliko wanavyowakuta baba zao wakiwa na wanawake wasio mama zao? Kama ni kweli, kwa nini?

    Je hali ni kinyume kwa watoto wa kike?

    Nijuze.
     
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    Babuyao JF-Expert Member

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    Duh, JF kuna mambo aisee! Ila umesema kweli kabisa. Watoto wa kiume huwa wana wivu tena wivu mbaya sana dhidi ya mama zao. Hawapendi mama zao waguswe na wanaume wa nje: inaumiza na kuudhi. Sababu ni kuwa watoto wa kiume kama alivyo baba yao wana hulka ya kumiliki. Kumbe wangependa kuona mama yao anamilkiwa na baba yao tu, na si zaidi.
     
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    Elia JF-Expert Member

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    Mkuu hata watoto wa kike ni the same hawapendi kuona mamazao wanamegwa hovyo.
     
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    Elia JF-Expert Member

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    Issue nyingine ni mfumo Dume, mtoto wa kiume ana express fillings hata kwa kufanya violence, but mtoto wa kike anaogopa kichapo kutoka kwa mama yake au kwa hiyo njemba inayommega mamaye
     
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    Fab JF-Expert Member

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    mie najua mwanaume mmoja since baba yake alivyokuwa na nyumba ndogo,akamchukia kweli baba yake...akawa protective wa mama yake....inategemea mtoto amelipokeaje ,ndoa ya wazazi wake kuvunjika.:teeth:
     
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    pmwasyoke JF-Expert Member

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    Mahali ulipotoka (tumboni kwa mama) ungependa pawe patakatifu - sio panaingiliwa hovyo hovyo.
     
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    MAKAH JF-Expert Member

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    ni kweli kabisa. watoto wa kiume huanza kuonyesha wivu mkali kwa mama zao tokea wakiwa na umri mdogo sana kabla hawajaanza kuongea. na wakianza kuongea na kujua maneno makali wanaweza mtukana mnyemeleaji na akabaki anajishauwa shauwa. nakumbuka tukiwa wadogo wa umri wa miaka 7 mwenzetu alikuwa anatuhamasisha kumzomea njemba moja ambaye alikuwa mtumishi wa Mungu tumuite shetani. unajua kina mama hawajui umri gani mtoto anaweza elewa wasemayo - tuliweza waelewa wakiteta kuwa yule tuliyekuwa tunamzomea alikuwa na tabia ya kufika pale nyumbani kwa rafiki yetu wakati baba ya rafiki yetu kasafiri. inawezekana hawaoni wivu kwa niaba ya baba zao bali wanachukia ku share penzi la mama na mtu ambaye si mtu waliyemzoea na ambaye wanamkubali ambaye anatokea baba mzazi au wa kambo.
     
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    Newvision JF-Expert Member

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    Both ways is applicable- hata mtoto wa kike pia hapendi baba yake amwache mamake it is natural? Hizi ni instinct ambazo Mungu kaziweka na zinakubalika. Haiji kuona mama anachukuliwa na jamaa wakati baba hayupo au kinyume chake pia watoto hawapendi.
     
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    inategemeana na culture...kama culture unayoishi mwanaume anaweza kuoa mke wa pilihuwezi kumchukia baba yako akitoka nje,utachukia kama na pesa za matunzo zimepunguatu nyumbani,basi....kwa culture za kizungu,hata baba akitoka nje anaweza kuchukiwa n watotowachina wana msemo,msichana analelewa na baba,halafu anatunzwa na mumewe,halafu mumewe akifaau akiachwa anakuja kulelewa na kaka,na mwisho atalelewa na mwane wa kiume.....na tusisahau kuwa mwanaume na mwanamke sio sawa,ingawa panatakiwa kuwa na usawa....i personally believe in women's rights kuliko gender equality....je mwanamke anaweza kuolewa na waume wawili??????????is it normal?????????
     
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    Derimto JF-Expert Member

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    Wivu ni wivu tu nadhani kwangu mimi napata shida mpaka namwonea mtoto wangu mchanga wivu anaponyona na kushika ziwa la mama yake kwa mbwembwe naona kama dogo ana matani yasiyo na mipaka
     
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    The Boss JF-Expert Member

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    i could be wrong but watoto wa kike hufichiana siri na mama zao......
     
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    Kashaijabutege JF-Expert Member

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    Lakini nasikia wakati mwingine watoto wa kike huficha siri za mama zao. Nahisi wivu wa wavulana unazidi wa wasichana.
     
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    Baba_Enock JF-Expert Member

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    Wivu nini?
     
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    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    mmh me sijui hili:A S-omg:
     
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    Nakubaliana nawe 100% isipokuwa kwenye msisitizo mwekundu. Hapo tunaweza kujadili zaidi.
     
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    Hii kali aisee!
     
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    Hii inaashiria kuwa mwanamke hastahili kuwana mpenzi mmoja.
     
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    ati?? don't say it again:A S-alert1:
     
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