Mzee Mwanakijiji
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Utamsikia mtu anasema "nina ki-date" au "they are dating" au "I'm not dating anyone". Ikumbukwe "date" kama ilivyo ni mojawapo ya mifumo ya mahusiano ambayo ni migeni katika jamii yetu. Je kudate ni kumtongoza mtu, ni kufukuzia, au ndio kutoka na mtu? Au kudate ni hatua tu kabla ya uchumba? Je watu wanaweza kudate bila kuwa na mahusiano ya kingono? Ni kwa muda gani wa kawaida mtu anatakiwa kudate kabla hajaamua kuhusiana kingongo (the first date rule?)
Je, ni vipi vilivyo vizuri katika mazingira yetu katika kudate? Should girls ask guys out for date au wasubiri kuombwa? Je kudate basi ni sawasawa na "to ask somebody out" a.k.a 'kumtoa'.
Je ni umri gani kwa watoto kuanza kuruhusiwa kudate (shule ya msingi, sekondari au baada ya 18)? Na kabla ya hapo wakiwa wanatoka pamoja tunasema nini ni "marafiki tu"?
When should you bring your date home to meet your family? Should you even bring just any date?
How many dates should you have before you move into courtship and possibly marriage?
Je mtindo huu wa kudate ni mzuri kuliko mtindo ule wa zamani wa Kiafrika ambapo watu walikuwa wanatongozana, wanaanza kutoka taratibu na mambo yakiiva "posa" inaletwa nyumbani na ndipo mtu anatambulishwa kama rasmi?
Je, ni vipi vilivyo vizuri katika mazingira yetu katika kudate? Should girls ask guys out for date au wasubiri kuombwa? Je kudate basi ni sawasawa na "to ask somebody out" a.k.a 'kumtoa'.
Je ni umri gani kwa watoto kuanza kuruhusiwa kudate (shule ya msingi, sekondari au baada ya 18)? Na kabla ya hapo wakiwa wanatoka pamoja tunasema nini ni "marafiki tu"?
When should you bring your date home to meet your family? Should you even bring just any date?
How many dates should you have before you move into courtship and possibly marriage?
Je mtindo huu wa kudate ni mzuri kuliko mtindo ule wa zamani wa Kiafrika ambapo watu walikuwa wanatongozana, wanaanza kutoka taratibu na mambo yakiiva "posa" inaletwa nyumbani na ndipo mtu anatambulishwa kama rasmi?