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14 Surprising Facts about Marriage, Affairs & Divorce

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by HorsePower, Dec 8, 2011.

  1. HorsePower

    HorsePower JF-Expert Member

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    In her book, Dr. Holly Hein explores infidelity and teaches how to cope with its aftermath. By understanding the motivations behind the affair, betrayed spouses can learn to heal and rebuild their relationships.



    • Nearly 70% of all married men and 60% of married women have had affairs. ThatÂ’s two out of every three marriages.

    • Every ten to thirteen seconds someone gets divorced.

    • 50% of women and 33% of men remain angry for ten years after a divorce.

    • Women have more trouble starting new relationships than divorced men do.

    • More than 90% of divorces in long-standing marriages involve infidelities some time during the marriage.

    • More than 50% may be involved in a current affair, yet only 25% cite an affair as an actual reason for divorce.

    • 80% of those who divorce during an affair regret the decision.

    • Over 75% who marry partners in an affair eventually divorce.

    • The divorce rate and ratio of infidelity are much higher among marriage partners in an affair.

    • The average affair lasts two to four years.

    • If an affair becomes public it is doomed.

    • If an affair replaces the marriage, it is subject to the same emotional stresses as the marriage but is twice as likely to fracture.

    • An affair prevents binding ties from being formed. Eventually it has nowhere to go. Sooner or later it will suffocate in secrecy.

    • Affairs die for the same reason as marriage, lack of intimacy.
    Wenu,

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  2. Kongosho

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    Iko kidhungu mno, asante lakini kwa ujumbe
     
  3. sambenet

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    Du, kama hizo takwimu ni za kweli ni hatari
     
  4. The Boss

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    mhhhhh
     
  5. King'asti

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    80% regrets!? I'm changing my mind,lol
     
  6. nyumba kubwa

    nyumba kubwa JF-Expert Member

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    Mengi yana ukweli hata huku kwetu. Mfano watu waki divorce sababu ya kimada afu kimada akawa promoted to nyumba kubwa ndoa hiyo nayo haidumu.
     
  7. Missy

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    The average affair lasts two to four years.

    What if it lasts 10 years is that couple a successful one? should they keep going on with it?
     
  8. TIMING

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    msuba noma

    Mie siachi mke ila ntaongeza mke wasaidiane kukabiliana na ubishi na ukorofi wangu!! hayo ya infidelity sisemi, hakuna shamba linalolimwa na jembe moja asilani:A S embarassed:
     
  9. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    Ya 10 years iko poa maana inaonekana kuna advancement ya kila mmoja kujua kwanini yupo pale; salute the 10 years affair as long as it is not doomed:A S 13::A S 13:
     
  10. Missy

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    MTM I concur with you
     
  11. Bujibuji

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    laana na mikosi lazima viiandame hiyo nyumba hadi ivunjike
     
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    50% of women and 33% of men remain angry for ten years after a divorce

    masikini wanawake,ndio maana wanashindwa kumove on...lol
     
  13. Roulette

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    They are just statistics...
     
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    Baikoko Senior Member

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    tic tic tic tic . . . If an affair becomes public it is doomed:A S 465:
     
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    Kazi tunayo kama hilo nalo ni la kweli bt imani inatakiwa.
     
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    mi nashangaa mambo ya caucasians sisi weusi tii hatuyawezi!
     
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  18. Remmy

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    Nimeshtushwa na % ya akina mama, I thought wakiolewa ni waaminifu. 60% nu kubwa sana!
     
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    the said facts are only valid on the society from which the research was carried out. the depencence of the investigated paramaters on culture,economic ability and religious ideology must be well defined in order to bring the general usefullness of the reported facts. take example of a Tanzanian society, the broader meaning of the investigated paramaters are quite different from the western ones.
    unless more conditions have been defined about the type of society from which the investigation was carried out, the said "facts" remain to be speculative ones
     
  20. The Boss

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    statistcs za uwongo hizi
     
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