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6 Days to go.....My Best friend wedding!

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Mtanga Tc, Jul 15, 2012.

  1. Mtanga Tc

    Mtanga Tc JF-Expert Member

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    My best friend is counting day towards the big day on Saturday next week. I feel the pressures and all the dramas evolving the preparation of his best day in this life. I shared the same experience almost 11 years ago when I made such a risky decision to marry the love of my Life. Now, i know it worth all the time and efforts invested in that particular day.
    There is no options in taking time to know our partners well before walking the aisle and utter those few words..."I DO" for the rest of your life.There is no rushing into the altar for a wedding day, we need to pray hard for the same...otherwise you will end up living with an enemy or a strange till death do you part.

    As a dedication, i would wish to share below lyrics-Its Not Easy from Lucky Dube (RIP) which i found are clicking some senses when it comes to relationships and subsequently marriage issues though am not a reggae critic as such.

    I remember the day I called mama on the telephone
    I told her mama I'm getting married
    I could hear her voice on the other side of the telephone she was smiling
    And she asked me a question that I proudly answered
    She said son did you take time to know her
    I said mama she's the best
    But today it hurts me so
    To go back to mama and say mama I
    'm getting divorced
    Oh I'm getting divorced

    This choice I made didn't work out the way I thought it would (x2) it hurts me so mama

    mama said to me

    It's not easy to understand it son
    But I hope you'll make it (x3)
    You'll be happy again

    I remember in church
    When the preacher read the scriptures
    You looked so beautiful and innocent
    I did not know that behind that beauty
    Lies the true colors that will destroy me in the near future

    This choice I made didn't work out the way I thought it would be (x2)
    Now I'm hurting

    I remember when I held you
    By the hand preacher man read the scriptures
    Putting words in you mouth

    Maybe what the preacher man said was not something that was with you
    Now I know what they mean when they say

    Beautiful woman is another man's plaything
    Oh Lord I'm hurting now

    this choice I made didn't work out the way I thought it would
    Mama said to me

    Chorus (till fade) It's not easy...

    Best of wishes to my best friend and all who are planning to do likewise soon!
  2. Root

    Root JF-Expert Member

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    Why do you regret on what you made long ago?
    The dedication is cool for all single ppo
  3. Kongosho

    Kongosho JF-Expert Member

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    asanteni na kwaherini.
  4. Jestina

    Jestina JF-Expert Member

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    marriage is not that bad,lol...especially if you marry your best friend,get to know the person you are marrying............:sleepy:
  5. saragossa

    saragossa JF-Expert Member

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    Napita tu wakuu!