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Barbershop girls pose a new threat to marriage

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Manyanza, Jan 27, 2011.

  1. Manyanza

    Manyanza JF-Expert Member

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    First, it was war with bar maids, Housewives once lived in eternal fear of the habitually half-dressed young ladies at the services of their thirsty husbands in bars found almost everywhere in Dar es salaam. But now, the bat field has shifted has shifted to barbershops and hair salons.

    I think everyone knows what is the Barbershop, Many man and their wives would confess that the first that crosses their mind when talking about hair salons is not only the hair cut, but almost full hour of scrubbing, massaging and grooming by young attractive women.

    And you may find the Barbershops business seems like stiff competition, owners doing whatever necessary to attract and retain their clients. A barbershop with no aftershave services, such as scrubbing and facial massaging, is doomed no matter how cheap it is. Mostly of the clients are men and its not relaxing for a man to massage or scrub another man, girls are more desirable and suitable because they often wearing heavy perfume and dressed I mini skirt, tight jeans and tops, and all sorts of inviting stuffs, (about their commissions I don't know???), but they look so smart you cant differentiate with others women's who works at financial institution, international institution and so far……..

    We know these girls when they do their services they can't avoid touching their Clients gently, when they want scrub and facial massaging and that is what they do, if their client they ask for other extra services, it is an option, the service sometimes go beyond extra barbershop services, sometimes the clients asks to meet the girls after working hours. "Sometimes the girls paid extra money under the pretence of appreciation of the service…

    During this service it takes a real strong man to not feel something when the girls scrubbing them, Any man can be attempted to start an affair, especially if it becomes a routine to be scrubbed and massaged by the same girl every time ( if you are a man, imagine the soft hand of a young woman on your head and then the neck and face, cleaning your ears) and this repeated by the same girl at least once every week. There are very high chances of relationship can become more personal if the man is not strong enough"

    Conclusion: Many barbershop have been turned into commercial sex zones, men's are not dealing with Barmaid, and this is the threat for many marriage.
     
  2. Desidii

    Desidii JF-Expert Member

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    Will be back
     
  3. carmel

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    Yes, this is a new threat for marriages. kwa kweli kama umeoa na unaipenda ndoa yako jiepushe na hizi barber shop, bora ununue scrubs and massage lotion mkeo awe anakufanyia home if you so like it. Na nyie kina mama/dada, jifunzeni hii service muwe mkiitoa kwa waume zenu huko home, bila hivyo kwa kweli only time can tell.
     
  4. Mfamaji

    Mfamaji JF-Expert Member

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    so what do u suggest? Barbarshops are there for ever, and sctubing is a new intro.
     
  5. MduduWashawasha

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    kama mtu ni mhuni ni mhuni tu na mwungwana ni mwungwana.siku hizi madem wanajirahisisha kwa wanaume sijui maisha magumu au ni laana.mtu mstarabu hata akienda salon si lazima atoke na mhudumu tatizo nadhani ni tabia za mtu tu
     
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    Kituko JF-Expert Member

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    haa hi kitu ni balaa, maana Kuna siku baada ya kunyolewa nikaambiwa niende kuoshwa kichwa pamoja na uso, huyo dada aliyekuwa anafanya hii kazi haki ya Mungu alikuwa keshanitia kishawishini, maana ananiosha uso na sehemu ya masikio alafu akawa anaingiza vidole vyake masikioni kwa makusudi kabisa, kufika kwenye kidevu ndio alikaa kama dakika kazaa akikiosha tu huku ananiangalia kwa macho malegevu kabisa, alikuwa kavaa kasuruali kepesi basi akawa anasogelea goti langu na kuliweka katikati ya miguu yake na huku kama anajisuguasugua,
    nilikuwa mpole nasubiri ushahidi tu
    Wakina mama (Mlioolewa) kweli mna kazi (Bar Maid, House Maid, Networking friendz, and now Berbershop Ladies)
     
  7. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    Mh... sis'

    Yani kila kinachompa mwanaume comfort sasa si kitakua threat to marriage?? to me a threat to any marriage is the marriage itself!
     
  8. Mzee Mwanakijiji

    Mzee Mwanakijiji Platinum Member

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    duh.. mimi barber wangu ni mwanamke for years.. kumbe nimepitwa!
     
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    ChiefmTz JF-Expert Member

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    How about femini hair dressing salons where hair dressers, massagers are handsome men? A,nt they also a threat to our marriages?
     
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    Gad ONEYA JF-Expert Member

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    Vipi wamasai wanaowasuka wake, dada zetu huku dada wakikaa chini wakati huo mmasai akiwa amesimamia! Uchunguzi unaonyesha wamasai wa kiume wengi huwa hawavai nguo za ndani! Kwa hiyo unakuta mwanamke anapata flava ya kingómbe ngómbe mpaka amalize kusukwa!
     
  11. tracy

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    It all depends na tabia ya mtu but i can say they can be,these guys know how to massage kwakweli..so if you find a woman who is desperate,she might fall totally!..so while men think of going out with those gals,they should think of their wives doing the same,fair play!(in their minds,not reality)so maybe it can help..but all in all,it's a matter of who you are.
     
  12. TATIANA

    TATIANA JF-Expert Member

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    dah,kwel huyo alikupania. Wengi wao wapo pale kutega mitego yao na si kufanya kazi.
     
  13. NATA

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    Sure!
     
  14. Poetik Justice

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    Yaani.. me i thought I was being dramatic about this thing. Lakini its a new threat! The girls sometimes are braless, amevaa singlet and she is scrubbing away with her b**bs brushing against the kidevu and so on..it would take a monk to resist this. Kwanini hawavai long white coats like the doctors and act professionally (silly question eeh?)??
     
  15. Joseph

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    Mimi nilikwishaingia katika mtego huu na kupata ladha halisi baada ya massage,siku hiyo wala sikuwa na wazo la kukutana na binti mrembo mwenye sura nzuri,mikono laini utadhani mtoto mchanga,kwa aliyonifanyia uzalendo ulinizidi na ukizingatia nilikuwa single sikuona taabu kuomba mchezo,na siku nikitaka kupata huduma huwa naenda kunyoa kwanza then naweka appointment baadae ni raha mara mbili.
     
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    Niliwahi kumsindikiza by then bf wangu saluni moja iko karibia na Estana..Haya kanyolewa vizuri halafu akaitwa kwenye chumba aoshwe, huyo dada aliyekuwa akimuosha kwakweli nahisi alikuwa na lake jambo..kangán'gania masikio na kujiingiza katikati ya miguu! Unajua nini nikamwambia yule bf hebu amka twende nikakufanyie hiyo massage mimi mana naona hapo mnapandishana mihemko tu...dada alishtuka na kumnawisha chap tukaondoka!..
    Siku hizi simsindikizi mtu kunyoa, mie pia naenda saluni zetu kwa manicure&pedicure pia massage mana wakaka wa kizaire ni wataalamu sana!
     
  17. Manyanza

    Manyanza JF-Expert Member

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    toka kijijini uje mjini uone mambo
     
  18. Joseph

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    Tupe habari za kinakaka wa kizaire maana inaonekana wana utaalamu zaidi,unaoneje na wewe uwe unaenda na bf wako?
     
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    you can only get confort in your marriage and not in the barber shop.
     
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    Kituko JF-Expert Member

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    Tatiana,
    Tatizo kubwa la hawa wakina dada huwa hawalipwi mshahara bali ni kamisheni tu ya kila kicha anachokiosha, sasa akishaona umeshika funguo za gari na blackberry mkononi yeye ana image kuwa mambo yako yako safi basi ataforce kingi mpaka uingie majaribuni
     
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