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FOR MEN'S ONLY: 5 signs she wants to date you.

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Gbollin, Jul 9, 2011.

  1. Gbollin

    Gbollin JF-Expert Member

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    [FONT=&amp]In terms of figuring out how to comprehend a woman's feelings about us when we're trying to make the leap from "friends" to "friends who kiss," men often overlook obvious signs. This is especially true for guys who've been burned in the past (and who hasn't been?) who are wary about rejection. Maybe we're not totally oblivious, but we often have a difficult time reading signals. So here are a few signs she's interested in a kiss - consider them your green light to get closer.[/FONT][FONT=&amp]

    [/FONT] 1. The "let's laugh" signal
    If she makes you feel like a stand-up comedian, even though you're not that funny, she wants to take it to the next level, It shows that girls interested in playing a bit of a cat-and-mouse game, you know? She'll say something like, ‘I think you're just making that up,' or ‘honestly now, has that line worked?' but she say it with a big smile and eye contact so you knows how to figure it.


    2. The tell-tale time sign
    If you are friends with a woman and sometimes wonder if there might be more there, take heed of when and where she wants to hang out with you. If she wants to meet you for a quick workday lunch, chances are she doesn't like you in the way you might hope. But if she asks you to meet her for a gallery opening in the evening or to see a movie with her on a Saturday at 8 p.m., she may be casting you in more of a boyfriend role.

    3. The body language clues
    OK, so the odds of a woman reaching out to hold your hand while you're flirting with her are slim to none. So how does she use her body to show you she's interested? I believe a woman's gestures will send you the message. "Her body language will give her away - if a woman leans in toward a guy while he's talking, mimics his body language, and maybe sneaks in a subtle touch here or there, these are pretty good signs that she's into him. Obviously, You should get her phone number and actually call." And how does a guy know if a woman isn't interested? "If she is looking around the room while you talking to her and crossing her arms across her chest, she's probably not that interested. Also, if she tells you that would be perfect for her sister or she suddenly brings up the fact that she's been talking to her ex-boyfriend, there's probably not a spark there." The guy should just move on to a woman who is worth his time... or possibly take the uninterested woman up on her set-up offer.

    4. The look that says "I like you"
    A guy should also know what kind of eye contact is waving him in for a kiss. Direct eye contact that lasts more than a couple of seconds is a sign of interest, say the experts. And if a woman looks from your eyes to your mouth, well, things are in very, very good shape. Girls don't know if it's conscious or not, but when she likes a guy, she'll find her gaze wanders from your eyes to your mouth, It's definitely a seduction move; it lets you know that she's thinking about what it would be like to kiss him. Gentlemen, if you're getting that signal, this is another time you want to go ahead and get that phone number.

    5. Taking the next step
    Once we men realize a woman genuinely likes us, our minds are oftentimes so blown that we have no idea how to proceed. Once she gives you these hints, you need to close the deal. Ask her to talk to you away from her friends or call her up on the phone and say, ‘You know what? I want to take you out for a nice dinner - just the two of us.'"

    What if the object of your affection is a woman you've known as a friend for awhile? Over dinner, you have the talk. You say, ‘I'd really like to become more than friends. I'd like to start dating you. What do you think of that?' At this point, she's given you every single sign that this is the conversation she's been dreaming about and of course the answer is going to be yes."

    So it all really boils down to a two-pronged plan: pay attention and take a chance. If you focus your energy on the woman in question rather than on yourself or your surroundings (which is what you should be doing anyway), you'll pick up more than you ever thought you could have. And if you disregard the very obvious signs - the laughing, the touching, the eye contact - and you don't go for it, well then, you must not be into her!.


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  2. Gaga

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    Mhhhh tumekwisha
     
  3. CPU

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    5 Signs She's Into You

    Understanding the Signals of Women

    Note: This article assumes you already know her – this is not advice for men just trying to figure out if the Hooters waitress thinks you’re cute, OK? This is for men who’ve already met the woman they’re trying to figure out.

    1. She initiates emails and phone calls for no reason.
    In other words, she’s not calling / emailing you to find out if you can fix her car, to find out if you can loan her some dosh, or to find out if you can paint her living room pink. She’s calling just to chat

    2. She “fixes” you up.
    No, not with other women. I mean fix up your clothing. If she straightens your tie, unbuttons a button, straightens your hair a bit – these are strong indications she’s into you. And even if she’s not in love with you, she’s likely very attracted to you.

    3. She asks questions about your family and your past.

    Women like to hear about their man’s childhood and family experiences because it makes them feel closer to him. If she’s asking what life was like in your home, that means she wants to get to know you – and what made you the way you are today.

    4. She touches you.

    This can take nearly any form. Does she bump into you a lot? Unless you’re deliberately walking into her, that’s a sign she likes being very close to you – this is not something people do unless they’re interested. It’s probably not conscious, but it’s real all the same. Does she slap you playfully? Does she rest a hand on your arm, shoulder, etc, even for a few seconds? Women who aren’t into a man are very careful to avoid this kind of thing.

    5. Another woman tells you so.

    The easiest way to tell if a hottie is into you, is to ask another woman. We have a built-in radar for this kind of thing, and it’s just never wrong. Seriously. Arrange some kind of meeting – coffee, perhaps – with you, the hottie and a female friend of yours.
     
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    No one screw your life, unless you gave them the screw driver! - Gaga
     
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    All lies.....
     
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    but hii hai apply na online relationship naona
     
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    Mmmhhhh..
    Poleni jamani...
     
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    All these does not concern you!
     
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    Eiyer JF-Expert Member

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    True 100%
     
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    CPU JF Gold Member

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    Tutaona mengi humu . . . . naendelea ku-analyze michango yenu
     
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    CPU JF Gold Member

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    exactly boss!!!
     
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    Most definately NOT!
     
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    Lizzyyyyyyyyy why u hide de true or coz ur wmn
     
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    i dnt trust this....
     
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    mankind Senior Member

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    dah somo la ukweli.ngoja nilifanyie kazi.mh mbona kama ana dalili ulizozisema mh..let me got her phone no.lol..
     
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    Kweli kabisa!
     
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    wewe nina uhakika ukizimikia unadondosha hadi udenda kwa kupagawa, lol.........
     
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    hahahahaha! Hebu nitake radhi tanmo.
     
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