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5 Ways to Make your Guy Propose

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Bujibuji, Feb 16, 2010.

  1. Bujibuji

    Bujibuji JF-Expert Member

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    1. Don't talk about weddings
    Don't make it obvious that you are dying to be proposed to as chances are that your guy will run a mile. So, every time you pass a wedding procession pretend to be irritated. If there's a wedding scene in a film you both are watching, yawn and if you go to a wedding together, complain about the length of the ceremony and the poor quality of food. At home, keep saying, "I just hope you'll never make me do that."

    2. Feel bad for engaged and married pairs
    When you meet up with your oldest pal who's got everything according to you - the house, the man and the kids -pretend that you guys are better off than them. On your way home, keep telling your man how you thought that they looked miserable and bored. Even if know you are lying to yourself - just keep telling your guy that you both are far happier than them. He's bound to be surprised.

    3. Holiday with your girlfriends
    Ditch your man and head to an exotic destination with your gal pals. Save up and take that dream holiday you've been vying for a long time. Now, even if you do spend every night in a ram shackled resort talking about how much you miss your love, he won't know that. Let him go green with envy thinking you're in indulgence heaven, getting hot and heavy with other eligible men.

    4. Keep your parents away
    Don't suggest he spend his Diwali holiday with your family. Let him enquire why he wasn't invited, then tell him, "Why trouble yourself honey!" This is likely to make him feel left out, but at the same time it will make him wonder. Once he feels these two emotions about you, he'll have no choice but to pin you down and beg you to be his eternal flame.

    5. Resist the temptation to move in with your guy
    You're dying to stay over after that night of wild sex and never leave his cozy sex pad. You've even made place in his medicine chest in the loo for your belongings, but woman remember moving in minus that commitment is just giving it too easy to your man. He's likely to never ask for your hand, coz he's enjoying all the perks of marriage, minus the responsibilities. So, keep that distance and keep him wanting more when you kiss him goodnight at the door.
     
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    Pearl JF-Expert Member

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    thx uncle but to aza dudes,maybe ya 3 it muumiza but the rest I think ndo atasepa kabsaaaaaaaaa
     
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    hahaha una vijimambo we pearl
     
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    no comment
     
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    Pearl JF-Expert Member

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    mamy c unajua hawa watu hawana jema?
     
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    hahaaaaaaaaaaaaa Luliu umenichekesha sana...................infact zinaweza zisifanye kazi yoyote hizi njia

    hamna formula hapo
     
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    drphone JF-Expert Member

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    jaribuni mwone watakavyo sepa asa namba 5
     
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    Pearl JF-Expert Member

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    ndo walivyomami mm somtimez sidhani kama hawa pple wana moyo kwaweli maana!they are neva hut
     
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    drphone JF-Expert Member

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    jamni wanaume tunamioyo kama wanadamu wengine ukimwona mwanaume kawakatili ujue umemumiza lazima atalipiza
     
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    Dear Bujibuji,
    I like your techiques but also remember that there are as intelligent men as you have never imagined. And if I ask you a question do you know who (he/she) developed the techniques you r trying to presnet to us?
    I know of a relationship of friends of mine (two) which ended some 5 years back. One might even think the lady who ended up missing her man is the presenter of these scenerios,.... she was just behaving the same as you have proposed but the man wa kind enough just to observe her behaviour while at the same time pretending not to be aware of her actions. Kilichokuja kutokea baadaye naskia dada wa watu alishaolewa ila jamaa yuko kwenye kibano kigumu sana mpaka sasa hivi, toka kwa yule dada. Anyway technique can work in some of the cases, but not all!
     
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    Regia Mtema R I P

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    Mmh!sina la kuchangia
     
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    sasa jamani mnalipiza kisasi hovyohovyo tu ena kwa mtu ambaye hata hajakukosea

    thats so rude nyie wanaume nyie
     
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    bht JF-Expert Member

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    changia nawe usiliweke moyoni litakukaba bureeeeeeeeee
     
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    This is great reading for cupid lkn mbali na ukweli. Psychology plays a major role. Research inaonesha to propose he should be psychologically ready. Hivi unaweza kuona leo hayuko ready kusettle halafu baada ya miezi hata miwili anataka kuoa. Au hata baada ya wiki!

    Pia nadhani huwa ni umri... kawaida wanaume 29 -34 may be quite interested in settling down, lkn baada ya age bracket fulani priorities and dreams shift.

    Sawa na wanawake pale ambapo huwa wanapata hisia ya kutamani kuwa na watoto then baadae it passes.

    Its all about life and seasons.
     
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    Kiranga JF-Expert Member

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    But why would a girl want to "make" her guy propose?

    Isn't that manipulation? Shouldn't the guy want to propose of his own volition?

    If the girl is putting a show to be who she is truly not, example, pretending not to be a bridezilla, while she truly is, and the guy ends up marrying the woman, then the guy finds out who the woman truly is, if the whole thing ends up in an early divorce, will the woman blame the guy?

    What happenned to authentic love with no machinations?

    To me, the original post reads like "how to trap a man into marrying you". Only a desperate bridezilla would resort to that Machiavellian scheme.

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