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By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they can get

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Tabutupu, Jan 6, 2012.

  1. Tabutupu

    Tabutupu JF-Expert Member

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    The men that ONLY stuck with one woman (even a high quality woman) were losing genetically to the men that used all of their opportunities and had many more children that survived. Those children were carrying their father’s promiscuous genes, and this is why those male genes were passed to us. By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they can get, so they can
    spread their seed wider. By Nature women are made to seek as many admirers as they can get, so they can make a better choice and get the best seed.

    Men seek quantity - women seek quality. This is why men seek sex and women seek love. Love is the proof that a woman needs to have some assurance that theman will stick around and help her with the upbringing of the offspring. For a woman, sex is the culmination of her emotional commitment to a man. For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the testosterone pressure he
    experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel love towards a woman.

    This is why it often happens that men disappear after they got what they wanted: it wasn’t love; it was the testosterone pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of their passion. This is why having sex early in the relationship is hazardous for women: the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for her. He needs time to develop those feelings, and the only way to do it is
    through keeping the sexual tension going for as long as practicable. Sex must be attainable, nearly possible - but not quite. When the sexual tension is at its peak, its release is mind-blowing – and once is never enough, which lays a proper foundation for a future relationship – and love.

    Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex through love. All of this happens on the unconscious level - we do NOT realize what’s going on. But the reason why you are here today and alive is because each and every of your ancestors, men and women, acted true to their instincts and managed to attract at least one sexual partner and produce an offspring. So, there is no need to be bitter about men wanting sex and women wanting love. Those two are the necessary pieces
    of the puzzle called Survival Of The Species. And you’ll be better off understanding what the other gender is going through and giving them exactly what they want: a mind-blowing sex or exhilarating love.
     
  2. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Umeitoa wapi hiyo?
     
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    bonge ya swali ilo prezdaa
     
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    Researchers have found out that most people will believe anything they are told researchers have found out.
     
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    Ila kaukweli kakubwaaa
    :lol:
     
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    Nitumia buku tano m-pesa nikue llink
     
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    I know
     
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    Tabutupu JF-Expert Member

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    Weye umesema kweli.
     
  9. Lizzy

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    . . .and the circle continues.
     
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    Eiyer JF-Expert Member

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    Where did u get this assumption?
     
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    Sound Very Cool though!!
     
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    Kidume
     
  13. Nzi

    Nzi JF-Expert Member

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    Mkuu hiyo research na matokeo yake naamini yalimchukulia binadamu mwanamume as a mammal (mnyama).

    Kwa sababu katika nyanja ya biolojia ya viumbe hai,dume ana kazi ya kupanda majike yote yalio katika mipaka yake. Na hiyo ni baada ya dume kupigana na madume mengine katika kugombania kutawala a territory yenye majike ya kupanda. Kwaiyo hapo dume lenye nguvu ndio litakalo monopolise hiyo territory,mpaka litokoe dume jingine lenye nguvu ya kumshinda (na hii na rahisi sana,kwani kutokana na kuishiwa nguvu baada ya kuhudumia kila siku majike lukuki,dume la awali linakua halina ubavu,hivyo territory inakua captured. Mzunguko unaendelea hivyo hivyo.

    Hiyo ni biological built kwa most male mammal.

    Tukija kwa upande wa binadamu mwanaume,tafiti zimeonyesha kwamba kibailojia mwanadamu mwanaume anapaswa kufanya mapenzi kila siku. Hii ni kutokana aina hormones zinazotengenezwa kwenye sperms ambazo kuwepo kwake kwa wingi ni hatari kwa afya ya ubongo (natumia simu,nikishika notebook,nitaweka links).

    Lakini katika hali halisi hili halitawezekana kwa mwanaume (unless cheating happens) kwani kuna siku mwanamke anakua mwezini. Hapa cheaters hawana haki ya kucapitalise on that.

    Lakini licha ya hizo tafiti kwa upande wa mamalia madume na upande wa binadamu mwanaume,mienendo na tabia za mwanaume katika suala kujamiana haziendeshwi pekee na biolojia ya mwili,bali utashi unahusika kwa kiwango kikubwa. Ndiyo,tafiti na biolojia inasema hivyo,utashi wa mwanadamu wa kiume je?

    Kwahiyo tafiti za masuala ya kujamiana ambazo ufanyika bila kuzingatia utashi wa binadamu,mimi uwa naziona zipo kwajili ya kuongeza irrelevant information.
     
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    Vizuri
     
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