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Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Nyani Ngabu, Jun 15, 2009.

  1. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    That the first two years of marriage are the toughest? This question comes to me in light of the report that Usher Raymond filed for petition to dissolve his marriage to his wife of nearly two years....
     
  2. WomanOfSubstance

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    Each marriage is unique, with its unique challenges.
    Ziko couples nyingi tu bado zinafurahia honeymoon katika kipindi hicho cha miaka 2.
    Kuna wengine hata mwaka hawakai.
     
  3. Nyani Ngabu

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    I guess so. All I can say is marriages aren't easy.
     
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    u bet.
     
  5. Binti Maringo

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    Nyie wawili inabidi muoane maana you will make a great couple!......yes indeed!....
     
  6. Mbu

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    hapana, sikubaliani na hilo.

    ugumu unawekwa na wanandoa wenyewe. Kuna wale ambao katika miaka miwili wanakuwa wamejipangia malengo ambayo kama hayajatimizwa utawaona wanaanza kutapa tapa.
    malengo yapo mengi, lakini wengi hushindwa kwa haya;

    1. presha za wazazi/ndugu/jamii kumtaka mwanamke abebeshwe mimba/awe keshazaa ndani ya muda huo

    2. kushindwa kubadilika. Kujirudia kwa tabia za kukera ambazo wanandoa walikuwa nazo kabla ya uchumba, ambapo wengi walidhani baada ya ndoa kungekuwa na mabadiliko.

    3. Dhana potofu, ya kwamba baada ya ndoa Mke amechukua role ya mama mzazi badala ya urafiki na mapenzi alokuwa nayo kabla hawajaoana, vile vile Mume kuchukua role ya unyapara na kumnyima mke uhuru wake kiasi cha kumfanyisha mke kuanza rebellion.

    4. Reality ya kuamka kitanda kimoja na mtu huyo huyo siku 365 mwaka wa kwanza, 365 nyingine mwaka wa pili...kwa wengine hii ni boredom ya kutosha! nk...
     
  7. Nyani Ngabu

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    Kina nani?
     
  8. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    That's what scares the beejesus out of me.....
     
  9. Binti Maringo

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    ww na mwenzio WOS!.....
     
  10. Nyani Ngabu

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    Come on now..WoS is cool people....
     
  11. Binti Maringo

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    if you say so!.....
     
  12. WomanOfSubstance

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    Kelly01,
    I thought tunaheshimiana!
    Was I wrong? Hapa tunajadili mada hatutafuti mates pls!
     
  13. Nyani Ngabu

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    Basi yaishe dada maana nshaanza kunusa machafuko ya hali ya hewa....
     
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    ooh please!...here we go kwani kusema ww na NN can make a good couple ni tusi?......
     
  15. Nyani Ngabu

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    Na wewe hebu tulia....ebo!! Tuendelee kukata ishu....what do you think about my question?
     
  16. Binti Maringo

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    what?...did you just say ebo?" to me?!......

    okmiye nimetoa hoja kama ilivyo kwenye mada maana nimeona you guys mna-click .......mlikuwa enemies ila now good friends nikasema you guy can make a good couple WOS anakuja kusema ooh i hope tunaheshimiana kama vile nimemtusi.....what the hell!.....

    of course namuheshimu ningekuwa simu heshimu ninegsema something really stipud!....i think yeye sasa ndiyo anani vunjia heshima mimi....
     
  17. MwanaFalsafa1

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    I think we shouldn't compare celebrity marriages to other marriages. The challenges facing a celebrity coupl/marriage is quit different from others.
     
  18. Nyani Ngabu

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    But celebrities are just human beings like us. What goes on in their lives for the most part is what goes on in regular folk's life. The only difference is that their personal lives become everybody's business once they get famous...
     
  19. WomanOfSubstance

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    Unajua ndugu siko hapa for the purpose of coupling with ANYBODY!
    Tukate ishu tu hayo mengine tuyaache.
     
  20. Nyani Ngabu

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    Okay WoS...yameisha. Tukate ishu basi....
     
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