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Can you trust someone who cheated?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by NG'ADA, Sep 20, 2011.

  1. NG'ADA

    NG'ADA Senior Member

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    Can you trust someone who cheated?...katika mahusiano ya kimapenzi hii imekaaje?
     
  2. Vin Diesel

    Vin Diesel JF Gold Member

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    Never...never...never...
     
  3. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    It depends.... but most likely yes
     
  4. NG'ADA

    NG'ADA Senior Member

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    pagumu at eeeh?
     
  5. NG'ADA

    NG'ADA Senior Member

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    can you elaborate kidogo MTM hapo kwenye it depends..
     
  6. DEVINE

    DEVINE JF-Expert Member

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    Mnh hiyo ni very hard c wezi
     
  7. Eng. Smasher

    Eng. Smasher JF-Expert Member

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    Nooo!! No other comments.

     
  8. nyumba kubwa

    nyumba kubwa JF-Expert Member

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    I can continue loving a once cheated but never trust.
     
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    Kbd JF-Expert Member

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    ai see!!
     
  10. MwanajamiiOne

    MwanajamiiOne Platinum Member

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    Do you want to be trusted, after you have cheated?
     
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    mmmh ts very difficult to trust such a person though some people tend to trust them but with suspicion! coz always Trust is the hard thing to win back
     
  12. Yasmin

    Yasmin JF-Expert Member

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    I can't trust no matter wht
     
  13. NG'ADA

    NG'ADA Senior Member

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    how do i term this post of yourz?
     
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    Mr.creative JF-Expert Member

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    4 normal situation its impossible ! but 4 personal interests like financial factor i will do!
     
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    no,i simply cant.
    OTIS.
     
  16. VoiceOfReason

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    Once Bitten, Twice Shy.......

    Therefore its very hard you need to build trust alll over again to convince someone that you have changed.., sometimes you need even to change your habits, example if you were always coming home late start coming early, if you were going out alone start going out with your partner...

    There is one guy I know, after being caught with neighbor's daughter by his parents, they stopped believing in him, saying that he was good for nothing..., and it was very hard for him, eventualy the chap became a born again christian and started preaching the word of God...!!, it worked and he gained his parents and neighbors trust..., although I met him again after few years and asked him if he still preached the word of God he just told me that was a coy..

    Therefore to make a long a story short trust must be earned.., and when you break it you need to go an extra mile to earn it again.., you need to make someone believe you have really changed..., and the more you break it the harder it is to return it. Just imagine if the chap could have been caught again with neighbor's wife..., I dont know what he could have done to gain his parents trust again....!!
     
  17. mikatabafeki

    mikatabafeki JF-Expert Member

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    ushasema amecheat mkuu sa hapo nimtrust vp tena???
     
  18. BelindaJacob

    BelindaJacob JF-Expert Member

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    I don't trust anyone in this world!....watu wamekuwa hawaelewi siku hizi, sitaki stress!!
     
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    Kyeli Lula Member

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    duu hiyo Avatar yako na wewe kama kibinda nkoi
     
  20. NG'ADA

    NG'ADA Senior Member

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    you really doing justice to your profile name...thanQ so much..we need people of this nature..u went far and describe it the way i wanted...imenisaidia!!
     
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