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Is It Possible For a man & woman To be just Friends and Not Lovers for Appr. 5 years?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Iselamagazi, Apr 8, 2012.

  1. Iselamagazi

    Iselamagazi JF-Expert Member

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    Hi! wana JF!

    Hivi kuna uwezekano wa mwanaume na mwanamke kuwa ktk uhusiano wa kawaida kabisa kama marafiki tu bila kuwa wapenzi?
    Kuna mkasa mmoja ambao naufahamu wa mwanaume na mwanamke ambao waliishi ktk ndoa kama mume na mke kwa takribani miaka 12 na baadae kulitokea kutoelewana kwa wana ndoa hawa na kupelekea kutalikiana kwa miaka mitano (5) sasa!


    Wawili hawa nafanya nao kazi ktk ofisi mmoja. Kitu cha ajabu ni kuwa wana ushirikiano mzuri sana ktk masuala ya kazi na huwezi kujua kama kuna tofauti za kuachana kama tulivyo zoea ktk jamii zetu kuwa bibi na bwana wakishatengana ni nadra sana kukuta jambo kama hili. Si ofisini tu, ushikiano wao upo hata katika masuala ya kijamii mathalani, utawakuta wakiwa pamoja ktk misiba, harusi n.k.

    Kurizuka rumours pale kibaruani kwetu kuwa hawa wawili wana kula mshedede kwa siri sana! Jamaa mmoja pale kibaruani alishawahi kumtania yule bwana mtalaka kuwa bado wanaendeleza kale kamchezo; yule bwana mtalaka alikataa kata kata kwamba yeye na mtalaka wake wamebaki kuwa marafiki tu wa kawaida na kwenye masuala ya kale kamchezo kila mtu kivyake na kwamba kama ana wasiwasi afanye uchunguzi anaojua yeye. Ilikuja thibitika baadaye kuwa ni kweli wawili hawa wamebaki kuwa marafiki tu.

    Is it entirely possible for a man and woman to be friends and not be romantically interested for some reason?

     
  2. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Hahahaaaaa methinks not! But, we are all different.
     
  3. Iselamagazi

    Iselamagazi JF-Expert Member

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    Hii kitu bwana ni ngumu mkuu. Inabidi uwe na kifua kipana!
     
  4. cartura

    cartura JF-Expert Member

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    very possible...; ni suala la uamuzi na dhamira tu
     
  5. Iselamagazi

    Iselamagazi JF-Expert Member

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    Possibly!
     
  6. TANMO

    TANMO JF-Expert Member

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    Mkuu, kwa mujibu wa maelezo uliyotoa, inawezekana..
     
  7. Iselamagazi

    Iselamagazi JF-Expert Member

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    Mkuu, wewe binafsi unaweza hili?
     
  8. TANMO

    TANMO JF-Expert Member

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    Naweza mkuu, na ninao marafiki wadada. Tena mmoja aliwahi kunipiga kibuti kabla hatujawa marafiki..
     
  9. Preta

    Preta JF-Expert Member

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    ai wewe.......
     
  10. BADILI TABIA

    BADILI TABIA JF-Expert Member

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    very posible........ 60% ya rafiki zangu ni jinsia tofauti na mie......
     
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    reina Member

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    It is very possible and i enjoy being with my bestfrnd ambae ni mwanaume. Cha muhimu mjue lengo/mipaka ya urafiki wenu.once you knw that the bond becomes strong .
     
  12. TANMO

    TANMO JF-Expert Member

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    heri ya Pasaka Bibie. Hebu wape ushuhuda jinsi ulivyonipiga kibuti halafu tukabakia marafiki.
     
  13. Mwali

    Mwali JF-Expert Member

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    It's'complicated. Soma thread ya nyani ngabu na the Boss.
     
  14. Nyani Ngabu

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    You're right Mwali. It's more complicated than people think.
     
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    It is possible for those who have never tasted, but for this case i doubt.
     
  16. Kibukuasili

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    Inawezekana kabisa. Mi nnaye mmoja, mkenya, tangu mwaka 2000. Japo nia yangu ya mwanzo ilikua tofauti alipoona dalili akaniambia "tuwe friends tu hicho unachotafuta hutakipata" nikaheshimu tukawa marafiki tu. Mara moja ashaniokoa kuingia mkenge kwa msichana mmoja kabla sijaoa. Isipokua urafiki na wife wangu hataki japo wanafahamiana
     
  17. Nyani Ngabu

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    Siku akikuambia mfanyane utakataa?
     
  18. Kongosho

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    Unamtaka huyo bwana?
     
  19. leloch

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    am a gud example, n marafk 2 zaid ya 2yrz so ts possible kama wote waelewa hamna tamaa
     
  20. Iselamagazi

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    Kwa mujibu wa maelezo, but practically is it possible?
     
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