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Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by tracy, Dec 7, 2010.

  1. tracy

    tracy JF-Expert Member

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    If you are in a relationship and uko so honest to your partner,.doing what's best for you to to be together though mko in a long distance relationship,but can meet lets say once per month,. your partner(a guy) sometimes acts so violent towards you,his happy when you buy him staffs but seldom does that,you sometimes feel that he rarely understands your feelings,he trusts his friends more than he trusts you.
    you try talking to him,reasoning with him about things that make you unhappy but you just find you aint such a priority to him..but when you two are together,you forget all this.it comes back when he does the same things over again..what would you have done?
     
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    Pole mwaya...umekamatika....the guy got the magical buttons with him....
     
  3. afrodenzi

    afrodenzi Platinum Member

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    this sounds like a teenager love????
    He need to grow up and stap up his game if he want the relationship to work..
    another thing sametime guys love to spent time or talk to there friends more...
    but dis depends with age....
     
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    Do you love him?
    How long is your relationship?
    Did it start as a long distance or it happened after you two were already together?
     
  5. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    He got the magic stick
     
  6. tracy

    tracy JF-Expert Member

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    i do love him,sana,.its a 4years old rltnshp and we have been that way ever since.
     
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    tracy JF-Expert Member

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    with the part of talking to friends,i also have friends but he comes 1st.
     
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    WAT! and he has been acting like hat since then?
    IS he your first boyfriend?
    How old are you? (labda u r too advanced in age unadhani ukimuacha huyo hutapata mwingine)
    Do you feel satisfied to still be in such a relationship?
    Do you feel you deserve more than that? Like you are worth more than that?
    ...
     
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    chelenje JF-Expert Member

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    Kazi kweli kweli...
     
  10. RR

    RR JF-Expert Member

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    Orait......ananyanyasika ila kila akimwona jamaa analegea....
     
  11. Kimbweka

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    Kapumpusha
     
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    am 22.he is my 1st.
     
  13. RR

    RR JF-Expert Member

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    Hebu fungua akili yako aisee...surely he ain't the only living thing with a stick....
     
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    tracy JF-Expert Member

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    Thank you,i surely will
     
  15. afrodenzi

    afrodenzi Platinum Member

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    trust me most of guys under 25 love to spent time with there friends more than there girlfriends/partner..........
    they are not mature enough to be commuted in a serious relation...
    before i go on how old is he???
     
  16. Mentor

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    Tracy,
    haya maswali ninakuuliza nataka ujijibu from in-depth thinking! then uchukue hatua...yako mwenyewe, lest u come to blame any 1 here.
     
  17. Konakali

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    Never struggle to make some one to trust you..... but you have to be trustful instead.... So, you be trustful to him, and he will get back normal later....
     
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    she needs to try other sticks for awhile before sticking to the magic stick

    what a sticky situation
     
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    :nono::focus:There is a time for departure even when there's no certain place to go.
     
  20. MwanajamiiOne

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    Hata sijui nianzie wapi tracy... I have been there ...............all I can say to you my dia sisy is ......LISTEN TO YOUR INNER INSTINCT..................it is the truth.
     
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