Gay men keep talking about their sexuality. They feel insecure and unsafe all the time. Even when straights are least bothered. It's like pulling the tail or tugging at the tail of a sleeping lion. I do not mean straights are superior by using the term 'lion'. No no. I just mean we gays some times provoke them straights. Wearing those skinnies and make up all over your face and yet you are a dude is like carrying a placard written 'I am gay!'. I mean who cares? Just be confident in your gay skin without announcing to the whole world. Behaving like a girl in social places doesn't help you either. Even the so called gay bashing many times occurs when gays provoke the rest of society.