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      Default Ukimwi na Mapenzi

      Mume wangu nakupenda sana, ujilinde, mimi siwezi kukulinda au kukuchunga kila uendapo, unaweza ukawa kuna mambo unayafanya ambayo mimi hutaki niyajue na wala sitaki nijue, Tafadhali sana lolote lile utakalofanya jua kuna ukimwi, Angalau ukumbuke kutumia kinga, kwakweli sitakusamehe wala kukuhudumia siku ukipatwa na ukimwi. Hayo ni maneno ambayo mke alikuwa anamwambia mumewe. Lakini baada ya miaka kadhaa ya ndoa kama nane hivi mke ikajulikana yeye ndio amepata ukimwi bahati nzuri mume alipoenda kucheki yeye alikuwa bado hajaathirika. Mbaya zaidi jamaa hajawahi kusikia wala kuhisi kama mkewe anatoka nje ya ndoa mpaka alipogundua dalili za ukimwi kwa mkewe.

      Kweli ndoa ngumu. Kupata mtu muaminifu ni ndoto.
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      HAKUNA NGUVU KUBWA KULIKO YA UMMA.


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      Mume wangu nakupenda sana, ujilinde, mimi siwezi kukulinda au kukuchunga kila uendapo, unaweza ukawa kuna mambo unayafanya ambayo mimi hutaki niyajue na wala sitaki nijue, Tafadhali sana lolote lile utakalofanya jua kuna ukimwi, Angalau ukumbuke kutumia kinga, kwakweli sitakusamehe wala kukuhudumia siku ukipatwa na ukimwi. Hayo ni maneno ambayo mke alikuwa anamwambia mumewe. Lakini baada ya miaka kadhaa ya ndoa kama nane hivi mke ikajulikana yeye ndio amepata ukimwi bahati nzuri mume alipoenda kucheki yeye alikuwa bado hajaathirika. Mbaya zaidi jamaa hajawahi kusikia wala kuhisi kama mkewe anatoka nje ya ndoa mpaka alipogundua dalili za ukimwi kwa mkewe.

      Kweli ndoa ngumu. Kupata mtu muaminifu ni ndoto.
      Hapo ndo ujue uaminifu ni siri ya mtu moyoni.

      Sasa huyo mke kautoa wapi huo ukimwi? Kachangua sindano? Au kaupata the old fashioned way?

      Either way, nasaha zake kwa mumewe zilikuwa zina-project tabia yake.
      Context is everything.

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      Mambo ya discordant couples hayo,jamaa amshukuru mola wake na kikubwa zaidi amtunze mkewe na ammpe moyo,waishi watunze watoto,kulaumiana haisadii,wakubali tu hali halisi.
      Wee babu J....discordant ndo nini?
      Context is everything.

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      hatujui upande wa pilli wa hii hadithi...nachelea kumuhukumu huyu mama coz hatujui nini kilimsibu....all in all uaminifu unajengwa na vitu vingi sana...
      Ingekua ni mwanaume ndie kapatikana bado ungeonesha subra hiyo hiyo?
      Creativity is the sudden cessation of stupidity.
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      Inamaana hawakuwa na mahusiano ya kinyumba? Hili swala la mke/mume kuwa na virusi lakini mwenzake akakosa linanitatiza sana.

      The only explanation ni kama hawakutani kimwili, lakini kama wanakutana kimwili regularly inashangaza.
      I read somewhere that the likelihoods of catching HIV less than 0,3% per coitus.
      Ingekua kila coitus inaambukiza basi watu wangeisha duniani, tungebaki sisi tu.
      Ngoja nitafute ile source then nije ni-edit this post. Nilishangaa mwenyewe!
      Estimated HIV transmission risk per exposure for specific activities and events

      Activity Risk-per-exposure
      Vaginal sex, female-to-male, studies in high-income countries 0.04% (1:2380)
      Vaginal sex, male-to-female, studies in high-income countries 0.08% (1:1234)
      Vaginal sex, female-to-male, studies in low-income countries 0.38% (1:263)
      Vaginal sex, male-to-female, studies in low-income countries 0.30% (1:333)
      Vaginal sex, source partner is asymptomatic 0.07% (1:1428)
      Vaginal sex, source partner has late-stage disease 0.55% (1:180)
      Receptive anal sex amongst gay men, partner unknown status 0.27% (1:370)
      Receptive anal sex amongst gay men, partner HIV positive 0.82% (1:123)
      Receptive anal sex with condom, gay men, partner unknown status 0.18% (1:555)
      Insertive anal sex, gay men, partner unknown status 0.06% (1:1666)
      Insertive anal sex with condom, gay men, partner unknown status 0.04% (1:2500)
      Receptive fellatio Estimates range from 0.00% to 0.04% (1:2500)
      Mother-to-child, mother takes at least two weeks antiretroviral therapy 0.8% (1:125)
      Mother-to-child, mother takes combination therapy, viral load below 50 0.1% (1:1000)
      Injecting drug use Estimates range from 0.63% (1:158) to 2.4% (1:41)
      Needlestick injury, no other risk factors 0.13% (1:769)
      Blood transfusion with contaminated blood 92.5% (9:10)
      Sources: vaginal sex;1 anal sex;2 fellatio;3 2 mother-to-child;4 other activities.5



      http://www.aidsmap.com/Estimated-ris...8/#item1324093



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      Ingekua kila coitus inaambukiza basi watu wangeisha duniani, tungebaki sisi tu.
      Mngebaki wewe na nani?
      Context is everything.


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      Mngebaki wewe na nani?
      Sisi ambao hatu-do
      Creativity is the sudden cessation of stupidity.
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      Mkuu have you ever heard of discordant couples?Google it .Inachanganya sana kwa kweli
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      Inamaana hawakuwa na mahusiano ya kinyumba? Hili swala la mke/mume kuwa na virusi lakini mwenzake akakosa linanitatiza sana.

      The only explanation ni kama hawakutani kimwili, lakini kama wanakutana kimwili regularly inashangaza.
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      No.
      Nani mwingine ha-do?
      Mi nitajuaje? najua wewe na mimi tu.
      Creativity is the sudden cessation of stupidity.
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      Mi nitajuaje? najua wewe na mimi tu.
      Sasa mbona mwanzoni ulitumia uwingi wa 'sisi'?
      Context is everything.

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      Sasa mbona mwanzoni ulitumia uwingi wa 'sisi'?
      majestically.
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      majestically.
      Unamaanisha nini?
      Context is everything.

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      Unamaanisha nini?
      kuna watu ambao wanarefer to themselves at the third person (singular)
      or first person (plural). Ndio nilitaka kufanya hapo: Sisi kama Mwali
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      kuna watu ambao wanarefer to themselves at the third person (singular)
      or first person (plural). Ndio nilitaka kufanya hapo: Sisi kama Mwali
      Uwingi wa Mwali ni mwali?
      Context is everything.

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      Uwingi wa Mwali ni mwali?
      in this majestic form? ndio.
      It is just like when a speaker says:" tunaamini kwamba "
      He could well say naamini, but he uses that to weight his opinion
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      in this majestic form? ndio.
      It is just like when a speaker says:" tunaamini kwamba "
      He could well say naamini, but he uses that to weight his opinion
      Majestic ni part of speech?
      Context is everything.

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      Majestic ni part of speech?
      http://forum.wordreference.com/showthread.php?t=858883
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      Hilo siyo jibu la swali langu.
      Context is everything.

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      Hilo siyo jibu la swali langu.
      basi sijaelewa swali lako.
      can you repeat the question
      using different words please?
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      Ingekua ni mwanaume ndie kapatikana bado ungeonesha subra hiyo hiyo?
      Ntajudge kutokana na story itakavyokuwa mkuu Mwali...
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      Inamaana hawakuwa na mahusiano ya kinyumba? Hili swala la mke/mume kuwa na virusi lakini mwenzake akakosa linanitatiza sana.

      The only explanation ni kama hawakutani kimwili, lakini kama wanakutana kimwili regularly inashangaza.
      Hii inashangaza lakini hutokea. before nilikuwa siamini, ikaja kutokea kwa ndugu yetu. wakati mke wake ana mimba(3months) ndugu yetu akaanza kuugua ukimwi, tukaenda hospitali kibao kuthibitisha kama ana huo ugonjwa, kila hospital tulioenda ilithibitisha kuwa anao. ndugu yetu akafariki. tukamchukua mke kwenda kumpima, kila tulikompeleka tukaambiwa hana, na mke akawa anang'ang'ania kuwa mumewe amerogwa kwa sababu ingekuwa ukimwi na yeye angekua nao. lakini ukweli ni kwamba ndugu yetu alikuwa na ukimwi. Mpaka leo hii sielewi iliwezekanaje.

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