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Kubemenda ni nini?

Discussion in 'JF Doctor' started by Ndibalema, Feb 24, 2010.

  1. Ndibalema

    Ndibalema JF-Expert Member

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    Wana JF.

    Kuna rafiki yangu ana mtoto mchanga, amekuja nimpatie ushauri na maelezo juu ya swala zima la kubemenda (Sina hakika kama ni neno rasmi).
    Hasa ningependa kujua 'mechanism' na njia zinazosababisha jambo hili.
    Je, kutoka nje ya ndoa ndio sababu ya jambo hili?
    Wengine wanasema ukitoka kufanya mapenzi na mpenzi mwingine kisha ukaja ukambeba mtoto wako (anae nyoya) basi tayari unamsababishia tatizo hili.
    Naomba msaada wenu wana JF
    ili nipate cha kumweleza swahiba wangu.
     
  2. FirstLady1

    FirstLady1 JF-Expert Member

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    Nasikia ni kumuharibu mtoto mdogo kama ananyonya harafu mwanamke anakuwa sio mwaminifu katika mahusioni..sijui ni wote Mke/mme au Mke
    wajuzi watatuhabarisha !
     
  3. Fixed Point

    Fixed Point JF Bronze Member

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    Wanasema ni wote inabidi muwe waaminifu, maana inasemekana hata baba akitoka nje ya ndoa then akaja kumshika mtoto kabla hajaoga tatizo hilo pia litatokea. sijui sayansi yake hapo imekaa vipi, labda madakitari watatuambia
     
  4. JoJiPoJi

    JoJiPoJi JF-Expert Member

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    ila mara nyingi huwa inatokea kama mama atapata Mimba wakati bado mtoto ananyonya
     
  5. Katibukata

    Katibukata Senior Member

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    Ninavyoelewa mimi, kumbemenda mtoto ni kudhoofu afya yake kutokana na kunyonya maziwa machafu. Mama akishakuwa mjamzito maziwa yake huwa yanabadilika na hivyo huwa si salama kwa mtoto.
    Mtoto anahitaji uangalizi wa khali ya juu ktk usafi. Hivyo mkono wowote unaomshika lazima uwe msafi hata kama hukutembea nje ya ndoa. Jasho, na vitu vingine vichafu huathiri afya ya mtoto... sharti kuoga kabla ya kumshika, vinginevyo UTAMBEMENDA.
     
  6. Jerome

    Jerome Senior Member

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    unajua sisi watu wa zamani tulikuwa tunalea kikwelikweli mama akijifungua wanatengana mahusiano ya kimapenzi na baba mpaka miaka miwili au zaidi mtoto akue aache ziwa kabisa,baba alikuwa anavumilia wala hatembei nje muda wote huo ndiyo maana tulikuwa na afya za kweli siyo sasa mama hata nyuzi hazijapona vizuri anaanza kisa anshindana na baba mtambemenda mtoto hapo mwisho atakuwa fundi viatu na maneno mengi urefu futi tatu na nusu
     
  7. Mom

    Mom JF-Expert Member

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    Teheehee tehe
    Wanaume mmesoma hapo!
     
  8. Pape

    Pape JF-Expert Member

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    kwahiyo mke na mume wakilibeneka wao kwa wao haina shida eeh?
     
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