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Dont SHOUT to your Loved Ones

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Bujibuji, Nov 11, 2011.

  1. Bujibuji

    Bujibuji JF-Expert Member

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    Sometimes it’s hard to contain ourselves but
    do we ever ask ourselves -Why shout???
    A psychology professor was teaching his
    students. He asked his
    students, "Why do we shout in anger? Why do
    people shout at each
    other when they are upset? The students
    thought for a while. One of
    them said, because we lose our calm, we
    shout for that. "But why
    shout when the other person is just next to
    you?" asked the professor.
    "Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a
    soft voice? Why do
    you shout at a person when you are angry?"
    The students gave some
    other answers but none satisfied the
    professor. Finally he explained,
    "When two people are angry at each other,
    their hearts psychologically
    distance themselves. To cover the distance,
    they must shout to be able
    to hear each other.
    The angrier they are, the stronger they will
    shout to hear each other
    through that great distance. Then the
    professor asked, "What happens
    when two people fall in love?

    They don't
    shout at each other but talk
    softly, why? Because their hearts are
    psychologically very close. The
    distance between them is very small. The
    professor continued,
    "When
    they love each other even more, what
    happens? They do not speak, only
    whisper and they even get even closer to each
    other in their love.

    Finally they even need not whisper, they only
    look at each other and
    that's all....

    So next time you shout to a loved one, know
    that you are creating
    distance between your heart and that
    person's heart.

    Recall. This is very true. Let's start today and
    practice not to
    shout.
     
  2. Humphnicky

    Humphnicky JF-Expert Member

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    Good message, tatizo la wabongo wanaogopa kusoma post zenye title ya kiingereza
     
  3. Salma osman

    Salma osman Senior Member

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    Nice one.but sometimes anger make us shout
     
  4. Mess

    Mess JF-Expert Member

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    How can we live without anger?? will we live longer? To my understanding happiness and anger all contribute to living longer, however percentages differ.
     
  5. HorsePower

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    Very very true, but this is how God created us to protect our dignity!
     
  6. Rosweeter

    Rosweeter JF-Expert Member

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    Nice message of a day, i like it
     
  7. Evarm

    Evarm JF-Expert Member

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    Thank you giLEsi for a nice msg!
     
  8. Bujibuji

    Bujibuji JF-Expert Member

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    Love ohh sweet love
     
  9. bombu

    bombu JF-Expert Member

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    This thread gave me a reason to enjoy this weekend,
    and the words are very true
     
  10. MwafrikaHalisi

    MwafrikaHalisi JF-Expert Member

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    Ahsante!
     
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