Uko kwenye ndoa. Umeoa/kuolewa na your dream man/woman. You met this guy few years back and all was paradise. You had all the funny you wanted. You could not let him go. He was the end of the road, alpha and omega. You could not wait to introduce him/her to your parents who acce pted him/her. By the way, why should they reject him/her while he is the choice of your life. You cannot wait to hold his/her hand and go to the church/mosque. You are now a husband and wife. This is now the moment of truth. All the nightmare ends here. You have kids, family responsibilities and the like. Everything regarding romantic life seems to stop. It is now Simba na yanga, when a husband says yes the wife says no! Thesleepless nights are countless. Sometimes you are wondering if it was the wrong choice! Kila kitu kinasimama! Your life is miserable! It is only children who keeps you going. Sex life is boring and complete lydead. You are tempted to test the VULTURES (mahawara) who are waiting outside, eagerly. You convince yourself that they will keep you alive, satisfy you. However, you fail to see that satisfaction will last for few minutes and all your problems will continue. Unasahau kuwa hata hawara akiwa mke/mume yatakuwa yale yale. wahenga walisema hawara haolewi!! Some will start drinking heavily, spend most of the time in the bars, avoiding their spouse!At this point you start searching for the one you once loved. You ask him/her, Iwant the woman/man I loved, it is not you!!!! Where is he/she?je, yameshakutokea majaribu na ulifanya nini? unatakiwa kuikabiri vipi hali hii ili mrudi kuwa kawaida?