Kuna dhana kwamba ukubwa wa kitanda hupelekea kuweka wanandoa mbali kimapenzi. Lakini watu wengi watakuambia wanapenda 8x8, 6x6 etc.
Nimesikia mjadala wa size ya kitanda na " madhara/faida" yake katika uhusiano ukanifanya kujaribu kutafiti zaidi kujua zaidi nikakutana na uzoefu kama huu hapa chini:
- a king-size bed was too big for me to have an intimate relationship with my husband. Not too big to have sex in but too big to be physically close. Too much personal space.
-I've since remarried and my second husband and I sleep in a queen-size bed. It feels right. But, of course, there are those times when I don't want to be close to him. Those times when I feel like I'm sleeping next to an old dog that .............. and snores. But most of the time, I like knowing that my husband is in the bed with me. The warmth of his body, the sound of his breathing, the feel of his morning wood. It's comforting
- I think I might feel exactly the same way! A full is much too small.. I want him near by but not completely touching me...a king makes it seem like he is miles away.. but a queen, a queen is just right.
- We too like to get a king when we're on vacation, or staying at a hotel, but it's more of a commodity, and we usually end up sleeping smooshed together on one side.
- we sleep in a full size bed normally... and we are usually fine with it and can cope... but lately we have been sleeping in the guest bedroom on the queen sized bed and we have problem with the King sized bed... I will roll to the edge because that's where I'm comfortable and then he will turn around and discover I'm not there and pull me towards him... it makes for restless nights to say the least...
-We have a King size and it's good for business. If we want to be close, we both migrate towards the middle, but it keeps us from disturbing each other and we sleep better then when we were in my queen.
-I like the king because it is big enough to have some fun in and on hot summer nights when i dont want anthing touching me, not even his hand. When i need to snuggle we just meet in the middle, I like to have physical contact, ie something touching even if it is just my hand on his back.
Hizo 8 kwa 8 zitawafanya kuachana upesi kumbe!.....