Dismiss Notice
You are browsing this site as a guest. It takes 2 minutes to CREATE AN ACCOUNT and less than 1 minute to LOGIN

Hivi ni kweli 80% ya wanawake walio kwenye ndoa Wanabakwa na Waume zao

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Mshume Kiyate, Oct 10, 2011.

  1. Mshume Kiyate

    Mshume Kiyate JF-Expert Member

    #1
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Feb 27, 2011
    Messages: 6,774
    Likes Received: 19
    Trophy Points: 135
    Wana JF.
    Katika matembezi yangu ya weekend nilikwenda sehemu moja kwa mapumziko kwenye ufukwe wa bahari.

    Wakati nimekaa pembeni yangu walikuwepo kina dada kama watano wakipiga story zao pembeni kuna watoto wao wanacheza.

    Kwenye mazungumzo yao wakawa wanaongelea mambo ya mahusiano, mimi kusikia hivyo nikategesha vizuri masikio yangu ili kudaka data.
    Dada mmoja akasema mume wangu ananikera sana yaani akitaka kufanya tendo la ndoa ananirukia tu akimaliza zake anageukia pembeni analala zake mpaka asubuhi.

    Mwingine nae akasema yaani kama baba Paul, yupo hivyo hiyo ananiboa kweli hiyo tabia.
    Mwingine nae akasema siku moja namwambia Mume wangu anichezee mwili wangu anikande kande akajibu sina muda, basi wote wakacheka huku wakiniangalia kama nawafuatilia mazungumzo yao, mimi nikajifanya busy na issue zangu nasoma gazeti langu.
    Dada mmoja akasema hata kazini pale benki, wenzangu wanalalamika kweli wanabakwa na Waume zao kila siku, yaani 80% ya Wanawake waliopo kwenye ndoa wanabakwa na Waume zao wakacheka tena.
    Wadau hivi ni kweli tujadili..
     
  2. Loly

    Loly JF-Expert Member

    #2
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Mar 10, 2011
    Messages: 459
    Likes Received: 41
    Trophy Points: 45
    ebo kweli? Duh dah sio mchezo, inabidi wakina dada wanaobakwa na waume zao waanzishe kachama kao kakuwatetea maana sasahivi ni enzi za haki sawa bana wao wanaenjoi wenyewe ati
     
  3. Baba_Enock

    Baba_Enock JF-Expert Member

    #3
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Aug 21, 2008
    Messages: 6,724
    Likes Received: 61
    Trophy Points: 145
    Umesikiliza maongezi ya Changudoa ukafanya majumuisho? Strange!
     
  4. JICHO LA 3

    JICHO LA 3 JF-Expert Member

    #4
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Oct 3, 2011
    Messages: 357
    Likes Received: 0
    Trophy Points: 0
    mh? pole yao ndo maana bado niponipo kwanza
     
  5. R

    Rweye JF-Expert Member

    #5
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Mar 16, 2011
    Messages: 12,752
    Likes Received: 1,323
    Trophy Points: 280
    Tatzo wakitoka kuangalia playboy films wanataka na wao wafanyiwe hayo,sie ni waafrika kidogo kidogo ndo mtindo mkianza kuwaza michezo ya playboy hakika mtazivunja ndoano na majuto ni kitukuu
     
  6. Shantel

    Shantel JF-Expert Member

    #6
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Feb 7, 2011
    Messages: 2,024
    Likes Received: 15
    Trophy Points: 0
    Khaaa inakuwaje sasa hapo
     
  7. Tulizo

    Tulizo JF-Expert Member

    #7
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Jun 13, 2011
    Messages: 842
    Likes Received: 18
    Trophy Points: 35
    ..Kuna lile tangazo la sema usikike.. Kama mume wako anakurukia kwa nini usiseme ukasikika... Kama unakubali kurukiwa na kukaa kimya umependa mwenyewe na wala siyo kubakwa...

    Sema usikike!
     
  8. Power G

    Power G JF-Expert Member

    #8
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Apr 20, 2011
    Messages: 3,879
    Likes Received: 17
    Trophy Points: 135
    Kwa kweli ni vema akina baba tuwape haki zao akina mama. Ila Mkuu chatu dume umenikwaza kidogo kutaja baba Paul, sijui ni mimi niliyekuwa nazungumziwa na mama Paul au vipi, maana nami ni Baba Paul! Itabidi nimuweke kibano anipe ukweli kama nambaka kila siku na hajawahi kuniambia.
     
  9. a

    actus Senior Member

    #9
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Oct 7, 2011
    Messages: 104
    Likes Received: 0
    Trophy Points: 0
    mkuu mwanamke kwenye ndoa habakwi.ukisema anabakwa sasa hapo si kesi.labda useme hawaandaliwi vizuri
    hapo kuna mawili anaweza kusema hapati conjugal right yani hapigwi kazi vizuri to the fulest satisfaction na hapo anaweza kwenda kulalamika katika hilo.ila asiseme anabakwa.
    huyo baba paul inaonekana umri umeenda sasa mama paul nae akumbuke kua enzi za ujana wakati ule wa boyfriend ilikuaje.sasa kwa sasa ni manfriend obvious jamaa akishajipigia kimoja choka mbaya.mamabo mengi yanatosababisha katika hili wanaume mnajua vizuri
     
  10. Mzee wa Rula

    Mzee wa Rula JF-Expert Member

    #10
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Oct 6, 2010
    Messages: 8,161
    Likes Received: 39
    Trophy Points: 145
    Ki kweli kuna hili tatizo la wanaume kutowaandaa wenzi wao katika ndoa! Hili linaweza kuwa linasababishwa na mazoea, ubusy wa wa wanandoa hususani wanaume n.k Tatizo hili linaweza kupatiwa ufumbuzi kwa wanawake wenyewe kuwa wawazi kwa waume, ni imani yangu endapo mwanamke akimwambia mwenzi wake mume nashukuru lakini mwenzako umeniacha tafadhali naomba ulifanyie kazi hilo. Wanaume wana tendency ya kutaka kuwaridhisha wenzi wao kwa hofu ya kuonekana hawajui na kuogopa kudharauliwa, basi jamaa atajitahidi kurepeat ambapo katika hilo unaweza kujikuta umefika mwisho wa lami.
     
  11. Mshume Kiyate

    Mshume Kiyate JF-Expert Member

    #11
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Feb 27, 2011
    Messages: 6,774
    Likes Received: 19
    Trophy Points: 135
    Sio Changudoa kaka wewe nifariji tu
     
  12. Mshume Kiyate

    Mshume Kiyate JF-Expert Member

    #12
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Feb 27, 2011
    Messages: 6,774
    Likes Received: 19
    Trophy Points: 135
    Mzee wa Rula, maneno yako ni ya ujenzi
     
  13. Mshume Kiyate

    Mshume Kiyate JF-Expert Member

    #13
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Feb 27, 2011
    Messages: 6,774
    Likes Received: 19
    Trophy Points: 135
    Mkuu wangu, kwani mama Paul, siku ya jumapili alikwenda South Beach Kigamboni?
     
  14. CR wa PROB

    CR wa PROB Senior Member

    #14
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Sep 21, 2011
    Messages: 170
    Likes Received: 0
    Trophy Points: 0
    Kama akina dada wengi wangekuwa wawazi wasingebakwa, kwa kifupi huwa hawapendi kusema kuwa wameridhika au vipi. Ila ni kweli kabisa huwa wengi wao huwa hawafikishwi kwenye kilele cha mlima, hata kama sijaoa ila kwa hili lina ukweli kabisa ndani ya maisha yetu!
     
  15. The Boss

    The Boss JF-Expert Member

    #15
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Aug 18, 2009
    Messages: 36,151
    Likes Received: 14,520
    Trophy Points: 280
    kuna ukweli....na wanasema wataaalamu ndo za hivyo hata sex inakuwa sio sana

    ukitaka kubadili hali hiyo mwambie mkeo yeye ndio sterling kitandani...akuongoze yeye hatua kwa hatua..

    mwache yeye awe in charge.....utashangaaa.....lol
     
  16. BAK

    BAK JF-Expert Member

    #16
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Feb 11, 2007
    Messages: 50,161
    Likes Received: 9,852
    Trophy Points: 280
    Mhhhh! Haya banaaa! :)....isije tu baadhi wakaugomea huo usterling watakaopewa.
     
  17. The Boss

    The Boss JF-Expert Member

    #17
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Aug 18, 2009
    Messages: 36,151
    Likes Received: 14,520
    Trophy Points: 280
    aah wapi...we mwambie yeye atoe maelekezo tu mnaanza vipi ,mnamaliza vipi....
    utashangaaa,hasa kwenye fore play....ukimwambia foreplay ni mpaka aseme yes for next step utajua tu next time...

    mruhusu akuzuie for next step kama anaona foreplay bado haijamkolea....

    ingawa ni kweli pia womens hate to tell their man,what to do in bed.....lakini enzi hizi zamalalamiko
    bora akuambie tu lol
     
  18. mikatabafeki

    mikatabafeki JF-Expert Member

    #18
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Dec 29, 2010
    Messages: 12,838
    Likes Received: 2,012
    Trophy Points: 280
    bado sijaingia huko.................ila nitajua tu
     
  19. Husninyo

    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

    #19
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Oct 24, 2010
    Messages: 23,718
    Likes Received: 396
    Trophy Points: 180
    Dah! Bora kubakana kuliko kubakwa.
     
  20. BPM

    BPM JF-Expert Member

    #20
    Oct 10, 2011
    Joined: Mar 10, 2011
    Messages: 2,765
    Likes Received: 7
    Trophy Points: 135
    hili tatizo kweli lipo maana sie wanaume maa nyingi tunakuwa kama tunalazimisha mapenzi kwani suala la maandalizi wanawake wengi wanategemea kuandaliwa na waume / wanaume wakati wao kama wao kiakili hawajiandai na pia hawatoi ushirikiano. na kumbuka mwanaume kama ngoma imeshakaa wima huna cha kusubiri au kubembeleza ushirikiano unapanda mzigo unamaliza na yeye anabaki njiani
     
Loading...