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Debate: is love good or bad for your health?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by TIMING, Jan 4, 2011.

  1. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    Wadau

    Najaribu kuangalia how good or bad love is... Leo nimeona mdada mmoja anatoa machozi ndani ya gari nzuri ya kifahari... nikajiuliza weee nikakosa majibu, kisha nikakumbuka hata masikini nao wana mateso yao ya mapenzi.

    Yet we all crave for love and feel very proud to be loved...

    while thinking of which is which... natamani kuandika shairi la penzi lakini lugha gongana

    I wake up this early morning
    melancholic and so whining
    thinking about love so hurting
    is this love good or bad for my health?

    a few moments later seeing a note
    changing all my mood and ma face
    forgotten all the morning torment
    is this love good or bad for my health?


    Nisaidieni wadau... how is love good or bad for
     
  2. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    True, honest, and sincere love is good for your health. But finding it is like trying to find a needle in a haystack!!
     
  3. Rose1980

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    its gud bt HALIPATIKANIKI KWA URAISI
     
  4. MadameX

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    When loved with right person its food for soul
     
  5. tracy

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    Kwa sasa,mi ntajibu love is bad 4 my health,nahc nakonda koz of t..ctaki hata kuskia 4 nw!bt av seen watu wanafurahia love even for 50yrs,and ukiwauliza,they tell u love is wonderful,just by the look in their partner's eyes they can survive!.so its just getting the right person,who will love you right!.love can be a sweet poison or a sweet scent!
     
  6. Lizzy

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    Can be both!Ukipata anaekupenda na wewe ukampenda utakua na furaha sana!Ila ukikosea step ukapenda usipopendwa utaumia sana!
     
  7. Michelle

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    its good 40% and bad 60%,imagine the efforts we put into it,the dissapointments we face and how many times we have to forgive those we love dearly to maintain the feeling of bn loved,the sex we have and the moments we share,the gifts we exchange etc huh! whatever! it can be both,bad and good depends sometimes on how lucky you are.
     
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    Mokoyo JF-Expert Member

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    Mr. Acid

    love is good 50% when you get the one loves you much

    love is bad 100% when you get headache lover
     
  9. afrodenzi

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    love is good coz looks after you in any cost.......

    when u don't look after love that's when turn to be a scaring move......
     
  10. comson

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    Luv is found when u reach the point wherethe hapiness,security,and development of another person is as much of driving force to you ar your own hapiness,security,and development.

    It's spelled like give to other person.
    That is luv......and its always gud...
     
  11. Chauro

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    tunaposema mapenzi ni mazuri ni wakati gani na yanapokuwa mabaya ni wakati gani bado naamini zikuzote mapenzi huwa mazuri pale unapopendwa zaidi ya kupenda maana naweza fanya lolote kwa mtu nayempenda nikitegemea kupata majibu mazuri kutoka kwake inapokuwa kinyume na hapo nadhani ndipo tunapoanza kutengeneza hata magonjwa yasiyotbika kwenye miili yetu

    kwa wale walipita mambo mengi wataelewa huwa inapotokea kumpenda mtu wakati fulani katika maisha na ukaona kabisa jinsi anavokuletea mizaha na feelings zako ulijisikiaje alikuachia makovu gani yaliothiri maisha yako hembu jaribu kutazama pale ulipopendwa mpaka ukaona na kujua huyu mtu yuko tayari kwa lolote na wewe hukuwa kihivo ulimuumiza na kumtoa machozi kiasi gani. mapenzi yapo na yataendelea kuwepo ila hayatakaa kuja kubalance kwa upendo tulionao kwa wale tuwapendao lazima kuna mmoja atayekuwa anashikilia mpini pendo lisiporomoke ndo hapo ukikosea kidogo aliyepo kwenye makali lazima ataona siku moja michirizi ya damu ikitiririka moyoni
     
  12. NILHAM RASHED

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    HICHO KITOTO CHAKO NIMEKIPENDAAA,,,,:A S angel:,
     
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    Acid,

    Kwanza uelewe kuwa Love ni kama temperature, inapanda na kushuka.
    Love is good linapokutazama, linaposhake hand with you. Unaweza kujisahau, ukajihisi umepanda mbinguni , very high!

    Mambo mambo, Unaweza kutamani ardhi ipasuke ili ikumeze when loves turns bad. Unakuwa unaona a monster, unaanza kuudhika,hutulii, na wengine hufikia kuumwa kutokana na hisia mbaya. Wengine huua au hujiua wanaposhindwa kuhimili maumivu ya Love inapokuwa bad.

    Cha ajabu ni kuwa kila mtu anataka love hata kama anajua kuwa love and dissappointment ni kama chanda na pete!

    Katika binadamu wanaoenjoy love ni watoto wachanga na watoto wa umri mdogo, lakini teenagers kwenda mbele ni bahati nasibu tu.
    Huyo uliyemuona analia alikuwa anakumbuka love ilipokuwa good, na hajui afanyeje ili alirudishe kwenye hali iliyokuwa na amesahau kuwa real life ni tofauti na movie life.
     
  14. MwanajamiiOne

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    Kamanda.........It seems you are in love ........... kwani umeoa wewe?

    What I can say from my perspective.....when it comes to love...........Expect the unexpected. Be ready all the time.
     
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    Very Well said LM.

     
  16. TIMING

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    Thanks... can i say then kwamba searching for love is difficult and therefore bad for my health?
     
  17. MwanajamiiOne

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    To me I wouldnt say its difficult kamanda.......its challenging and Challenges are good for your both mental and physical health.
     
  18. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    Lovely Ms Masa...

    Agreed but i am still not certain if its good for my health... for example a few weeks ago i thought i could trust someone (though I am married), not as a nyumba ndogo or something, just as a lovely friend, all signs of trustworthy were there, but tell you what? cant see even the shadow of the purported personality

    funny how love flies
     
  19. Kimey

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    Kama wapendwa its healthy otherwise its a disease that can even take your life.
     
  20. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    dah...

    How sweet you words are, like a spice island i know
    i wish one could dare, and stick with dream i know
    talking of sex i dare, the intimacy and beauty of the souls
    Michelle you drive to the good, the good ol'days i know

    What a lovely post
     
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