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      Wana JF nimeoa na nina mtoto mmoja ana miaka minne, nimemfunia mke wangu anafanya mambo na kijana fulani wa mtaani hapa hapa.

      Nimemrudisha kwao ila naona kama adhabu haitoshi kuna muda natamani kama nimkatekate vipande vidogo vidogo vya nyama au hata niende kwa mganga amfanye chizi.

      Bado wazazi wamekutana wanasema nimsamehe.

      Naomba busara zenu wanaJF ila pia nawapeni somo msiwaamini wanawake anaweza kukugeuka siku yoyote, mimi mke wangu nimetoka nae shule ya msingi mpaka mwaka huu ni zaidi ya miaka 13
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      Umemfuniaje mbona sijakuelewa vizuri.?
      nilipewa hbr na watu na tukaenda mpaka kwa yule jamaa nilikuwa na askari,tumewakuta chumbani kwa jamaa,jamaa ana chumba kimoja.Mke wangu anasema ndio mara ya kwanza ila majirani wa pale wanasema ana muda kiasi anatoka na huyo mpuuzi

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      hapana hata kidogo,mm nilikuwa naona ananipenda sana hakukuwa na dalili zozote za usaliti,ni mzuri sana kwa kujipretend kama ananipenda
      Msamaha unatoka ndani yako, usisamehe kwa mashinikizo, ila jua kwamba unaweza kuoa mwingine na akawa mbaya kuliko huyu uliyemfumania.
      Komaa tu....

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      muombe mrudiane harafu unamsomea ramani unashindilia chupa kwenye dude lake

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      Ukimegewa, tafuta na we mnyonge ummegee, haipunguzi maumivu ila inarudisha hadhi ya kiume...........
      Usimwambie mwanamke unamuamini, hata kama unamtania ..........................
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      Dogo tulia bana, kwanza inaonekana mmeoana mkiwa wadogo maana kama mmeanza s/m na huu ni mwaka wa 13 so ina maana una chini ya miaka 13 ukiwa umemaliza s/m. na kwa maana hiyo hiyo una zaidi ya miaka 13 ukiwa unamega mzigo, ni muda mrefu sana kwa umri mlionao so aliamua ajaribu experience tofauti kama vile wewe unavyoamuaga kuchange flavour
      najua inavyouma, maana mi nakumbuka nishawahi kumuona live demu wangu anaelekea kumegwa lakini sikuwa na jinsi ya kuzuia coz ilikuwa ni lazima nisafiri, mwisho wa siku inabidi ukubali matokeo tu kwani wengi kama siyo wote wako hivyo, so utaoa wangapi na utaacha wangapi?
      Ukitaka wako pekeyako kata mgomba uweke ndani, so kuwa mwanaume dude, najua huwezi kufa lakini kila kitu ni conditioned response, ukiamua kukubali tatizo na kuamua kuanza upya inawezekana, trust me!!
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      thenx ila swez kukaa naye tukaongea kwan najisikia kama nimfanyaje sijui,afu mbona suala la tendo la ndoa sidhani kama kuna dosari,sijui hata nikikaa nae kuongea atasema nn cha maana
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      pole kijana, pole sana wanasema is the greatest pain ever,
      pongezi kwako- kwa uamuzi ulochukua baada ya kumfumania ndiyo uliko na hasira lakin hukumpiga hata mmoja wao,,
      ulifanya pia vizuri kumpeleka kwa wazazi, ila ningependa uruhusu maongezi kati yako wewe nae kwanza,,
      vipi mkeo anaonesha moyo wa kuomba msamaha au ilikuaje, ndugu hapo juu kauliza swali la msingi vipi walitumia kinga,,
      ni vema mkazungumza wewe na mkeo kwa mapana na marefu, hivi ni kitu gani hasa ni tabia yake, kuna kitu kinakosekana katika mapenzi, au ni gani? je unamridhisha mkeo kimapenzi? mnafanya mara nyingi apendavyo, upendavyo mpendavyo?
      psychologia ya mapenzi inasemaje? mwanaume anaweza kutoka ni kawaida kwa wanaume wengi, sasa ukiona hata mkeo nae anatoka labda anajua unatoka na ameshindwa kukuambia na amejichukulia maamuzi pekee? au anakosa kitu? anything is rit
      kinachouma apa ni kumfumania sio? jiulize ni mazuri mangapi mnafanya pamoja. mnaenjoy mapenzi mara ngapi. mbona hili limekua kubwa kwako kiasi unataka kumkatakata
      je? hakuna tatizo jingine lolote kati yako wewe na mpenzi wako, lililotokea karibuni? ambalo unaweza ukalihusianisha na hili jambo? naamini mara nying hii ni triger tu kuna mambo mengi ups and down
      jambo jingine usione ati huu muda ni mwingi saana at 13yrs, wengine tuna 13yrs baada ya drs la saba na bado tunasoma ni kitambo kidogo tu,, LOVE LAST IT'S ETERNAL
      kwa ufupi unamjua mkeo kuliko mtu mwingine, yafaa kumsikiliza pia bibie jugdement ya upande moja haifai,,
      ila kama upo CLEAN, HUJAWAHI TENDA JAMBO LISILO BAYA KWA MKEO,, , MAANDIKO YASEMA KOSA LA KUMFUMANIA MKEO WAWEZA FANYA MAAMUZI KUMWACHA MAANA UMEMWACHA KWA UZINZI

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      thenx ila swez kukaa naye tukaongea kwan najisikia kama nimfanyaje sijui,afu mbona suala la tendo la ndoa sidhani kama kuna dosari,sijui hata nikikaa nae kuongea atasema nn cha maana
      wanawake hawatoki nje ya ndoa kwa ajili ya sex. Actually mwanamke anaweza kukaa mwaka mzima bila sex na akawa ok tu. Anatafuta emotional connection, mtu anaemfanya ajisike mzuri na anaemthamini (hata kama anamdanganya). Kama hakuna upendo, uaminifu na kuthaminiana sex ni kero kwa mwanamke unless ni biashara!
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      thenx ila swez kukaa naye tukaongea kwan najisikia kama nimfanyaje sijui,afu mbona suala la tendo la ndoa sidhani kama kuna dosari,sijui hata nikikaa nae kuongea atasema nn cha maana
      ni kweli kwamba hata hujui atasema nini cha maana na ndo maana yafaa au ni busara ukae nae, kumbuka huyu sasa ni mzazi mwenzio,,,mama wa mtoto wenu,, ya lovely kids, niambie ar ya ready to raise ya kid in a separete families, single parented, ouh nimelelewa na mzazi moja usiombee ikatokea afu akawa mtoto mwenye uwezo kama mimi, akachambua mambo kwa undani sijui utamwambia nini mtoto kwamba ulimfumania mama ake, , hilo tu. oukey basi hata kama utaamua lolote, ni vema umsamehe for the sake of ya growing kid to have both parent's love at hand
      najua madhara ya separation na sipendi yampate mwingine
      if your eyez can nt see, let ya heart see

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      na huyo kijana umempa adhabu gani?ukimpa hasira zitaisha

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      wanawake hawatoki nje ya ndoa kwa ajili ya sex. Actually mwanamke anaweza kukaa mwaka mzima bila sex na akawa ok tu. Anatafuta emotional connection, mtu anaemfanya ajisike mzuri na anaemthamini (hata kama anamdanganya). Kama hakuna upendo, uaminifu na kuthaminiana sex ni kero kwa mwanamke unless ni biashara!
      Hii imekaa vizuri.
      Wake ni waaminifu sana zaidi mara dufu ya waume.
      Waume wanatamani kila kitu na si wavumilivu kama wake, na wangetafuta sababu za visingizio ili kuhararisha makosa na udhaifu wao.
      Wake ni wavumilivu sana na huwachukua muda kukubali kushawishwa, ila siku zote hurahisishiwa kufanya maamuzi pale wenzi wanapokosa kuonyesha hisia mwenzi za dhati kwao na kuwachukulia kama kufuli lililofungwa, 'ntalikuta tu mlangoni nitakaporudi, si mi ndiyo mwenye ufunguo'.

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      makubwa wanawake ni kama mvua inaweza nyesha mahali popote pale iwe kwenye kinyesi hata mashambani ndio wanawake wengi wako hivyo hata uwanunulie gari, hionga sana ni bure. mkuu pole sana vuta subira Mungu atakujibu kwa muda wake

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      Wana JF nimeoa na nina mtoto mmoja ana miaka minne,nimemfunia mke wangu anafanya mambo na kijana fulani wa mtaani hapa hapa.Nimemrudisha kwao ila naona kama adhabu haitoshi kuna muda natamani kama nimkatekate vipande vidogo vidogo vya nyama au hata niende kwa mganga amfanye chizi.Bado wazazi wamekutana wanasema nimsamehe.Naomba busara zenu wanaJF ila pia nawapeni somo msiwaamin wanawake anaweza kukugeuka siku yoyote,mm mke wangu nimetoka nae shule ya msingi mpaka mwaka huu ni zaidi ya miaka 13
      Jitahidi umuoe ndugu wa huyo kijana maana vinginevyo
      anaweza kuja tena.
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      wanawake hawatoki nje ya ndoa kwa ajili ya sex. Actually mwanamke anaweza kukaa mwaka mzima bila sex na akawa ok tu. Anatafuta emotional connection, mtu anaemfanya ajisike mzuri na anaemthamini (hata kama anamdanganya). Kama hakuna upendo, uaminifu na kuthaminiana sex ni kero kwa mwanamke unless ni biashara!
      Huwa napendaga comements kwani huwa zina- touch maisha yangu binafsi I wish mume wangu angekuwa anazisoma. Ni kweli kama mwanamke huthaminiwi na mumeo u dont feel him kwenye sex

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      Jus relax usije ukafanya uamuzi mgumu!! Wanaume kila siku wnatoka nje wakitoka wanawake tunakuwa kama vichaa,, mbona wao wanasamehe. Ila jiulize nikwanini adi akatoka nje kuna sababu 2.

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      Du pole sana mkuu,Uzoefu unaonyesha ni ngumu sana mwanamke alieolewa kutoka nje ya ndoa yake pia ni ngumu sana kwa huyo mwanamke alietoka nje ya ndoa kuacha uzinzi wake,sema na moyo wako !!
      Mi binafsi nawachukia sana wazinzi wanaotoka nje ya ndoa zao kwa mwamvuli wa kutoridhishwa kimapenzi.
      NDOA NI ZAIDI YA TENDO sio mnawaza kugongana tu !!!
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      Duh kijana wa mtaa alikuwa anakukuruka kwa kitumbua cha mkeo duh noomaa, JE walitumia kinga...?
      Mke wa mtu haliwi kwa kinga, kubali usikubali, maamuzi ya kutumia kinga yapo kwa mwanaume, mwanamke akishakubali huwa ana sacrifice kila kitu, unless awe anauza.
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      Mwanaume mmoja aliwahi kuniambia hivi,"SIO KWAMBA ...."WANAUME HATUTOKI NJE YA NDOA,...LA HASHA....ILA TATIZO NI KWAMBA....KATIKA KILE KITENDO MWANAMKE NDIE ANAYEFANYWA..... HIVYO INATIA HASIRA UKIANZA FIKIRIA ALIFANYWA FANYWAJE?"

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      wanawake hawatoki nje ya ndoa kwa ajili ya sex. Actually mwanamke anaweza kukaa mwaka mzima bila sex na akawa ok tu. Anatafuta emotional connection, mtu anaemfanya ajisike mzuri na anaemthamini (hata kama anamdanganya). Kama hakuna upendo, uaminifu na kuthaminiana sex ni kero kwa mwanamke unless ni biashara!
      Hata wanaume tunaweza, wakati niko masomoni INDIA
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