Haya kwa wale wanaume ambao ni singles,hebu tudadavue haya mambo hapo chini: Five signs your date is into you 1. He closes the distance First and foremost, moving in closer indicates a desire for more intimate contact, Hartley says. So if a guy youre talking to at a party inches a little closer as you talk, or your date slides into the same side of the booth as you, you know he wants to get to know you better and not as a friend. 2. He speaks softly When a man talks in a quieter voice, its an excellent sign, Hartley explains. Hes indicating that what hes saying is for your ears only, he says. If hes telling you something private or secret, its a good thing guys dont do that to women theyre not into. If you want to let that soft-talker know you feel the same way, respond in kind, this should quickly turn those sparks into an all-out fire. Caveat: If youre in a loud club or restaurant where you have to shout to be heard, you cant tell anything by his decibel level. So wait until youre walking or driving home to see whether hes turned the volume down. 3. He rounds his posture Hypermasculine body language (think: swaggering walk, standing tall with shoulders back and chin up, etc.) serves to attract women from a distance. But when a guy is talking close-up with a woman he likes, he will soften, or round his body language, Hartley notes. If your guys squared shoulders cave in when hes chatting with you, hes indicating that he feels comfortable and secure in your presence. 4. He talks slowly Like birds in a mating dance, men typically talk more slowly and softly when they are attracted to someone, Hartley explains. Of course, if he knocked back a few gig ante lattes on a first date, he may be too wired (and nervous) to sound like Barry White, but give it time: if his speech starts to make you feel sleepy, hes a goner. 5. He cant take his eyes off you (in a good way) So his eyes are locked on yours? As long as it isnt a psycho stare, but rather a lingering, heavy-lidded, Wow, youre amazing gaze, that guy is digging you big-time, Harley says. and 5 signs your date isnt into you 1. Hes four feet away If his motto may as well be The Polices Dont Stand So Close to Me, hes not feeling you romantically, Hartley says. How do you define such a distance? If he remains four feet or more away from you, it is a clear signal that his hearts not in it, says Hartley. 2. He stands at an oblique angle facing you Most men do not realize that when talking to another man, we stand at oblique angles, with one shoulder facing the others face, yet when we talk to women especially ones were interested in romantically we stand face-to-face with them, Hartley says. If your guys shoulder is pointing in the direction of your face during conversation, hes subconsciously showing disinterest or is trying to turn you off, Hartley explains. 3. He sounds like that guy in accounting If your date is talking to you like youre someone at the office meaning, the pace is quick and the level of his voice is rather strong hes probably just trying to keep it on a friendship level, Hartley says. With time, you might notice a change after all, he just might want to keep it professional on the first date or two while he gets to know you but if it remains this way after a few dates, cut your losses. 4. He stares at your mouth When a guy focuses on your lips, what hes really trying to do is avoid eye contact, Hartley explains. If hes avoiding eye contact, you can pretty safely assume hes not into you, he asserts. If your date fixes his gaze below your face, hes probably interested in you, but perhaps not for a long-term relationship, if you know what we mean 5. Hes out of sync with your body language When a guy is romantically interested in you, he will mimic your body language, so if he doesnt copy you gesture for gesture, odds are he isnt smitten, Hartley says. To test the waters, try leaning in closer to your date, using your hands to emphasize what youre saying. If your guy does the same, its a great sign. But if he keeps his hands still, pulls away or takes a step backwards, he may be unavailable or just plain not interested.