In a deeply dillema..

marida said:
Nilikuwa na boyfnd wangu.but kwa baadhi ya vitabia vyake vya kuwa na wasichana wasichana wengi nikaamua kuachana nae.Inshort alikuwa ana nicheat sana tu.But cha kushangaza,he still remembered me sana mpaka nakuwa nashangaa.It kant pass two wiks or even a week without texting me or calling.Mpaka sometimes inabidi nijitose kumtext pia,asihisi na roho mbaya.Becouse breaking up,doen't mean we r enermies.ila kwa nini wengine wakibreak ni moja kwa moja.hata text or kals wanaacha kabisa.ila this guy,is amaizing me.i see the signs that he still nid my company alot.But why is he cheating while he still loves me?..Why is he stil telling me about his future plans and alot of issue about himself?.For sure am in dillema.I stil love him.but simuelewi elewi. I nid help please.should i tell him that we shuld completely stop communicating so that we can forget each other?...Or shuld i tel him to stop his habit and become lovers as before?...Becouse the source is only cheating.hana tatizo lingine.nifanyaje?.
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....na hao wengine anawafanyia the same. Among you, huenda kwake yeye wewe ndio 1st 'option'....

chriss brown said:
If a man loves u.he will never cheated on you..
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....sio kweli bana, unatafsiri nini love na cheating? Nenda deep...
 
marida said:
Nilikuwa na wivu sana tu nae hapo mwanzoni,na nahisi mpaka alikuwa anaboreka na kushangaa.to be honest i was over jelousy kwa kweli ,pia hao wasichana anao cheat nawajua .Ukimuuliza.jibu anajibu Lets break.kilichonikatisha tamaa zaidi,ni type ya text anazotaka kwa phone yake.Just normal text.no lovely text.Pia kuna situation moja ilitokea ilinitoa wivu wote mpaka leo hii.siwez ongelea hapa.
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Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy -- in fact, they're almost incompatible; one emotion hardly leaves room for the other. Both at once can produce unbearable turmoil...
 
asakuta same said:
hapo kwenye sex mlikuwa mmepanga kufikia lini?:lock1:
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Sidhan kama mtu anakurupuka after a week or month tunasex.Anyways,some wanakutana hata leo wanamaliza,we have that group.Mtu you don't me well,i dont know you well.ndugu zangu wanakujua?marafik zangu??..wewe mwenyewe will u be able to say marida is my galfnd infront of your friends?relatives?..au ukiulizwa unaruka nani mimi marida mpenz wangu?nadhan unaota wewe..aisee tusomane kwanza,kuna other directions unaona mbelen giza tu.
 
sasa kama yeye anahitaji na humpatii unataka afanye nini? Anakupenda sana tu but kuna kitu anakihitaji hakipati binadam tunatofautiana. ulitaka akulazimishi ndo ulue kweli anahtaji, mpe atulie. usikute na we ndo wale wa nampa kila kitu mwanaume huyu lakini hatulii, utakua unakosea, by the way huyo ni kaka yako mkae tu.
 
marida said:
Age doen't matter is just a number.kunipatia nini?..kama mchumba nnae.lla huyu anae nikumbuka,he shuld not make me to leave da one i have for him.
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hapo kwenye red hapo.....with that feelings of insecurity am feeling very sorry kwa huyo uliyenaye b'se its just a matter of time tu ataona manyoya.
 
marida said:
Sidhan kama mtu anakurupuka after a week or month tunasex.Anyways,some wanakutana hata leo wanamaliza,we have that group.Mtu you don't me well,i dont know you well.ndugu zangu wanakujua?marafik zangu??..wewe mwenyewe will u be able to say marida is my galfnd infront of your friends?relatives?..au ukiulizwa unaruka nani mimi marida mpenz wangu?nadhan unaota wewe..aisee tusomane kwanza,kuna other directions unaona mbelen giza tu.
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sasa km unaona mbeleni ni giza ,where is this dillema come from?......its just th matter of time and phewwwwww! you will bow to his demands....
 
marida said:
Nilikuwa na wivu sana tu nae hapo mwanzoni,na nahisi mpaka alikuwa anaboreka na kushangaa.to be honest i was over jelousy kwa kweli ,pia hao wasichana anao cheat nawajua .Ukimuuliza.jibu anajibu Lets break.kilichonikatisha tamaa zaidi,ni type ya text anazotaka kwa phone yake.Just normal text.no lovely text.Pia kuna situation moja ilitokea ilinitoa wivu wote mpaka leo hii.siwez ongelea hapa.
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Hukujibu swali langu ulimuona ana sex live?


Ukienda kusoma vitabu vya dini, vinakuambia usimshakie mtu anafanay sex mpaa umeona uume wa mtu unazama ndani, tena kuwepo na mashahidi.

Wewe una matatizo sana, mana ukiona watu tu wanacheka wawili au wana kula story basi akili yako inasema wana cheat, pole sana :cool2:
 
marida said:
No sex until marriage.otherwise,gals are many.There are some can wait.i dont think the definition of love=sex.is it?.
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who said that?
na if that so ,ni msimamo mzuri ila utaisubiria kweli hiyo marriage aseeeeeh! ,sijui itakuja lini lol!
 
fazaa said:
Hukujibu swali langu ulimuona ana sex live?


Ukienda kusoma vitabu vya dini, vinakuambia usimshakie mtu anafanay sex mpaa umeona uume wa mtu unazama ndani, tena kuwepo na mashahidi.

Wewe una matatizo sana, mana ukiona watu tu wanacheka wawili au wana kula story basi akili yako inasema wana cheat, pole sana :cool2:
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Well mimi ndiyo nafahamu mienendo yake.usikomalie sana,humfahamu.so.he was cheating on me.thats it.
 
Inawezekana anakukumbuka kwa sababu kuna vitu vingine/sifa unazo na anazikosa kwa hao wengine lakini haimaanishi anakupenda huo ni ubinafsi wake tu ili aendelee kujiridhisha.

Haiwezekani ukasema anakupenda wakati anakuumiza kihisia bora ungesema ulimfuma kwa bahati tena na x-wake lakini kila wakati uhusiano/m2 mpya ah, unatumika dada.

Punguza mawasilano, endelea na maisha yako km ana nia ya dhati na huo uhusiano anatakiwa kuomba radhi na kuacha kukuumiza kisaikolojia.
 
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