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Hivi huu nao ni unyanyapaa?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Paul S.S, Dec 1, 2010.

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    Paul S.S Verified User

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    Leo ni siku ya ukimwi duniani, siku ambayo tunakumbushwa kuhusu gonjwa hili,pamoja na mambo mengine pia tunaaswa kutowatenga na kuwanyanyapaa waathirika

    na siku hii ya leo napenda kushea nanyi kisa hiki kwa ushauri wenu.
    Januari mwaka huu nilienda moro kwenye harusi ya mshkaji wangu na katika pilika za harusi ikatokea tumepewa jukumu la kusimamia vinyaji na binti mmoja makini sana, nakatika mazungumzo yetu tukajuana kumbe na yeye anakaa Dar, basi tukapeana contact
    baada kama wiki mbili akanipigia nihudhurie kikao cha harusi ya ndugu yake sinza, hapo ndipo nilipomuona vizuri na kutambua uzuri wake.
    Nikavuta subira vikao vikaenda hadi harusi, hiyo ilikua april.
    Siku ya kuvunja kamati nikamtolea uvivu nikampa yamoyoni.aliniomba nimpe mda, baada ya wiki akanijibu the same, mtu mzima nikajua nimetolewa nje kiani. Nikaacha kumtafuta, akaanza yeye kuja moto, baada ya muda mambo yakawa shwari majina ikawa ni dear, darling, honey, swetee nk.
    Tatizo likawa moja mzigo sipewi, nimesha lala nae mara 3 ananiambia nisiwe na haraka.
    Maranyingi tukiwanae anauliza sana mara umepima? Ukijua mpenzi wako vvu utafanyaje? Namengi yanayofanana na hayo, mimi nilikunamjibu juu juu tu naona ananiyeyusha,
    nilipombana zaidi akataka tukapime kwanza wote, kwakua nilikua nimemind nikakubali.
    Sikuamini nilichosikia na kuona kuwa huyu binti ameathirika mimi nipo ok. Baada ya hapo nikaanza kama kumuogopa hivi.
    Ndipo aliponieleza ukweli kuwa alikua anajua kama ana vvu toka mwaka jana na anatumia vidonge, alishindwa kuniambia akaamua kutumia njia hiyo na aliomba ushauri kwa dokta ambaye alitupima, dokta akamwambia aniambie mimi nikapime nae kwa huyo dokta ili atushauri. kisha dokta akatushauri namna salama ya jinsi ya kufanya bila kuniambukiza, hivyo hatuna haja ya kuachana, tena tukitaka tunaweza hata kuzaa watoto salama.
    Baada ya hapo kusema kweli mzuka wote umeniisha nikabaki na act upendo kama mwanzo,hata denda nikawa najishtukia, na mbaya kuliko zote nipale tulipopanga tuivunje ile amri ya sita, kilichotokea siku hiyo jogoo likagoma kabisa kuwika.
    Masikini binti wawatu muelewa kweli akanambia najua ni hofu usijali tutajaribu asubuhi, nilipo amka nikajifanya naharaka nikaondoka.
    Tukapanga tena the same thing happen, basi binti analia tu eti namuona kama mnyama mara namnyanyapaa, akinipigia tuonane labda itokee nikashindwa kwenda basi inakua balaa namtenga, namkimbia nk.
    Tuna wiki ya 3 sasa ameniambia maneno makali sana nahataki kuniona tena wala hapokei simu yangu, facebook kanitoa.
    Rafiki yake ameniletea mashtaka eti anadai nimemnyanyapaa na kumzalilisha sana.

    Naombeni mawazo yenu kama nimemkosea au vipi
     
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    Mahanjam JF-Expert Member

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    Kaka kwa kweli innabidi umpe heshima zote huyo mdada, coz angetaka kukuharibia angefanya hivyo but she behaved responsibly! I know u need time to digest the info. But don't sideline her , just talk each other through the whole thing whatever decision u make. She cares about u and that's y she thought u should know her status.
     
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    FirstLady1 JF-Expert Member

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    Katika watu wanaoukupenda huyo mrembo nambari one.
    Mpe tu hali halisi kwamba unaogopa hasa baada ya kujua status yake mweleze kwa upole kabisa ni muelewa na ataendelea kukuelewa sana
    Ingekuwa mwingine angekuruhusu long ago mle tunda na tena angesisitiza kuwa Condoms hasikii lolote na anakupenda kama roho yake .akikukosa wewe atakata roho kabla ya siku zake
    Na mbaya zaidi angekuconvice mpaka mkala tunda kavu kavu ... what iz next ?
    ooh my god nampa hongera huyo dada mungu amzidishie imani kama hiyo ni wachache wenye mapenzi mema na wenzao
     
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    seniorita JF-Expert Member

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    "Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
    Love never ends"

    Mpendwa let your decisions be guided by love....and even if you decide not to go far with her; you can still love her....huyo no msichana mwenye busara na anayekupenda ndio maana hajakudhuru...sio wengi wa aina hiyo
     
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    Gaijin JF-Expert Member

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    Huyo dada ni wa kupigiwa mfano.

    Alishindwa kukutamkia wazi lakini amefanya la maana kukupeleka mkapime wote hivyo kujua status yake. Angetaka angekuambukiza kama wanavyoambukiza wengine.

    Inwezekana kuwa alikuwa hataki aingiwe na mapenzi kwa mwanamme na ndio maana akakataa mwanzo, lakini sasa amekupenda na alijipa tamaa ya kuwa ana chance ya kupendwa na anajuta kwa kuingia kwenye tamaa hiyo.

    Bila ya shaka anajisikia vibaya kuwa hakuna mtu anaeweza kumpenda kwa sababu ana virusi hivyo.

    Ongea nae mkuu taratibu na kwa upole umueleze kuwa una hofu, na kama haikuwezekana kuwa na wewe atatokea mwengine atakaeridhika kuishi nae akiwa na hali hiyo.
     
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    Dena Amsi JF-Expert Member

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    Muheshimu sana huyo dada aisee anakupenda kuliko watu wote angetaka kukumaliza si angefanya hivyo lakini kakuheshimu saa mpaka hapo. Muheshimu mrudi tena kwenye ushauri jinsi ya kujamiiana na mtu + na - inawezekana. Ilaa dah dada mzuri sana
     
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    Mayu JF-Expert Member

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    Ndugu yangu mtafute huyo mdada uongee nae.
    Lakini naomba kuuliza wakati mlipotaka ku do jogoo akagoma kuwika ulimficha au alijua kuwa kunahali kama hiyo? Maana kama hajui atadhani umemvua halafu ukakataa tu na si kama hali halisi
     
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    MadameX JF-Expert Member

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    Mpe respect huyo dada kwa ujasiri wake na alivyokupenda kwa dhati, but when it comes to sex be frankly that you can't take risk. Hilo ni somo kwako,next time try to make sure mwenzio yuko salama kabla ya kuomba tunda.

    Such human being are very rare to find, just make her feel loved and appreciated!
     
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    Paul S.S Verified User

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    Mkuu kama ulikuwepo, hiyo ni moja ya sababu iliomfanya akasirike sana
     
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    Gaijin JF-Expert Member

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    It seems that she is not angry with you but angry with herself.

    Mungu amsaidie kwa kumpa patience
     
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    Paul S.S Verified User

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    mkuu ilibidi nimawambie
     
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    Paul S.S Verified User

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    Unajua alipokasirika nakuondoka akisema basi nadhanilikosea sana kuto onyesha juhudi za kumtafuta ilituyaongee badala yake nikaona kama ni njia muafaka ya kumtema.
    Wakuu kwa post zenu nahisi kama nahitaji kufanya kitu, siku wahi kuwaza kama amenifanyia uungwana wahali ya juu, nimelala nae mara tatu tena ktk mazingira ambapo hatukuwa na maandalizi hata ya condom, inamaana angekubali tu, dah.
    Na kwa kuanza blv me or not nimemtumia sms ya upole kuomba tuonane akitoka kazini leo, kanijibu in short sina muda, nika insist akanijibu nimtafute jmosi

    wasi wasi wangu nikuwa itakuwaje ile hali maana mwisho wasiku tuta do, pia nadhani kuna haja ya kurudi kwa yule dokta kwa ushauri zaidi
     
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    Gaijin JF-Expert Member

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    Paulss

    Usijilazimishe kuwa na mtu kwa sababu unamuonea huruma. Kama moyo wako hauko tayari kuwa pamoja na mtu mwenye VVU basi acha muda upite huku ukiwaza zaidi.

    Kuonana nae na kuzungumza nae ni jambo la kiungwana kabisa, lakini usijekutaka kumuonyesha kuwa 'unampenda' kwa kumwambia mwende mkafanye.

    Onana nae umuombe msamaha umuambie kuwa bado uko kwenye shock na hujui unafanya nini lakini ungependa kuwa kwenye contact nae bado mpaka ujue mawazo yako yakoje.

    Kama amaweza kuishi na VVU kwa muda wote huo nafikiri tayari ana nguvu za kuweza kustahamili mambo mengi tu. Nataraji atakuelewa.
     
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    Shishi JF-Expert Member

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    mmmmnh yaani huyo dada mbona she's one of her kind....angetake kukupa live live inaonekana ungekula tu lakini she chose to tell u the truth, u need to thank her for saving your life, and just let her know that u are also in shock and need time to digest the news .....do not block her out. be her genuine friend!
     
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    Paul S.S Verified User

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    Thanx mkuu,
    ur advice are highly appreceated
     
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    B'REAL JF-Expert Member

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    ni binadamu wa kuingwaa katika hii dunia,watu wate wangekuwaa kamaa yeyee nazani ngomaa ingepungua.
     
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