"Help! I'm Trapped In a Relationship I Don't Want to Be In!"

vivian

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Hey guyz! I've got A boyfriend who really cares for me monetary wise!! The opposite side of the coin is that we have no marriage plans!. The way I look at him I dont see my future with him. Nataka kumuacha lakini nashindwa jamani. Alishawahi kunitamkia wazi, Babu yao aliacha laana kwao mtu yeyote aioe mchagga and he wont go against that! At the age of 24 I really need a serious relationship!! am sorry my Pal if you are reading this! Am not growing any younger!!!
Please members just advise on how am I going to tell him to go on his own!! This guy has been paying my rent, DSTV bills, Fueling my Car frequently, Lots me kwakweli. But I just need to say enough now.
Jamani nashindwa nimuanzeje?
 
you must be joking!! Tell him you want to be In a realistic world and thats all! we vipi bana!!
 
Hapo kwenye masuala ya Uchaga tuwe makini sana..maana vinginevyo pataleta ugomvi hapa jamvini, iam talking through vivid examples which have raised misunderstandings right inhere, not even a week ago!...Coming back to your subject, Dada Vivian,unatakiwa kusoma ishara za nyakati, na uwe imara katika maamuzi...Una maana wewe umekatwa mikono na huwezi kusimama kwa miguu yako mwenyewe hadi umtegemee mtu akulipie hizo bills?...Shituka..u are wasting time, na utakuja kuujutia muda huo...Kama una uhakika kwamba hakuoi, why hesitate in decision?..Mfuate umwambie kuwa unataka kuolewa, na akwambie 'in face kinachoendelea....
 
EEH!
hii ni kali nyingine kutoka kwa vivian

nadhani wapwa tutaweka kambi hapa leo!
KAMATA SENSKSI KWA KWANZA!............
senksi
 
Hey guyz! I've got A boyfriend who really cares for me monetary wise!! The opposite side of the coin is that we have no marriage plans!. The way I look at him I dont see my future with him. Nataka kumuacha lakini nashindwa jamani. Alishawahi kunitamkia wazi, Babu yao aliacha laana kwao mtu yeyote aioe mchagga and he wont go against that! At the age of 24 I really need a serious relationship!! am sorry my Pal if you are reading this! Am not growing any younger!!!
Please members just advise on how am I going to tell him to go on his own!! This guy has been paying my rent, DSTV bills, Fueling my Car frequently, Lots me kwakweli. But I just need to say enough now.
Jamani nashindwa nimuanzeje?

....................!mh!
mila zingine bana!
ENDELEA KUMCHUNA MAMA!ukimaliza kujenga mpige ya kichwa
 
Hapo kwenye masuala ya Uchaga tuwe makini sana..maana vinginevyo pataleta ugomvi hapa jamvini, iam talking through vivid examples which have raised misunderstandings right inhere, not even a week ago!...Coming back to your subject, Dada Vivian,unatakiwa kusoma ishara za nyakati, na uwe imara katika maamuzi...Una maana wewe umekatwa mikono na huwezi kusimama kwa miguu yako mwenyewe hadi umtegemee mtu akulipie hizo bills?...Shituka..u are wasting time, na utakuja kuujutia muda huo...Kama una uhakika kwamba hakuoi, why hesitate in decision?..Mfuate umwambie kuwa unataka kuolewa, na akwambie 'in face kinachoendelea....

Thanks a lot PJ.
 
Suala ni hizo offer which you count them as "how the guy cares about me" or future yako which needs you work hard for it because the serious guys, with all the attributes of husband material, might not be in a position to offer you all that the other guy gives.
 
halafu vivian,
achana na vionjo ambavyo ni too MATERIAL KWENYE RELATIONS!

mapenzi ni zaidi ya kile kinachofikiriwa au kujadiliwa!

mali,hela diesitivii na nini huwa vinapendeza sana kama UTASHIRIKI KATIKA KUVITAFUTA UKIWA KWENYE NDOA YAKO
 
Hey guyz! I've got A boyfriend who really cares for me monetary wise!! The opposite side of the coin is that we have no marriage plans!. The way I look at him I dont see my future with him. Nataka kumuacha lakini nashindwa jamani. Alishawahi kunitamkia wazi, Babu yao aliacha laana kwao mtu yeyote aioe mchagga and he wont go against that! At the age of 24 I really need a serious relationship!! am sorry my Pal if you are reading this! Am not growing any younger!!!
Please members just advise on how am I going to tell him to go on his own!! This guy has been paying my rent, DSTV bills, Fueling my Car frequently, Lots me kwakweli. But I just need to say enough now.
Jamani nashindwa nimuanzeje?
Ha ha ha bibie nikisoma post yako hapo naona kabisa hapo hakuna hata mmoja aliempenda mwenzake wote mpo na faida fulani Jamaa may be anapenda awe na wewe kwa ajili ya ku show up na wewe upo kwake kimasilai zaidi!! No wonder watu hupaka dada zetu wa kichaga kwa ishu kama izi!! So we kama kweli unataka life just tell him (Najua ni ngumu) ila we mweleze uantaka future so afanye uamuzi (Kama kweli unampenda lakini)!!
 
EEH!
hii ni kali nyingine kutoka kwa vivian

nadhani wapwa tutaweka kambi hapa leo!
KAMATA SENSKSI KWA KWANZA!............
senksi

And here is the PILLAR brainstorming! Haa! Mshiki! Kula SENKSI kwanza kabla sijamwaga mapwenti hapa!
 
Uliingia mwenyewe, then utakua unajua njia ya kutokea pia.
Hakuna wa kukutoa, except we mwenyewe!
Kwa kuwa unayemfahamu, chagua njia ambayo ni 'most compromising' ili muachane.....hakuna awezae kukutoa vizuri kama wewe ujuaye njia uliyoingilia.

NB: Muhimu ni kuwa tayari kukabiliana na athari za breakup.
 
I call you Mzee with a lot of hesitation. I say so because the word Mzee is now used to address all sorts of fellows including fifteen year-old thieves so long as they have money.

dah!ndo nimeanza kukusoma!...NAENDELEA KUKUTAFAKARI MSHIKI.lete waree:D
 
tatizo mabinti mko commercial zaidi, kuacha unataka kuendelea unataka, Lol.
 
Njoo kwangu natafuta mchumba wa kuishi nae wengi wao nao wapata wananichuna kumbe wana majamaa zao kisha wananiacha solemba kama vp we niPM kitu kusaidiana kunyimana mwiko jamani hata maandiko yanakataza.
 
Njoo kwangu natafuta mchumba wa kuishi nae wengi wao nao wapata wananichuna kumbe wana majamaa zao kisha wananiacha solemba kama vp we niPM kitu kusaidiana kunyimana mwiko jamani hata maandiko yanakataza.

Fidel there is something not good about you!!! do you know it?
 
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