How long can you last without sex?

[Kaizer]

kwa wote ambao hamkunielewa, nimesema for as long as neccessary nikimaanisha kuwa, mimi kama mke wa mtu, naweza kukaa bila hiyo kitu kwa muda wote ambao my dia hubby hayupo karibu na mimi, be it i week, one month, one year and even ten to 20 years. Na pia kwa wakati wote ambao nadhani haiwezekani kufanya hivyo kwa sababu ambazo haziwezi kuzuilika. sasa mmeelewa? hivi walimu wenu walikuwa wanalipwa kiasi gani kwa kufundisha watotro wazito hivi?

Ndo maana nilisema wanahitaji twisheni au waende QT binamu (kuna mtu kasema hii sehemu nimecheka)

 

[Kaizer]

haya majibu hayapo clear,kwa sababu:

KITAALAMU THERE IS A LIMIT TO EVERYTHING!mrusha mada anataka kujua zile MAXIMUM BENDING STRESSES/TENSIONS NA MOMENTS BEYOND WHICH UVUMILIVU WA MTU MMOJA MMOJA HAUTAWEZEKANA!

naomba sana TENA SANA tuwe wakweli kwenye hili!sikatai watu wanaweza kuvumilia,lakini KUNA LIMIT BEYOND WHICH YOU CANNOT VUMILIA AGAIN

ndo maana nimempenda charity alivyosema ten years

dah....mbona umegeneralise KITAALAM hivyo mpwa? hata wenye law zao walikuwa wanaspecify ni 'material' ya namna gani.....elasticity hiyo....

 

[Msanii]

naona thread hii ina washabiki mpaka mapadri nawaona huku....

 

[Fidel80]

Lol mambo haya yamekaa kimahaba zaidi wengine mnatuongezea hamu hapa sasa lol

 

[Teamo]

dah....mbona umegeneralise KITAALAM hivyo mpwa? hata wenye law zao walikuwa wanaspecify ni 'material' ya namna gani.....elasticity hiyo....

we unaijua elasticity tu?
hiyo sheria inaaply hadi unapokunja chuma,unapovunja ubao,HATA UNAPOKULA CHAKULA

 

[carmel]

naona thread hii ina washabiki mpaka mapadri nawaona huku....

Kwi, kwi kwi............ kaizer

 

[Masanilo]

Kabla sijampata mzenj nilikuwa nimekaa miaka 9 bila kufanya mapenzi wala kupiga nguga!

 

[Asprin]

we unaijua elasticity tu?
hiyo sheria inaaply hadi unapokunja chuma,unapovunja ubao,HATA UNAPODUMISHA MILA!

SAWA KABISA!
Naona muda si mrefu utaanza kuweka ma-assumptions na ma-neglections.......

 

[carmel]

Kabla sijampata mzenj nilikuwa nimekaa miaka 9 bila kufanya mapenzi wala kupiga nguga![/QUOTE]
ndo nini!

 

[Teamo]

SAWA KABISA!
Naona muda si mrefu utaanza kuweka ma-assumptions na ma-neglections.......

hii law hadi kwenye ndoa!ukikosana na mkeo/mumeo...KUNA LIMITS UTAZISET UNAPOMTAKA RADHI!YOU CANNOT APOLOGISE KWA KOSA LA KUCHELEWA KURUDI HOME SIKU MOJA TU FOR TEN YEARS!never

 

[Soulbrother]

I think the question should be "How long you can last during not without"

 

[Kiranja Mkuu]

Mi kwangu hiyo shughuli ni basic need.
Yaani nikiikosa kwa siku moja, naweza kupasuka kwa kuwaka tamaa.

 

[M-bongotz]

As long as mtarimbo umelala, ukiinuka tu kazi inaanza.

 

[Fidel80]

Kabla sijampata mzenj nilikuwa nimekaa miaka 9 bila kufanya mapenzi wala kupiga nguga!

Dah hongera sana sasa hii Nguga ndo nn au ndo penzi binafsi?
Si wengine zikipita siku 2 au 3 unahisi kama unaumwa vile maana hii kitu ipo damuni kabisa.

 

[Asprin]

we unaijua elasticity tu?
hiyo sheria inaaply hadi unapokunja chuma,unapovunja ubao,HATA UNAPOKULA CHAKULA

hii law hadi kwenye ndoa!ukikosana na mkeo/mumeo...KUNA LIMITS UTAZISET UNAPOMTAKA RADHI!YOU CANNOT APOLOGISE KWA KOSA LA KUCHELEWA KURUDI HOME SIKU MOJA TU FOR TEN YEARS!never

Hehehe! Mi ni kinyume chake. Huwa naapolojaizi nikiwahi kurudi. Sikumbuki siku niliyowahi kurudi. Naishukuru sana SHADES OF SIN. Angalau sasa Saa nnne kasorobo natia timu home.

 

[Mwananzuoni]

ukiwaza unaitaka itabidi upate maana mawazo kuyazui ni mpaka nafsi iamue,but for me I can stay longer s long as nina mambo meeeeeeengi ya kufanya n pia sijabariki hilo tendo lenyewe,but likiwa limebarikiwa mmh dia I shoul;d get it as much as posible n as long has haiumwi.

wewe mtoto!, hatari hiyo.........................., mmmmmmmmmmmmmmh

 

[carmel]

Hehehe! Mi ni kinyume chake. Huwa naapolojaizi nikiwahi kurudi. Sikumbuki siku niliyowahi kurudi. Naishukuru sana SHADES OF SIN. Angalau sasa Saa nnne kasorobo natia timu home.

kazi ipo

 

[Asprin]

kazi ipo

Afu leo kale kabatani ketu dah!!!. Yani mayuziful posti huyaoni au?

 

[Lady N]

Nikiwa naye na kama hamna kikwazo chochote 3days, kama hayupo as long as it take.

 

[Abunwasi]

Sexual abstinence

Long-term abstinence

Lifelong (or at least long-term) abstinence, often associated with religious [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asceticism"]asceticism[/ame], is distinguished from chastity before marriage. Abstinence is often viewed as an act of self-control over the natural desire to have sex. The display of the strength of character allows the abstainer to set an example for those not able to contain their "base urges." At other times, abstinence has been seen as a great social ill practiced by those who refuse to engage with the material and physical world. Some groups that propose sexual abstinence consider it an essential means to reach a particular intellectual or spiritual condition, or that chastity allows one to achieve a required self-control or self-consciousness.
Throughout history, and especially prior to the 20th century, there have been those who have held that sexual abstinence confers numerous health benefits. For males, lack of abstinence was thought to cause a reduction of vitality. In modern times, the argument has been phrased in biological terms, claiming that loss of [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Semen"]semen[/ame] through ejaculation results in a depletion of vital nutrients such as [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lecithin"]lecithin[/ame] and [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phosphorus"]phosphorus[/ame], which are also found at high levels in the [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brain"]brain[/ame]. Conservation of the semen allegedly allows it to be reabsorbed back into the bloodstream and aid in the healthy development of the body. Along these lines, the noted German philosopher [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friedrich_Nietzsche"]Friedrich Nietzsche[/ame] spoke of the positive physiological effects of abstinence: "The reabsorption of semen by the blood ... perhaps prompts the stimulus of power, the unrest of all forces towards the overcoming of resistances ... The feeling of power has so far mounted highest in abstinent priests and hermits" (quoted by Walter Kaufman in his classic, Nietzsche: Philosopher, Psychologist, Antichrist, p. 222). Before the "[ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_revolution"]sexual revolution[/ame]" of the 1960s, it was commonly believed by members of the medical profession that numerous mental and physical diseases in men were caused primarily by loss of [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nutrient"]nutrients[/ame] through seminal discharge, and that the deliberate conservation of this substance would lead to increased health, vitality, and intellectual prowess. This also applied to masturbation, which were also thought to lead to [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bedwetting"]bedwetting[/ame] and [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pseudoscience"]hairy palms[/ame].
Raymond W. Bernard, Ph.D. in his essay entitled Science discovers the physiological value of continence (1957) states:"t is clear that there is an important internal [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physiology"]physiological[/ame] relation between the secretions of the sex [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gland"]glands[/ame] and the [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Central_nervous_system"]central nervous system[/ame], that the loss of these secretions, voluntarily or involuntarily, exercises a detrimental effect on the nutrition and vitality of the nerves and brain, while, on the other hand, the conservation of these secretions has a vitalizing effect on the nervous system, a regenerating effect on the [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Endocrine_glands"]endocrine glands[/ame][,] and a rejuvenating effect on the organism as a whole."
Possible physical effects

Sexual abstinence diminishes the risk of contracting [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_disease"]sexually transmitted diseases[/ame]. On the other hand, it may necessitate relinquishment of potential health benefits of sex.
[ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queens_University"]Queens University[/ame] in Belfast tracked the mortality of about 1,000 middle-aged men over the course of a decade. The study, published in 1997 in the British Medical Journal found that "men who reported the highest frequency of orgasm enjoyed a death rate half that of the laggards". The report also cited other studies to show that having sex even a few times a week may be associated with: improved sense of smell; reduced risk of heart disease; weight loss and overall fitness; reduced depression (in women); the relief or lessening of pain; less frequent colds and flu; better bladder control; better teeth; and improved prostate function. The report cited a study published by the British Journal of Urology International which indicated that men in their 20s can reduce by a third their chance of getting prostate cancer by ejaculating more than five times a week.
Possible psychological effects

According to a paper published by US Conservative Policy Research organisation, [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Heritage_Foundation"]The Heritage Foundation[/ame], sexual abstinence in teenagers decreases the risk of contracting STDs and having children outside marriage.
It also alleges that compared to sexually abstinent teens, those who partake in sexual activity during high school years (e.g., at least until age 18) are:

• Approximately half as likely to graduate from school.
• Approximately half as likely to be accepted in of high school.
• Almost twice as likely to drop out from college.
• On average, having approximately 15 percent lower incomes.

Social background factors were also taken into account and compensated for in indications listed above. Such factors included race, parental education, family income, and family structure, as well as cases of [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teenage_pregnancy"]teenage pregnancy[/ame], indicating that sexual abstinence itself may be the primary factor
On the other hand, there have been numerous studies indicating that excessive repression of the sexual instinct leads to an increase in the overall level of aggression in a given society. Societies forbidding premarital sex are plagued by acts of rage, and tend to have higher rates of crime and violence. There may be a link between sexual repression and aggression, insensitivity, criminal behaviour, and a greater likelihood of killing and [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Torture"]torturing[/ame] enemies.
Chastity in religions

Chastity is a [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virtue"]virtue[/ame] expected of the faithful of many religions, including [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christianity"]Christianity[/ame] and [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islam"]Islam[/ame]. This usually includes abstinence from sex for the unmarried, and faithfulness to a [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage"]marriage[/ame] partner. In many religions, some groups of people are expected to practice celibacy—to abstain from sex completely, and remain unmarried. These groups include [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monk"]monks[/ame], [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nun"]nuns[/ame], and [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Priest"]priests[/ame] in various sects of Christianity. From the [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roman_Catholic"]Roman Catholic[/ame] perspective, everyone is called to chastity, be they married, single, or in a religious order. Chastity is a function of one's respect for the dignity of another, especially in a sexual context. Sex with one's spouse is not against chastity, so long as both remain open to having children; in course with this belief system, [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contraceptive"]contraceptives[/ame] violate "true" chastity.
In many [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion"]religions[/ame], chastity is required of the respective [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clergy"]sacerdotal[/ame] orders. In some religions, including some branches of Christianity such as [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roman_Catholic_Church"]Catholicism[/ame], [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Celibacy"]celibacy[/ame] is required for [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Priest"]priests[/ame] and/or [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monk"]monks[/ame]. The [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shakers"]Shakers[/ame], on the other hand, impose chastity in the form of celibacy for all members.
While there have been cultures which achieved total sexual abstinence, such as [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Castration_cult"]castration cults[/ame], it is unlikely that any of them survived for a substantial period of time, due to their lack of [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reproduction"]reproduction[/ame].
Christianity

In Christianity, sexual intercourse is meant to take place within the context of marriage; therefore, abstinence is expected of unmarried people. But for married couples, the apostle [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_of_Tarsus"]Paul[/ame] wrote that they should not deprive each other, except for a short time for devotion to [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prayer"]prayer[/ame].[5]
Judaism

Orthodox [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judaism"]Judaism[/ame] forbids intercourse outside marriage (which is termed zenuth or promiscuity), but has no ideal of chastity. Similar to Islamic religion, abstinence is required during a woman's menstruation.
Islam

Islam also forbids intercourse outside of marriage; however, maintaining celibacy as an act of piety is strongly discouraged, and marriage for all who are able is strongly encouraged. Similar to Judaism, abstinence is practiced during the time of a woman's [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Menstruation"]menstruation[/ame]. Abstinence from sexual intercourse is also practiced during the dawn to dusk fasts of [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ramadan"]Ramadan[/ame] or other fasting days.
Hinduism

The [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hindu"]Hindu[/ame] tradition of [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brahmacharya"]Brahmacharya[/ame] places great emphasis on abstinence as a way of harnessing the energy of body and mind towards the goal of [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spirituality"]spiritual[/ame] realization. In males, the semen ([ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Veerya"]Veerya[/ame]) is considered sacred, and its preservation (except when used for procreation) and conversion into higher life-energy ([ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ojas"]Ojas[/ame]) is considered essential for the development of enhanced intellectual and [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spirituality"]spiritual[/ame] capacities.
The blending of sexual and spiritual is portrayed in Hindu iconography, as seen in ubiquitous phallic and vaginal iconography in Hindu temples and for instance in the Kharjuraho and Konarak medieval temples, where thousands of couples having sex in endless positions, and with the gods, are carved in deep bass relief. However, these depictions of sex are not generally understood to be a license for free sexual practices, but are instead meant to celebrate procreation as an integral part of existence in the universe. In actual practice, there is a strong societal taboo against pre-marital sex for both males and females, which still exists today in Hindu societies.
Buddhism

In [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buddhism"]Buddhism[/ame], attachment to impermanent things is regarded as one of the major causes of suffering. Sex is arguably the strongest attachment to impermanent things which human beings have. The majority of Buddhist monastic traditions require celibacy.
Modern abstinence movements

Abstinence is recommended as a way to avoid [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pregnancy"]pregnancy[/ame] and [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_disease"]sexually transmitted diseases[/ame] (STDs). Without sexual contact, it is virtually impossible to conceive a child (other than through [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Artificial_insemination"]artificial insemination[/ame]). By avoiding exposure of the [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_organ"]sexual organs[/ame] to other people, one will also avoid the sexual transmission of many diseases (STDs). Note, however, that many STDs can also be transmitted non-sexually. Some STDs (including [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genital_wart"]genital warts[/ame] due to [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_papillomavirus"]human papillomavirus[/ame]) are passed through skin-to-skin contact, and are either not prevented by using a [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Condom"]condom[/ame], or such prevention is only partially effective. Further, some have noted that many do not consider [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_sex"]oral sex[/ame] or similar acts to violate abstinence. One study states that 55 percent of college students claiming abstinence had, indeed, performed oral sex. Many of these acts can transmit STDs
However, critics note that many abstinence education programs include information that although true, is misleading. For example, many programs exaggerate the risks of oral sex; the risk of exposure to [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HIV"]HIV[/ame] through [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saliva"]saliva[/ame] is significantly less than through exposure to semen. Furthermore, HIV is far more likely to be transmitted through saliva when the recipient is already infected with another sexually transmitted infection, such as [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Syphilis"]syphilis[/ame]. Epidemiological studies from sub-Saharan Africa, [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Europe"]Europe[/ame], and [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/North_America"]North America[/ame] have suggested that the risk of becoming infected with HIV in the presence of a [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genital_ulcer"]genital ulcer[/ame], such as those caused by syphilis and/or chancroid, is approximately four times higher.
Advocates also claim other benefits, such as the freedom from teenage pregnancy, and the resulting ability to focus on education and preparing for one's future.
Many critics of abstinence-promotion programs claim that these programs are not an effective way to decrease the occurrence of diseases and unwanted pregnancies.
While some claim that abstinence is the only 100 percent effective birth control method, that only applies to perfect use. In typical use abstinence is less effective; those intending to be abstinent may not do so, either voluntarily or through [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape"]nonconsensual sex[/ame]. As a public health measure, it is estimated that the protection provided by abstinence may be similar to that of condoms. Detractors claim that human nature leads to a high failure rate in practice.
Pregnancy can also be avoided through selective sexual abstinence. This method is generally known as [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fertility_awareness"]fertility awareness[/ame], or [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natural_family_planning"]natural family planning[/ame]. In order to be effective, the partners must abstain from sex for a time sufficient to ensure that no [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spermatozoon"]spermatozoa[/ame] (which have a lifespan of up to 5–6 days) are able to fertilize an [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ovum"]ovum[/ame] (which has a lifespan of up to 48 hours). There are a variety of types of fertility awareness. Observational systems, such as the sympto-thermo method, can have correct-use failure rates as low as one percent per year under perfect use, with a two-week abstinence period (According to the WHO, this method has an estimated 25% failure rate under ordinary use). Statistical methods such as the Standard Days Method have higher correct-use failure rates.