Kazi kweli kweli

[Saint Ivuga]

kutoka ubachela kwenda kuoa ni maisha mawili tofauti(life style) ....ume experience vitu gani katika hiki kipindi? Mfano labda ulikuwa mtu wa kujichanganya kiaina ...je, ushawahi kufanya jambo ambalo ulikuwa umezoea kufanya na ukamuudhi mwenzako?

 

[Saint Ivuga]

transition period" head ache"

 

[Roulette]

Umeoa recently?

 

[Saint Ivuga]

Umeoa recently?

sina jibu

 

[Roulette]

Most of the time new things come with the followings: temptation, curiosity, fear, excitement, interest, routine, boredom, irritation, aversion. Of course you can decide to nurture one of the feelings more than others.
Na kila kitu in life is a choice and comes with an 'opportunity cost'. by taking this, you accept to lose that.

 

[Saint Ivuga]

Most of the time new things come with the followings: temptation, curiosity, fear, excitement, interest, routine, boredom, irritation, aversion. Of course you can decide to nurture one of the feelings more than others.
Na kila kitu in life is a choice and comes with an 'opportunity cost'. by taking this, you accept to lose that.

thanks..nimekupata. So i have to sacrifice other things

 

[Roulette]

thanks..nimekupata. So i have to sacrifice other things

Don't even consider it a sacrifice, just realize that what you are gaining in NOT doing it is greater than what you would have if you had done it... ukianza kufikiria vya sacrifice ndio mwanzo wa kujiskia martyr na kuomba recognition for what you had to give up...
Give up gladelly, it is a conscious choice you make, being aware of the opportunities coming with your choice.

 

[Azimio Jipya]

Don't even consider it a sacrifice, just realize that what you are gaining in NOT doing it is greater than what you would have if you had done it... ukianza kufikiria vya sacrifice ndio mwanzo wa kujiskia martyr na kuomba recognition for what you had to give up...
Give up gladelly, it is a conscious choice you make, being aware of the opportunities coming with your choice.

I can smell lots of serious message here ...pls hope you wont mind ..hebu fafanua in slow motion ... Give up gladelly... it is a conscious choice you make ..being aware of the opportunities coming with your choice ..

 

[Azimio Jipya]

Most of the time new things come with the followings: temptation, curiosity, fear, excitement, interest, routine, boredom, irritation, aversion. Of course you can decide to nurture one of the feelings more than others.
Na kila kitu in life is a choice and comes with an 'opportunity cost'. by taking this, you accept to lose that.

Is there any particular reasons ..why new events come with the items you mentioned ... ? God I wish it wasn't so! Why?

 

[Azimio Jipya]

transition period" head ache"

... have experienced in many events ...!! Ni mtihani ..ambao singependa kukutana nao ..but there to stay!

 

[Mamndenyi]

kwani vipi,
umefumaniwa.

 

[Roulette]

Is there any particular reasons ..why new events come with the items you mentioned ... ? God I wish it wasn't so! Why?

Ikiwa you don't take control of the events lazima zitafatana in that sequence (more or less). Na ndio maana you have to be aware of your choice and make the most of it.

 

[Roulette]

I can smell lots of serious message here ...pls hope you wont mind ..hebu fafanua in slow motion ... Give up gladelly... it is a conscious choice you make ..being aware of the opportunities coming with your choice ..

Najua you know what I mean...

 

[Kongosho]

ha ha ha, sikutegemea neno hili toka kwako.

kwani vipi,
umefumaniwa.

 

[Kongosho]

hizo ni opportunity cost na sunk cost, huhitaji kuzifikiria kwa sasa, just enjoy.

 

[AMINATA 9]

kutoka ubachela kwenda kuoa ni maisha mawili tofauti(life style) ....ume experience vitu gani katika hiki kipindi? Mfano labda ulikuwa mtu wa kujichanganya kiaina ...je, ushawahi kufanya jambo ambalo ulikuwa umezoea kufanya na ukamuudhi mwenzako?

mi niliwai kuchati na mvulana mwingine na kumuambia kua nampenda sana alivo na namtamani mnoooooo
mbaya zaidi mvulana wangu mm mweupe,mi nikamwambia yule si unajua weusi wana ladha zao tofauti na tamu sana(naturally)
then pia cku ingine nikamwambia nije lini unipe mambo........yule kaka akauliza kwani (alex) sio jina lake...vip si atakupa ......mi nikajibu huyu hawezi kutoa mambo........
nikazifuta zote izo text ila cku nikaandika tena mambo vipi mbona umenisusa ivo ila hakunijibu mi nikatoka mvulana wangu akaja akaziona na zile za nyuma zote fb bwana loh! basi ndio hajanisamehe hadi leo
SASA WW CJUI UMEFANYA NN MPAKA UNATAKA MAONI
funguka kijana upate msaaada

 

[AMINATA 9]

sina jibu

hahhaaaaaaaaaaaaa mwaka wako huu
wereva

 

[Roulette]

mi niliwai kuchati na mvulana mwingine na kumuambia kua nampenda sana alivo na namtamani mnoooooo
mbaya zaidi mvulana wangu mm mweupe,mi nikamwambia yule si unajua weusi wana ladha zao tofauti na tamu sana(naturally)
then pia cku ingine nikamwambia nije lini unipe mambo........yule kaka akauliza kwani (alex) sio jina lake...vip si atakupa ......mi nikajibu huyu hawezi kutoa mambo........
nikazifuta zote izo text ila cku nikaandika tena mambo vipi mbona umenisusa ivo ila hakunijibu mi nikatoka mvulana wangu akaja akaziona na zile za nyuma zote fb bwana loh! basi ndio hajanisamehe hadi leo
SASA WW CJUI UMEFANYA NN MPAKA UNATAKA MAONI
funguka kijana upate msaaada

Aisee...

 

[ndetichia]

mi niliwai kuchati na mvulana mwingine na kumuambia kua nampenda sana alivo na namtamani mnoooooo
mbaya zaidi mvulana wangu mm mweupe,mi nikamwambia yule si unajua weusi wana ladha zao tofauti na tamu sana(naturally)
then pia cku ingine nikamwambia nije lini unipe mambo........yule kaka akauliza kwani (alex) sio jina lake...vip si atakupa ......mi nikajibu huyu hawezi kutoa mambo........
nikazifuta zote izo text ila cku nikaandika tena mambo vipi mbona umenisusa ivo ila hakunijibu mi nikatoka mvulana wangu akaja akaziona na zile za nyuma zote fb bwana loh! basi ndio hajanisamehe hadi leo
SASA WW CJUI UMEFANYA NN MPAKA UNATAKA MAONI
funguka kijana upate msaaada

so mpaka sasa upo lonely mbaya :smash: :smash: oa

 

[Roulette]

Ngoja tujibu swali sasa. Mi nadhani transitional period haitakiwi kulazimishwa.
Kuna vitu vingi ulukua unafanya mwenyewe, sio kwa lengo la kumficha mpenzi wako iloa tu ulikua unavipenda sana. na yeye vile vile ana baadhi ya vitu anapenda kufanya peke yake au na rafiki/familia ambavyo sio lazima akushirikishe.
watu wakioana wanataka kulazimisha kila kitu wafanye pamoja, sio sawa. Kama unapenda ka 'outting' ka weekend na rafiki zako, lazima ujue kwamba to spend more time with her unatakiwa kua 'a bad beer-pal'. na kama utaenda basi get her approval but at first asikulazimishi kwenda nae.
Vile vile, kama yeye anapenda klumtembelea mama yake au ndugu yake, au kama anapenda kukaribisha wageni nyumbani lazima aelewe kua muda anao spend na wenyewe ni muda angeweza kuspend na wewe. na kama utamkubalia kwenda/kupokea, aelewe kua sio lazima wewe uende nae.
With time mtajifunza kupenda hobbies zenu...