"A man should provide for his wife. PERIOD"

[MwanajamiiOne]

WanaJF nawaamkua!!

Nimekosa Title ya Thread.........
Nimekaa hapa jioni hii nasoma Parents Issue no 299 ya June 2011; pg 56 Article iliyoandikwa kwenye Section ya "Men Only" kuna makala iloandikwa na Christopher Maina............. Makala hii ya kiingereza ina kichwa cha Habari kisemacho ."A man should provide for his wife. PERIOD"........
Makala hii inaanza kwa kuainisha umuhimu wa wapenzi/wanandoa kuzungumzia masuala yahusuyo finances na zaidi inaelezea umuhimu wa kila mwanandoa kuchangia katika mkate wa kila siku kwa familia yao!! HATA HIVYO makala hii inaainisha wazi kuwa Wanaume wana njia kuu mbili za kuwa'impress' wake/wanawake zao, nazo ni;
1. Kupitia tendo a ndoa (kumfurahisha/kukidhi haja za mkewe/mwanamke wake kitendo) na
2. Kuweza kumtimizia mahitaji ya Mke/mwanamke wake matumizi (hapa imeandikwa nanukuu..' providing for her upkeeping, including her offspring and relatives - everything else including loving her mother and father are included in this front).........mwisho wa kunukuu!

Kupitia njia hizi Mwanaume amekuwa akijiinua na kuonyesha uanamume wake (Man's ego...)

Nina maswali mawili makuu;
1. Je hii ni kweli??
2. Kama ni kweli hiki anachozungumzia Bwana Maina, tusemeje pale ambapo wanawake wengi sio kwamba tu wanalalamika juu ya 'kutoridhishwa kwao kitendo" lakini pia waume zao wanashindwa kuwatimizia mahitaji mengine muhimu kama ilivyowekwa hapo?

 

[Saint Ivuga]

weka titlle..wewe hujasoma shule? kuna maswali ulikuwa unaulizwa unapewa short story then unaambiwa ui tittle..
andika hata
saint ivuga loves afrodenz..

 

[First Born]

Au ungeweka First Born loves Ashadii as his sister and loves cheusi mangala as his grandmon, Husninyo as his Darling, The Boss as his uncle, Lizzy as his sweetie, saint ivuga as bro, afrodenz as shemeji, Preta as his beibei. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahah, itakuwa ndefu sana

 

[The Boss]

acha vituko mj01

title ingekuwa mwanaume ku provide....

mimi binafsi nakubaliana kwa asilimia 100
but tatizo ni je kama mtu hana uwezo je????

mimi napenda kama uwezo upo,mtu aprovide kila kitu

tazama waarabu na wake zao

sisi waswahili kushindana na wake zetu inapunguza upendo,heshima na hadhi yetu
mbele ya jamii zingine.......

 

[Shapu]

weka titlle..wewe hujasoma shule? kuna maswali ulikuwa unaulizwa unapewa short story then unaambiwa ui tittle..andika hata saint ivuga loves afrodenz..

Hapa ndo niipendeapo JF, hata kama tanesco wamekuudhi unaishia kufurahi.

 

[Dark City]

acha vituko mj01

title ingekuwa mwanaume ku provide....

mimi binafsi nakubaliana kwa asilimia 100
but tatizo ni je kama mtu hana uwezo je????

mimi napenda kama uwezo upo,mtu aprovide kila kitu

tazama waarabu na wake zao

sisi waswahili kushindana na wake zetu inapunguza upendo,heshima na hadhi yetu
mbele ya jamii zingine.......

Nakubalina na wewe 100 kwa 100..zaidi ya wabunge wetu na comedy zao!!

Kama huna uwezo basi inabidi uwe mpole na kusubiri mfadhiri yeyote ajitokeze kukusaidia....Kwa vyovyote vile hayo ni maumivu tu!

Hata mwanamke angekuwa Prezida....bado atategemea hayo mambo aliyoyataja MJ1 toka kwa mume wake...Ila kama mwanamume hawezi kutimizza hilo la kwanza basi abaki tu kulea watoto kama shamba boy!!

 

[Sizinga]

k.........................................................................nimekosa cha kuandika!!

 

[SHERRIF ARPAIO]

Ni kweli kabisa. A man must be a provider to his family. Hii biashara sijui mwanaume hafanyi kazi wengine wanategemea mwanamke kama wale ndugu zetu wanugu/akata ni upumbavu. Huwezi kuwa mwanaume kweli kama hu-provide kwa mkeo na wanao banaa, utaishia kuwa mwanaume jina tu wa kuvaa suruali. Dume lazima liprovide kila kitu kuanzia matumizi mbalimbali, chakula, nguo, malazi, sex etc

 

[charger]

WanaJF nawaamkua!!

Nimekosa Title ya Thread.........
Nimekaa hapa jioni hii nasoma Parents Issue no 299 ya June 2011; pg 56 Article iliyoandikwa kwenye Section ya "Men Only" kuna makala iloandikwa na Christopher Maina............. Makala hii ya kiingereza ina kichwa cha Habari kisemacho ."A man should provide for his wife. PERIOD"........
Makala hii inaanza kwa kuainisha umuhimu wa wapenzi/wanandoa kuzungumzia masuala yahusuyo finances na zaidi inaelezea umuhimu wa kila mwanandoa kuchangia katika mkate wa kila siku kwa familia yao!! HATA HIVYO makala hii inaainisha wazi kuwa Wanaume wana njia kuu mbili za kuwa'impress' wake/wanawake zao, nazo ni;
1. Kupitia tendo a ndoa (kumfurahisha/kukidhi haja za mkewe/mwanamke wake kitendo) na
2. Kuweza kumtimizia mahitaji ya Mke/mwanamke wake matumizi (hapa imeandikwa nanukuu..' providing for her upkeeping, including her offspring and relatives - everything else including loving her mother and father are included in this front).........mwisho wa kunukuu!

Kupitia njia hizi Mwanaume amekuwa akijiinua na kuonyesha uanamume wake (Man's ego...)

Nina maswali mawili makuu;
1. Je hii ni kweli??
2. Kama ni kweli hiki anachozungumzia Bwana Maina, tusemeje pale ambapo wanawake wengi sio kwamba tu wanalalamika juu ya 'kutoridhishwa kwao kitendo" lakini pia waume zao wanashindwa kuwatimizia mahitaji mengine muhimu kama ilivyowekwa hapo?

Hilo sio swali AD ndio maana midume mingine ikikwama kabisa inakubali lawama kuliko fedheha inaenda kupanga mawe sekenke ili ifanye hapo kwenye red

 

[Gaga]

acha vituko mj01

title ingekuwa mwanaume ku provide....

mimi binafsi nakubaliana kwa asilimia 100
but tatizo ni je kama mtu hana uwezo je????

mimi napenda kama uwezo upo,mtu aprovide kila kitu

tazama waarabu na wake zao

sisi waswahili kushindana na wake zetu inapunguza upendo,heshima na hadhi yetu
mbele ya jamii zingine.......

Kweli kabisa the boc mashindano kama nini sijui
kila mtu anajifanya anajua, hasa wanawake wengi waliosomea
mambo fulani hivi.......... hawa ndio wabishi utadhani wanajua
kila kitu, maadam wanajua haki zao baasi, wanafikiria hiyo pia
ina aply kwenye ndoa, mwanamke akiwa na kazi nzuri baaasi
atataka hata majukumu yasiyo yake ayabebe yoooote ili tu kuonyesha kwamba na yeye anaweza
Mie bwana napenda mwanaume anayejituma kuhakikisha familia yake mikono imeenda kinywani
haijalishi ana nini na anafanya nini, ila ajitahidi kadri ya uwezo wake, na yanayobakia mwanamke anaweza saidia
ila tu, narudia wale tu, wanawake wao wenye uwezo sana kupita wao inaweza kuwa tofauti, ila pia wawe makini sababu mwanaume
hulka yake ni kumiliki mtu na kumtunza kwa kila kitu..hapo atajihisi kuna kitu kimepungua tu, ndio pale anatafuta, na yeye hata wa kuhonga kanga na kumpangia chumba kimoja, ili nae akiingia aonekane anamiliki kila kitu kwa asilimia 100

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

weka titlle..wewe hujasoma shule? kuna maswali ulikuwa unaulizwa unapewa short story then unaambiwa ui tittle..
andika hata
saint ivuga loves afrodenz..

Au ungeweka First Born loves Ashadii as his sister and loves cheusi mangala as his grandmon, Husninyo as his Darling, The Boss as his uncle, Lizzy as his sweetie, saint ivuga as bro, afrodenz as shemeji, Preta as his beibei. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahah, itakuwa ndefu sana

Samahani Magreat Thinkers nimewalet down but its not my fault coz I dong think am among you............................ Lakini ninaamini ujumbe mumeuelewa au vipi? and am sure eventually nitapata title through you guys ila kwa sasa ninawaomba radhi!!

 

[Ballerina]

Wanaume wengi wamekuwa wakwepa majukumu siku hizi,.................eti kwa kuwa tunasema "Tunaweza",....................
Unakuta mwanamke labda muajiriwa,akitoka ofini anapitia shule jioni(harakati zote hizi ni ili aweze kuinua kipato cha familia ili atimize majukumu ambayo mume anayakwepa)

.....anarudi nyumbani jioni/usiku.....muda wa mapishi unapatikana kwa tabu,muda wa kulea watoto ndio usiseme,unapofika muda wa kitanda yuko hoi bin taabani.....mume naye ndio kumekucha "anataka huduma"....pheeeeeew! kwa kuwa mke amechoka na yuko stressed,atatoa huduma mbovu,yataanza malalamiliko............we mwanamke siku hizi umebadilika!

Matatizo mengine ya kindoa yanaweza kuwa yanaanzia hapa iwapo hakutakuwa na MAWASILIANO MAZURI

1. Mke ataona mume hamjali
2. Mume atahisi mwanamke ana mwanaume mwingine......mbona anatoa kwa shingo upande???
3. Mwanamke hawezi kuridhishwa kwenye tendo la ndoa....hakuwa tayari kisaikolojia
4. Chuki itajengeka kati yao.......................nyumba ndogo itatafutwa
5. Mapenzi yataanza kupungua siku baada ya siku
6. Kila mmoja ataona mwenzi wake ndiye chanzo..........atahisi alikosea kuchagua mke/mme...........
7. Bila busara,uvumilivu,hekima.....ndoa inavunjika

Wanawake Tunaweza LAKINI Wanaume msikwepe majukumu!

 

[VoiceOfReason]

Kama pesa ipo usipowaprovide wife, watoto na familia utamprovide nani??
Lakini kama pesa haipo huwezi kwenda kuiba au kuua watu na ku-risk your life eti just because you are a man and you need to provide for the mrs
Ofcourse nitaiba ili watoto na wife wasilale njaa, lakini kamwe sitaiba ili wife aende saloon au anunue kiatu kipya
Living according to your means is absolutely important

 

[EMT]

Hata mwanamke angekuwa Prezida....bado atategemea hayo mambo aliyoyataja MJ1 toka kwa mume wake

Hapo unaongelea masculine ambayo wanaume wengi wa kizazi hiki wana lack. Nilielezea kwa undani kwenye thread ya Lizzy jana, I can't repeat it here. Sorry.

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

acha vituko mj01
title ingekuwa mwanaume ku provide....

mimi binafsi nakubaliana kwa asilimia 100
but tatizo ni je kama mtu hana uwezo je????

mimi napenda kama uwezo upo,mtu aprovide kila kitu

tazama waarabu na wake zao

sisi waswahili kushindana na wake zetu inapunguza upendo,heshima na hadhi yetu
mbele ya jamii zingine.......

the Boss yaani naomba mnisamehe sana........nimeshindwa kuweka title kwa sababu hii makala imeniconfuse akili kidogo.......am sorry to say but mimi ni mmoja wapo wa wale wanaoamini kuwa Mwanaume kama Mwanaume anayo nafasi ya pekee katika familia......yaani issue ya kuprovide kwa familia yake kwangu huwa haina mjadala BUT sitarajii pia kuwa atakuwa rigid kiasi cha kukataa any assistance from me . Mimi kama Mke naamini kuwa nina wajibu wa kumsaidia Mume wangu kwa hali na mali (including financial assistance): na hii wala siombi au kusubiri kuambiwa......pale ambapo ninawezanyoosha mkono nitanyoosha. But ukiisoma article hii yote inaINSIST kuwa ni mwanaume na ni mwanaume ambaye anabeba hilo jukumu.......... samahani nitanukuu sentensi nyingine ....If you (Man) are pathetic in bed, you will have to compensate with the way you provide in her.....

Hapa najiuliza, je ni kweli? na kama ni kweli kuna namna mnajua kuwa 'humtoshelezi in bed' ili ucompensate kwa matumizi?

Am a bit confused wajameni but bear with me please nitapata title soon na kurekebisha mambo!

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

Hapo unaongelea masculine ambayo wanaume wengi wa kizazi hiki wana lack. Nilielezea kwa undani kwenye thread ya Lizzy jana, I can't repeat it here. Sorry.

Aksante EMT.......usitunyime uhondo tafadhali at least tupatie Link............kuna threads za Lizzy nyingi kaka yangu please, just a link will do. Aksante

 

[ndetichia]

title ni Men Must Provide to his Wife during Period...

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

Nakubalina na wewe 100 kwa 100..zaidi ya wabunge wetu na comedy zao!!
Kama huna uwezo basi inabidi uwe mpole na kusubiri mfadhiri yeyote ajitokeze kukusaidia....Kwa vyovyote vile hayo ni maumivu t0
Hata mwanamke angekuwa Prezida....bado atategemea hayo mambo aliyoyataja MJ1 toka kwa mume wake...Ila kama mwanamume hawezi kutimizza hilo la kwanza basi abaki tu kulea watoto kama shamba boy!!

Babu yaani imenichanganya sana hii article mpaka nikakumbuka ya zamani!! Nakumbuka nilikuwa naambiwa nijifunze kuwa 'a lady' just because nilishajizoeza kutokuwa tegemezi, bahati mbaya kuna watu ambao mke akisema asaidie wanaona kama mwanamke anataka kuwatawala...... matokeo yake wanawaabuse iiwemo kuto kuwashirikisha kwenye maamuzi muhimu ya familia.

Namkumbuka pia kuna usemi ule wa ...chako ni chetu kwa kuwa wewe ndio baba wa familia na mume, ila changu ni changu'

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

title ni Men Must Provide to his Wife during Period...

ndetichia .............is that the only line you have seen in this thread ndugu yangu? hebu ipotezee bana!! mwaga vyoints najua hapa ndo kwako! Tuelimishe bana!

 

[EMT]

Kweli kabisa the boc mashindano kama nini sijui
kila mtu anajifanya anajua, hasa wanawake wengi waliosomea
mambo fulani hivi.......... hawa ndio wabishi utadhani wanajua
kila kitu, maadam wanajua haki zao baasi, wanafikiria hiyo pia
ina aply kwenye ndoa, mwanamke akiwa na kazi nzuri baaasi
atataka hata majukumu yasiyo yake ayabebe yoooote ili tu kuonyesha kwamba na yeye anaweza
Mie bwana napenda mwanaume anayejituma kuhakikisha familia yake mikono imeenda kinywani
haijalishi ana nini na anafanya nini, ila ajitahidi kadri ya uwezo wake, na yanayobakia mwanamke anaweza saidia
ila tu, narudia wale tu, wanawake wao wenye uwezo sana kupita wao inaweza kuwa tofauti, ila pia wawe makini sababu mwanaume
hulka yake ni kumiliki mtu na kumtunza kwa kila kitu..hapo atajihisi kuna kitu kimepungua tu, ndio pale anatafuta, na yeye hata wa kuhonga kanga na kumpangia chumba kimoja, ili nae akiingia aonekane anamiliki kila kitu kwa asilimia 100

Upo kwenye ndoa miaka 17 unaweza kutupa practical experience. Juzi nilikuwa naangalia documentary ya modern husband and wife. Wakahojiwa wanandoa ambao wamekaa kwenye ndoa kwa miaka 30. Walionyesha some video extracts jinsi wanavyoishi, yaani ni wabishi sijawahi kuona. Kwenye show walikuwepo vijana wake kwa waume amabo bado hawajaoa/olewa. Walikiri ni heri kuishi single kuliko kuishi katika ndoa ya aina hiyo. Hao wanandoa walipoulizwa pamoja na kubishana kote huko imekuwaje wakaweza kuishi pamoja kwa muda wote huo. Wanasema kuwa pamoja na ku argue kila mara, kutukanana, n.k, at the end of the day wanaheshimiana kama mume na mke. Mume anapata anachohistahili toka kwa mke na mke anapata anachositahili toka kwa mume.