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6 Bad Reasons to date anyone . . .

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    CPU JF Gold Member

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    [FONT=&amp]Dear my Fellow JF Members

    Of all the endeavors you can pursue, dating can be one of the most enjoyable. It's entertaining, it provides companionship, and it can lead to lasting love and partnership. But as you decide whether you're ready to date, make sure you are doing it for the right reason: You have a full life that you'd like to share with another person. [/FONT]


    [FONT=&amp]With that in mind, here are a few bad reasons to date someone…[/FONT]

    [FONT=&amp]1. Your friends want you paired off.[/FONT]

    [FONT=&amp]Just because your friends are married or coupled up doesn't mean you have to find "your other half." If they are pressuring you to date, be firm. You need to date people because you want to, not because everyone else in your life thinks it's the right thing to do.[/FONT]

    [FONT=&amp]2. You can't stand to be alone.[/FONT]
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    If you approach dating with the desperation of a person who is uncomfortable spending any time alone, you might not choose a suitable partner. Learn to enjoy your own company and that of your friends and family before embarking on new romantic relationships. [/FONT]


    [FONT=&amp]3. Well, he/she did ask me out…[/FONT]

    [FONT=&amp]It's wonderfully flattering to be asked out on a date, but you don't owe anyone a thing. Remember, you'll have a more satisfying romantic life if you choose whom and when to date. Don't just say yes to the next person who comes along because it's less work that way.[/FONT]

    [FONT=&amp]4. You're "that age."[/FONT]

    [FONT=&amp] Who knows what "that age" even is these days, but sometimes we feel pressured to date because others (and the youth-obsessed media) are telling us that time is slipping away for finding a mate. Pshaw! You can fall in love at any time in your life, and the experience will be that much richer if you're emotionally ready. Whether you're 25 or 75, there is no "right age" for dating or commitment. Listen to your heart and date when you feel ready.[/FONT]

    [FONT=&amp]5. You want someone to fix your life.[/FONT]

    [FONT=&amp]You've heard it a million times before, but that's because it's true: you are in charge of your own happiness and your life's circumstances. Please don't date someone in order to find motivation to quit smoking, pay the bills on time, get out of the house, etc. Take care of yourself now in order to be a good partner later.[/FONT]

    [FONT=&amp]6. You want to further your career.[/FONT]

    [FONT=&amp]Try not to mix business with pleasure by using dating as a way to make professional contacts. People might get hurt and your reputation could be compromised. Be honest with yourself about your goals. If you're much more concerned with work than with being a good partner, perhaps you should put your love life on hold for a few months.
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    Nawatakia Jpili yenye amani.

     
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    punainen-red JF-Expert Member

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    Great!! Sijui nimekosea jukwaa! Maana nilijua niko kwenye jukwaa la ma-stress, kumbe na malovee yanafika huku!!!
     
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    CPU JF Gold Member

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    Hahahahah
    Kuna jukwaa la Mastress hapa JF?
     
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    Surely those are the wrong reasons to start a relationship with....or dating as you put it!
     
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    CPU JF Gold Member

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    Hivi bado upo jamani?
     
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    King'asti JF-Expert Member

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    atakuwa anamaanisha la siasa ( i am politically stressed, sasa nikiingia kule naskia nausea inazidi)

     
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    King'asti JF-Expert Member

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    [h=2]The Following User Says Thank You to CPU For This Useful Post:[/h]
    King'asti (Today)


    tatizo langu ni: by '' bado'' unamaanisha alipashwa kuwa mahala pengine?


     
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    CPU JF Gold Member

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    Ha ha ah
    Hapana King'asti
    Hajaonekana hapa mwezi mzima . . .lolz
     
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    King'asti JF-Expert Member

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    hehe, nlistuka banaa! manake usije ukawa unamaanisha mambo ya ku-rest in peace. nna family interest hapo sipiyuu, kaa standby,lol!
    asante kwa hints za dating games, manake nataka nianze kumuwinda kakake ashadii. ngoja nijipange

     
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    CPU JF Gold Member

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    kwanini asiwe CPU . . . .lolz?
     
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    King'asti JF-Expert Member

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    hehehe, kumbe na ww kitoweo eeh! owky, noted,lol!

     
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    Wala....kwani we unaniona?!
     
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    oryt oryt.....will be back shortly
     
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    Wifi....wanaojiwindisha ogopa kabisa!!!
     
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    CPU JF Gold Member

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    Kama ndo hivi, basi endelea kwa Kaka ake Asha Dii
    Khaaaaaaa!
     
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    CPU JF Gold Member

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    Kususa ususe mwenyewe, kukiachia kiende hutaki . . . .
    Khaaaa!
     
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    King'asti JF-Expert Member

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    hehehe, mara hii umeghairi, lol! ume-apply rule #3, na mie nikahusisha #5 (my door just broke, i need a fundi haraka sana). usijali kuwa kitoweo changu, i include moga za majani na matunda pia, sitakumaliza,lol

     
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    King'asti JF-Expert Member

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    wifi nimekusikia. kitoweo chenyewe kioga! hata sijakikamata kimezimia. mi nataka nichinje mwenyeewe nipate kisusio kabisaa. sasa sipiyuu atakufa kabla hajalamba kisu,lol. nakimbia

     
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    CPU JF Gold Member

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    Hapana aiseee!
    Yaani unanipaka kwa matunda ili unitoweo kwa raha zaidi . . . .
    Noooooo! Nenda kwa first option yako
     
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    CPU JF Gold Member

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    Akaaaaa!
    Kamchnje kaka ake AshaDiii
     
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