is it bad to keep the prizes of past r/ship as souvenirs? Elizabeth is currently dating a 34-year-old guy who is very loving and caring to me. However, he is very cautious and secretive about his past relationships never talking about them except for this one lady. The bitter bit is that everywhere I look there are reminders of her, which include presents and souvenirs with romantic love messages. Recently, I found very intimate photos of them both. He has no answer when I ask him why he keeps them especially because the relationship ended three years ago. I once wore a bracelet from my ex-boyfriend and he got very mad about it although he does not understand that I feel the same way. I do not know if I am being overly jealous or that it should be just me to forget about my past in this relationship. I recently found a ring, which seemed like a wedding ring with the girls name on it. I do not know what to make of this and I try not to think about it. However, the more I think about it I get convinced that he may be married to this other woman even though he has repeatedly said he is not. Am I going overboard by asking him to get rid of all those memories, and how can I find out if he is married?