Habari wana sebule..i started dating a guy 3months ago (my 2nd boyfriend ever-i dated the first for a month before we got separated) the time between them was about two years.i am a late bloomer and i rily dont know wat people do in relationshipa-except the sex part! So i started havn a lil' sum sum with BF #2 about 3weeks after we started dating and now he is acting weird!he rarely calls,nikimtafuta he is not usually available-but when he is finally available it is great!he still hasnt officially met my friends and i think he is avoiding to meet them-he says he doesnt want them in our business. It was great between the sheets at first but now he is lazy-i have to do all the work-and he doesnt 'go down there' while i go down on him,and it pisses me off!wen i complain he 'pumps' it kwa masifa mpaka i just about get vaginal prolapse! i dont think i love him but he is fun when he wants to be..is this kawaida or should i pack my bags and leave??