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Break up

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Noname, Mar 17, 2010.

  1. Noname

    Noname JF-Expert Member

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    How do you break up with someone? U know may be you just dont have the feeling anymore or u never really love them the way they loved u... or whatever reason it is but u wanna break up...


    How to do it?
     
  2. Pearl

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    si u just tell the person the truth?it will alwaz set u free!If u dnt say unaogopa nn?
     
  3. Noname

    Noname JF-Expert Member

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    how about hurting their feelings... shouldnt you consider?
     
  4. Z

    Zion Daughter JF-Expert Member

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    Dah! usikurupuke kumwambia.Muandalie kwanza mazingira kwa mfano kupunguza mambo fulani ya malovee ulikuwa unamuonyesha.Then tafuta wakati muafaka umueleze kinagaubaga tena umwambie na sababu ya kufanya hivyo.
    Kamwe usimwache mtu kwa makeke ,you will hurt his/her feelings.
    Na hili la kuumizwa na wapenzi ni tatizo kubwa sana kwa sasa.
     
  5. Teamo

    Teamo JF-Expert Member

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    BUT WHY SHOULD YOU BREAK UP?i ain't see the reason.....
     
  6. bht

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    you dont have to tell a person kwa maneno, it can be impliedly!!!

    kutegemea of coz na sababu.....
     
  7. Z

    Zion Daughter JF-Expert Member

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    You should consider na ndiyo maana ni lazima umwambie mapema tena kwa upole.Sijui sababu ya kubreakup lakini mimi naona bora nusu shari kuliko shari kamili kwa sababu ukimwambia mapema ataumia lakini atapona tu baadae.
     
  8. Ngalikihinja

    Ngalikihinja JF-Expert Member

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    1. acha kumpigia simu za kimapenzi
    2. acha kumtumia sms za kimapenzi
    3. acha kumtumia mtu yeyote kumpa salamu
    4. acha kumfanyia vitendo vyote vinavyoashiria mahaba eidha live au kwa simu
    5. jaribu kuwa mbali naye kimapenzi kwa namna yoyote ile
     
  9. TIMING

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    dont tell the person that you are breaking up with him/her... trust me it never worked for quite a substantial number of people because they end up making it up!!

    If you want to break-up just reduce contacts, slowly look for a replacement or a comfort zone and then later (and only if asked) then you can break the news, politely and very friendly, giving a chance for future encounters

    Naamini wengi wanobreak-up kwa fast huwa wanakuja kuharibiana baadae kwani mapenzi yanakua bado yapo na ndio maana these days cheating iko juu sana hasa kutoka kwa "old timers"!!

    BTW... how do you break-up:D
     
  10. Bigirita

    Bigirita JF-Expert Member

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    Hii bana inakuwaga uwongo kabisa.........ndo kisingizio na ndo maana huwa X huwa wana do wakikutana mahala muafaka na wakati muafaka.

    lakini kwenye kuachana inategemea na sababu, wakati mwingine unaweza ku-mute tu ndo ikawa nitolee, au ukasema straight, au ukaanza kupangua gear number from 5 to 1 to free kwenye yale mambo yetu ya msingi, ujumbe unakuwa sent too.
     
  11. Pearl

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    if something bothers you speak up,usikae na kitu moyoni it will gives u alot of stress,do wat ur hut tells u,if u real care about someones feeling then beta say the truth,ataumia ndio but at the end of the day u will his/her Hero!in any relationship its only the truth that will keep it moving,others may say just show him action,but action kwa wengine there is to much to handle mind u!the eariel the beta.
     
  12. Teamo

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    ishu ya ku-breakup naifananisha na wale wana-jf ambao kila siku wanaaga NAJITOA JF,NAJITOA JF!...halafu wanarudi kimya kimya:D:D:D

    wanaobreak-up serious huwa hawaambiani,NA WANAOJITOA JF KIUKWELI HUWA HAWAAGI
     
  13. bht

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    GEOFF baba umeamkaje?? hofu kwako uliye mbali na upeo wa macho yangu kakaake!!!!
     
  14. Bigirita

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    Nimekusoma!!
     
  15. Teamo

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    nimeamka salama dadaake!iko poa IN A FULL FACT MOOD

    unajua ishu ya break-up inanihusu moja kwa moja!

    ''ONCE UPON A TIME,i gave somebody my heart AND SHE HURT ME!...but SHE NEVER SAID GOODBYE...''
     
  16. Z

    Zion Daughter JF-Expert Member

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    Heee!No komenti! G na B wapi na wapi!
     
  17. Ngalikihinja

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    Did you say goodbye...??? Huyo kakuweka akiba kama tuwekavyo pesa benki halafu akikutaka tena hakuchukulii dirishani bali anakutolea kwenye ATM........... na amini usiamini UTAKUBALI TUUUU..............
     
  18. Z

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    Heee! tena?:confused: no komenti!
     
  19. Preta

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    ooouch....that is pain
     
  20. Teamo

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    GEOFF IS MARRIED!no way
    ONCE UPON A TIME!....if you can read btn the line....
    AGAIN,GEOFF IS MARRIED
     
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