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Kwa mtindo huu UKIMWI hautakwisha!

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Dena Amsi, Aug 29, 2011.

  1. Dena Amsi

    Dena Amsi JF-Expert Member

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    Msinishambulie sana kwamba namnyanyapaa la hasha hata kidogo.......................

    Nimefanya nae kazi kwa ukaribu na kumsaidia sana katika mambo mengi ya kikazi, lakini......................
    Nimemshangaa sana jana kunipigia simu na kuniambia ananipenda wakati ana jua fika kuwa nina mume na watoto.....................

    Kunitaka sikatai ni hali ya wanaume kumtamani/sijui kumpenda mwanamke......................
    Najiuliza anataka kuniweka katika group lake la PLHA au shida yake nini hasa??

    Ni mmoja wa chair wa chama cha hawa wenzetu PLHA..................
    Na sisi ni moja ya shirika ambalo linawapa msaada mkubwa na support yao yote inatoka kwetu.....................
    Nimekosa jibu nakubaki nimeshangaa............................................

    Najiuliza je ni kwa sababu mkewe kafariki??

    Au nini hasa???

    Nilijikuta nataka/natamani kumtukana lakini namuheshimu maana ni sawa na Baba yangu kabisa..................................
    Najiuliza kama anaweza kunitongoza mimi ambaye namjua kuwa anaishi na VVU je kwa wasichana wengine wasomjua???...................

    Kweli UKIMWI hautakwisha TZ kwa mtindo huu........................................
    Wajameni tuwe makini sana......................

    Cheers

    DA
     
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    The Finest JF-Expert Member

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    Kuna watu hawana aibu hata kidogo, kwa vile anaona tayari anataka afe na wengi, kibaya zaidi ukute karubuni wadada wengi na kaishatembea nao you never know hali ikoje au circle inazunguka vipi yaani lililobaki ni kumuomba Mungu tu atusaidie na kutulinda vinginevyo hali sio nzuri kabisa. Pole DA.
     
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    TF na DA lililobaki kwa kweli ni kuomba sana Mungu maana wengi wanajijua wanao na wanafanya kusudi kabisa kuusambaza kwa watu ambao hawana
    Na watu wa aina hiyo hata matumizi ya condom wanapinga kabisa wanataka muende kimya kimya
    Ni janga na hasa utumiaji wa hivi vidonge unawafanya watu wanakuwa na afya na hakuna tena ile biashara ya kukondeana
     
  4. Dena Amsi

    Dena Amsi JF-Expert Member

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    Yaani nimejikuta nahurumia kila mdada naye muona no matter what!!! Maana nafikiria kama anaweza kunambia mimi ambaye I know him very well wasiomjua??? Nimekosa raha kabisa kwa siku ya leo mpaka mkoloni ananiuliza kulikoni namwambia Kichwa kinaniuma tu kumbe mawazo yaani sina nguvu kabisa dah!!!!
     
  5. Elli

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    Makubwa tena haya....
     
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    Dena Amsi JF-Expert Member

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    Mr. Rocky hapo umeongea ni kuomba Mungu tu. Na tayari anakunywa ARV kwa mwaka wa tatu sana huwezi hata kumtambua kwa kumuangalia hata kidogo huwezi jua kabisa. Na imagine tu kwa kweli kwa watu kama hawa huu ni uuaji kabisa kiukweli. Eehh Mwenyezi Mungu tusaidie tu kwa kweli maana hakuna cha kufanya zaidi ya maombi
     
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    Dena Amsi JF-Expert Member

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    Tena makubwa hasa si madogo Elli
     
  8. Mr Rocky

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    Na hizo ndio zinazowadanganya na afya zao kuimarika wanajiona wana kila sababu ya kuuambukiza kwa innocent girls ambao hawajui
    Na wanatumia kila aina ya usawishi ikiwamo pesa na starehe na wako tayari hata kuhonga magari na nyumba ili mradi atimize kile anachokitaka
    Maana hakuna girls yoyote atakayetamaniwa na hawa jamaa na aahidiwe nyumba au gari halafu asikubali
    Ni balaa sana
     
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    Pole shost siunajua wasohaya wanamji wao, Jibaba hata haya halina, haendi kutafuta aloathirika mwenzie loh,Mwenyezi mungu atakunusuru hili na jengine...
     
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    Watu wengine hovyooooooooooo!!! kabisa, badala ya kutulia na kumwomba Mungu amwongezee siku za kuishi yeye anafikiria kufa na wengi!!!!
    si angeacha basi hata kumeza hizo dawa ili afe mapema? hajiheshimu kabisa huyo mzee, msamehe bure na tumwombee tuu maana hilo ni pepo.
    Pole sana DA.
     
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    Hapo unaanza kujiuliza ameishapita kwa wangapi, dah mimi nachoka kabisa
     
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    DA, twende mbele na kurudi nyuma, tukiliacha swala la yeye kukutongoza akijua ww ni mke wa mtu.
    kwanza, lazima tukubali ukweli kwamba huyo bwana ni jasiri sana na ni mkweli kwa nafsi yake. Anajua unajua yeye anaishi na VVU, if anything, atakuwa sio mwongo, kama angekuwa mwongo, asingekuwa na ujasiri wa kukutongoza.
    Nafikiri huyu bwana atakuwa mkweli kwa wanawake wengine atakaokuwa anawatokea.
    Pili, DA, ni wanaume wangapi usiojua status zao ambao wanakutongoza ww au wanawake wengine?
    Which one is the lesser evil?
     
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    Mkuu hii mijamaa imeumbwa bila uso wa haya
    Na si kwa wanaume tuu hata kwa wanawake maana kuna wanawake washajijua na wanaona bora wafe na vijana hasa wale vijana wanaotaka kulelewa
    Anawekwa ndani anapewa huduma zote na usafiri na pesa za matumizi kijana anaona kapata kumbe yuko kwenye line
    Akikuchoka anakutimua anaweka mwengine
     
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    Mimi nachoona hapo ni kuwa huyo amedhamiria kuua wengine kitu ambacho najua fika kwamba hata Mungu naye atamuhukumu kwa jambo hilo ingekuwa busara sana kwa hali aliyonayo sasa hivi kuomba baraka na neema za Mwenyezi Mungu kumuwezesha aishi maisha marefu, kutubu dhambi na kufanya malipizi, sasa kama ndio hali iko hivyo sidhani hata kama uwepo wa Mungu upo hapo.

    Eehh Mungu Baba tusamehe.
     
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    Kwani umesikia ana UKIMWI?
     
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    I think DA ungemsaidia zaidi kwa kumhoji zaidi anakupenda vipi, anakuonaje, na hali yake huwa anahakikishaje usalama (afya) ya wenza wake, yeye na nafasi yake haoni kwamba anakiuka trust ya waliomchagua kuwa leader wao nk

    On the other side DA, watu wenye HIV wanaweza hata kuoa, kuolewa, kuzaa nk iwapo tu watajua namna ya kuishi positively... kwenye ule mkutano mkubwa wa ukimwi wa arusha (four/five years ago) kulikua na mashuhuda wengi tu

    My advice.... he needs to know how you feel about his approach, he needs to understand society inamuonaje, he needs to address HIV positive status kwa vitendo na kujaribu kuwa mtulivu

    THE MOST IMPORTANT ISSUE HAPA NI WOTE KUJIKINGA KWA NAMNA UNAYOWEZA.... INGAWA SOMETIMES INAKUA NGUMU
     
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    Najikuta nachukia hata hizo ARV kabisa zinaongeza maambukizi sio siri
     
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    Kabisa na wanajiamini sana wakishazitumia
    Ni kuomba tuu Mungu maana hawajulikani tena kwenye jamii kuwa huyu anao na huyu hana
     
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    Ipo haja hizi dawa ARV kutolewa kwa masharti eg sheria kali,kuwalazimisha wajitambulishe kwa jamii na nk.
     
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    TF yaani hilo nalijua na ninajua maswala haya ya UKIMWI for almost 9yrs nafanya na hili shirika.

    Najua anaweza kuoa na kuzaa na hata mtoto anaweza kuwa negative akilindwa na mama kuhudhuria KLINIK PMTCT.

    But my question is huyu si kwamba ananitaka anioe?? Na hili limetokea baada ya mkewe kufariki na sisi tuligharamia maizshi yake kila kitu hata mimi nilihudhuria. Iweje?? Mimi ananitaka wa nini sasa sababu nina mume wala sihitaji mwanaume mwingine?? Hapo ndo pananipa utata
     
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