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kulala hivi inawezekana?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Kigarama, Sep 26, 2011.

  1. Kigarama

    Kigarama JF-Expert Member

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    Nchi nyingi za Ulaya na Amerika ya Kusini ni kawaida kwa mwanaume kulala chumba kingine na mwanamke kulala chumba Kingine. Jee kibongo bongo inawezekana (kama mna nyumba kubwa) mwanamke kulala chumba tofauti na mumewe? Inaswihii jamani!!??
     
  2. Lizzy

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    Kwanini isiwezekane?
    Yote inatokana na matakwa ya wahusika...
     
  3. nyumba kubwa

    nyumba kubwa JF-Expert Member

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    Hata Asia specifically Japan ndio zao. Kiafrika watu wanapenda wakumbatiwe ati. Cha kushangaza kwetu huku joto lakini tunapenda kukumbatiwa all night long.

     
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    hee kumbe ????????
     
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    Tena wajapan nilisikia si kuwa wanalala different rooms tu ila eti wala hawa do. Wana do pale wanapotaka babies tu wakimaliza mambo ya kuzaa mama analala na watoto.

    Ila wanawake wa Japani kwa vidumu usiseme. Wao ndio wanaotunza ela za familia though they are not allowed to work. Sasa unakuta mama ana pesa kweli kweli ana spend na masharobaro huku anampangie mumewe matumizi.

     
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    @Nyumba kubwa

    they are not allowed to work by whom?
     
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    duh,hiyo kali aisee.
    Ila itakua vyema m-missiane perfume zenu
    maana kila siku kugusana inapoteza fleva
     
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    hayo mambo ya ku do mpaka mnapotaka babies nasikia ni wayahudi
    wale fundamentalist..sijui wajapan....

    but culture zingine unagundua kuwa sisi waafrika hasa wanaume tulivyo'bahatika'
    ulaya ukimwambia mtu nina wake wawili...anakutazama kama cinema lol
     
  9. nyumba kubwa

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    By culture. Wana culture ya hajabu sana. Binti anafanya kazi akiolewa tu anahacha kazi tena wengi unakuta wana masters zao lakini ni house wives. Mke kwao kazi yake ni moja tu; kulea watoto.

    Wale wajanja wanaamua kuwa single parents mfano maprofessor wa kike nilokutana nao wote hawana wame wengine wana watoto wengine hata watoto hawana.

    Yani wana mila potofu za kwetu ni cha mtoto.

    Ila wanachotuzidi ni kuwa mwanaume akipata mshahara lazima amkabidhi wife ni culture. Na wife anamgaiya ela mpaka ya lunch mumewe. Na wanawake wale wanoko unakuta anampa mumewe lunch box hivyo hapewi hata senti tano. Mke ndo financial manager.

     
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    Wajapan kuto ku do sijuhi kama ni culture au ni kwa sababu wao ni workaholic. Kwa kifupi ndoa zao si romantic at all.
     
  11. Gaijin

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    Haya maelezo yote umepata kwa kusikia au vyenginevyo? Na wana mila potofu kwa mujibu wa nani? whats the benckmark?
     
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    ebooooooooo


     
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    Labda Kitanda tofauti lkn chumba tofauti duh noma
     
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    gee
    nipo curious kidogo,we ni mdigo au ni mjapan?au both?
    you sound both lol
    nijibu hata kwa pm ikibidi lol
     
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    Of course sijaolewa na mjapani kwa hiyo ni kusikia. Nimewahi kukaa Japan 2 years; na mimi ni mdadisi. Mila zao ni potofu according to wao wenyewe. Nasema hivyo kwa kuwa new generation hawafagilii mila zao na wengi hawataki kuolewa wala kuzaa kuepuka kuwa house wives.

     
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    Gaijin JF-Expert Member

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    Basi walokwambia wamekupotosha.

    Wajapani wanafanya kazi wakiwa na watoto majumbani kama kawaida. Hata kama si kazi rasmi za maofisini. Mimi maprofesa nilokutana nao wanafamilia na colleagues nilofanya nao kazi wana watoto nyumbani.

    Wengi wakipata watoto huacha kazi kwa muda kwa sababu hakuna vituo vya kutosha vya day care na hakuna mwenye uwezo wa kulipa maids na mama zao wenyewe (bibi za watoto) wanaenda makazini. Lakini watoto wakianza shule hurejea makazini.

    Sasa maofisi mengi yana facilities za kulelea watoto hapo hapo kwa hiyo wenye kurejea kazini baada ya kuzaa tu ni wengi mno.

    Kuwasikia wakisema nj mila potofu sijawahi na Sioni kwa nini iitwe mila potofu. Mwanamke ana choice ya ama kufanya kazi au kubaki home. Ni mila nzuri tu mwanamke kuchagua kufanya akipendacho na kuweza kulea mtoto mwenyewe sio kama sisi tunavyowaacha house maids waliofeli shuleni kutulelea watoto

    Kuishi kwangu kwenye culture tofauti sijawahi kutana na watu wanaopenda kuolewa kama Wajapani maishani na ndio maana kuna culture( be it pop or traditional) ya kutafuta wachumba.

    Naamini umeishi miaka hiyo miwili bila ya kujua lugha yao hivyo kupitwa na mengi kwenye social system yao. Unaweza kuwa ulikuwa lost in translation
     
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    Hahaha Boss bwana! Naijua sifa ulotoa ya wadigo majuzi. Lol

    Mimi si Mdigo wala Mjapani :]
     
  18. nyumba kubwa

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    SOma hiyo link. Japanese are the least sexiest people in the world.
    Why Don't Japanese Men Kiss Their Wives? | Japan Probe
     
  19. Gaijin

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    So?

    Besides hiyo ni kwa kigezo cha Mzungu. Suala la msingi ni are they satisfied?
     
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    Siongei bila data. Hii nimeambiwa na sources za uhakika including male an female professors na nimekaa mtaani hence was able to mix with them.


    Yes wakiolewa wanaacha kazi wanalea watoto mpaka wanakua and that takes long time hivyo hawawezi kuwa employed kwenye professional works. Wanachoishia kufanya ni kuuza super markets and the like.

    Hence new generation hawako ready ku risk kuzaa na wengine hawataki hata kuolewa kwani ukikaa home 10 years hamna ofisi inakuwa inakuhitaji zaidi ya kuuza super market.

    Na nasema ni culture kwa sababu they believe and demand that a mother should raise kids. Nilikuwa na mwenzangu yeye alikuwa na mtoto na aliweza kumlipia day care na ni mbongo utanambia wao wamekosa ela ya kulipia day care??? It is not about money or they are poor ni kuwa mama anatakiwa kulea watoto. Na siyo choice kuwa they so much like kukaa nyumbani. Hawapendi na ndio maana wengi wanaolewa siku hizi hawazai na wengine wanaamua kuwa single kabisa.


     
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