Topic: Challenges nilizoziface ndani ya jf tangu nimejoin mpaka sasa

Mamboz?, leonataka kushare nanyi changamoto nilizokumbana nazo tangu nimejoin jf. Binafsi naaminichangamoto zinasaidia kutujenga kiakili na binadamu wote tunapitia challengestofautitofauti. Challenges nilizokumbana nazo humu zimenifanya kuwa mtu makinizaidi hivyo sina budi kushukuru kwa yote yaliyonikuta. Labda niende moja kwa moja kwa kile natakakushare nanyi then nitachukua fursa kuagana rasmi. Challenges zote zimesababishwa na watu ingawainawezekana na mimi nimechangia kwa namna moja au nyingine.
A.Challenge.
Nilimzoeahuyu mtu humu humu nilijua tutakuwa marafiki wazuri wa kushauriana na hatakupiga story ila sikuamini kuwa huyu mtu ni KUWADI (Alinitafutia mwanaume). Sikupenda hayo mambo na mwisho wa sikutumekuwa maadui.
B.challenge
Nilimchukulia kama ndugu yangu, nilikuwa kimbilio lake kila alipohitajiushauri. Nilimshirikisha pia baadhi ya mambo yangu, hatukuwahi kugombana hatakidogo. Rafiki huyu aliniambia ana shida ya pesa (nimkopeshe). Nilichukulia shidayake ni yangu, husninyo nikavunja kibubu…………
Dahhhh, sahivi hatuwasiliani tena, hapigi wala hatumi msg , nimeshapigwakalenda mpaka nimechoka na sina matumaini tena ya kulipwa pesa yangu. Imeniumiza
C. Challenge
Hii ilihusu rafiki yangu niliyekutana nae humu, alikuwa nirafiki mzuri ila sahivi sipo nae tena. Tulikuwa tukisalimiana kwa pm na kusharemawili matatu. Huyu rafiki amepotea ghafla JF, sijui kama amekufa au lah maanamwaka unakatika sasa. Hii inanihuzunisha sana.

D. Challenge
Huyu nae nilifikiri ni kijana mwenzangu , tukapanga kuonana kwa nianjema. Dah, sikuamini kama ni kibabu tena karibia mara 3 ya umri wangu. Kibabu hiki baada ya pale kimeanza usumbufukinataka tu DO. Tumeishia kugombana nahatuna mawasiliano tena.

E. challenge
Huyu alikuwa ni msumbufu sana kwenyePMs. Tumesumbuana mwisho wa siku akakata tamaa. Muda si mrefu alibadili IDakawa anatumia ya Kike, watu wote mpaka sasa wanajua ni mwanamke na kabla ya hapo pia walikuwa wanajua ni mwanaume. Nashindwakuelewa ni mwanamke au mwanaume.

F. challenge
Huyu nae alikuwa ni rafiki ingawa sikupenda mazoe naeya ukaribu. nilishindwa kuelew alikuwa ananipeleleza au lah, aliniomba nambayangu nikamnyima, baada ya wiki ananipigia na kudai yeye ni (……..) wa JF, sikupenda hiyo kitu.
Najua wapinimekosea. Nataka kuzaliwa upya. Nimedecide kuchange maisha yangu ya kimtandao. Najua nina familyhapa: Mtambuzi- baba, mamdenyi-mama, kaizer-uncle, ashadii-aunt,cantalisia-sister, mwali-cousin, dark city & asprin – mababu, sweetlady-swahibana nipo na marafiki kibao pamoja na mashemeji (mnajijua.) My online husband – judgement, nitakumiss sana ilanimekuruhusu uoe mke mwingine maana najua maisha ya usingle hautoyaweza. lol
Nitakuwa nanyikwa siku tatu kuanzia leo kujibucomments zenu then nitomba PARMANENT BAN kutoka kwa mods. Nitakuwa nasomahabari (najua humu ni kisima cha habari) kama guest na nitajoin tena miakaijayo ingawa kwa kipindi hicho sitokuwa the same husninyo as akili yangu itakuwaya kiutu uzima zaidi.
Nafikiri mtakuwammejifunza kitu kwenye hii thread pia nitakuwa nimeondoa maswali ya watukujiuliza kwa nini nimekuwa banned. Wale members wenzagu wa JE saccostutakutana kwenye vikao au ofisini kwenye kuchukua na kurudisha mikopo, waleambao tayari tumekuwa na mahusiano mazuri nje ya jf tutakeep in touch, waleambao tulipanga kuonana na kufahamiana nawapa pole (haitowezekana tena). Nawatakiakila la heri na mungu awalinde. Nawapenda sana.

By Mwali

She didn't ask for sympathy. C'mon people!

Mwali baby read btn the lines. It is some kind of cry.

By klorokwini

Mkuu uchune bana utanikosesha mchumba lol

Mie bado nina wasiwasi na Husninyo kuamua kuachana na JF.
Unajua matokeo ya form six yametoka leo?
Inawezekana amepata matokeo ambayo ni challenge.

By Mwali

Nipo nashangaa tu hapa... hivi tufanye nini Husninyo abaki?
I will miss her so much Ivuga, please do something to convince her.
Yu wapi Nyani Ngabu mtani wake, aje amchekeshe maybe atabaki

inabidi afunge pm zake zote awe makini na watu wanao m pm akishaona kuwa mtu anaelekea ambako siko basi ampige chini ..its so simple. Husninyo alikosa ushauri tu au labda yuko so lonely ..sijui kwa nini alikuwa na moyo wa kukutana na watu wote hao..na wewe inabidi nikuulize kwa nini mlimuacha Husninyo mpaka akawa lonely kiasi hiki hadi anakutana na watu wa ajabu ajabu hivi. Nyani Ngabu atakuwa anaorganise show ya Linah kuja US.

By Mwali

We si unaona kaamua kusema, atakua hajaridhika. Boresha huduma kaka...

Kama Husninyo alikuwa hajawa satisfied na huduma na sera zangu angeniambia mie tuu.

By Shabhan

Mwali baby read btn the lines. It is some kind of cry.

Ok, she is not happy, and she has decided to share her experience and leave.
This is very brave of her. wa ngapi wamekutana ha hayo na wakaamua kujifungia?
To me this is like: Hey, I made few mistakes, but I know how to fix them going forward.
I pick myself up, dust it and move along with my new-not-so-social ID. thank you all.
It is a positive message. Mi sijampa pole, nimempa hongera kwa kuchukua hatua...

By EMT

Kama Husninyo alikuwa hajawa satisfied na huduma na sera zangu angeniambia mie tuu.

Umechemshaaaa. lol

By Mwali

How did you do that? lol

PM me I will teach noʎ.

By sweetlady

Hahaha! Heri mimi sijasema! Challenge D ndio nimeipenda asee daaah!....

hebu think lawyer wakati swahiba anakazana kutuma PM na kusema 'I love you baby boy', tobaaaaa!!! kufumba na kufumbua kumbe kibabu hakina hata meno!...lolest

Kibabu kinataka kumfia Husninyo nyumba za kulala wenyeji lol.

Ukiona mtu ana status ya "Senior Member" JF jua moja kwa moja ni kibabu au kibibi.
Invisible nirudishie my "Expert Membership" haraka sana. Hali mbaya.

By klorokwini

eeeh Mola jaalia michelle asitokee. amen

hah ah a imekula kwako nimesha m pm.kasema soon anakuja na mi picha yuko kwenye Obama fund-raising

Adui mwombee hungry

sio fresh mimi ni mteja wako ndugu yangu

Husninyo challege B nitakutumia ile pesa mamaangu..nilikuwa nasubiri mpunga wangu ukomae niuze ,tukutane pale pa kila siku love u

By Saint Ivuga

ha ha aa michele yuko wapi huyu anazo picha nyingo za klorokwini

Hehehe! Wacha tumsubirie aje azimwage hapa!

By Saint Ivuga

inabidi afunge pm zake zote awe makini na watu wanao m pm akishaona kuwa mtu anaelekea ambako siko basi ampige chini ..its so simple. Husninyo alikosa ushauri tu au labda yuko so lonely ..sijui kwa nini alikuwa na moyo wa kukutana na watu wote hao..na wewe inabidi nikuulize kwa nini mlimuacha Husninyo mpaka akawa lonely kiasi hiki hadi anakutana na watu wa ajabu ajabu hivi. Nyani Ngabu atakuwa anaorganise show ya Linah kuja US.

Mtu ataishije bila PM bwana? PM mambo yote
Suali msilo maliza kwenye thread mnamalizia PM
Sema tu ni mtu kuchagua very carefully nani anaku-PM

Mfano: Ribosome anataka kunifunza kuandika upside down
How can I resist? ngoja nimtumie PM sasa hivi. Ivuga funga macho.

By Ribosome

PM me I will teach noʎ.

By EMT

Ukiona mtu ana status ya "Senior Member" JF jua moja kwa moja ni kibabu au kibibi.
Invisible nirudishie my "Expert Membership" haraka sana. Hali mbaya.

EMT hebu andamana turudishiwe vyeo vyetu lol. Kwani nini kimetokea mpaka tukashushwa vyeo?

By Mwali

Mtu ataishije bila PM bwana? PM mambo yote
Suali msilo maliza kwenye thread mnamalizia PM
Sema tu ni mtu kuchagua very carefully nani anaku-PM

Mfano: Ribosome anataka kunifunza kuandika upside down
How can I resist? ngoja nimtumie PM sasa hivi. Ivuga funga macho.

Ivug atalia akikuona na wewe unamjibu upside down kwi kwi kwi teh teh teh!

By Ribosome

Ivug atalia akikuona na wewe unamjibu upside down kwi kwi kwi teh teh teh!

Hahahaha, roho mbaya tu hiyo.
Siji PM sasa! Ivuga, I am sorry...

By Mwali

Mtu ataishije bila PM bwana? PM mambo yote
Suali msilo maliza kwenye thread mnamalizia PM
Sema tu ni mtu kuchagua very carefully nani anaku-PM

Mfano: Ribosome anataka kunifunza kuandika upside down
How can I resist? ngoja nimtumie PM sasa hivi. Ivuga funga macho.

i dont mind wewe kum pm ila hiko ni kigiriki kwa hio hakinitishi ...nakujua sana wewe Mwali huwezi kunisaliti so mimi nimerelax sanaa tuu siogopi kitu..ningekuwa nachezaga bellow level ndio ningeogopa.
- what i mean sio kufunga pm zote inatakiwa awe anawapotezea watu wengine ..najua wasichana mnapoke pm nyingi san kutoka kwa kila mtu hasa kwa watu wanaowinda im not among of them

By Mwali

Mtu ataishije bila PM bwana? PM mambo yote
Suali msilo maliza kwenye thread mnamalizia PM
Sema tu ni mtu kuchagua very carefully nani anaku-PM

Mfano: Ribosome anataka kunifunza kuandika upside down
How can I resist? ngoja nimtumie PM sasa hivi. Ivuga funga macho.

Hahaha Mwali una mambo wewe!

By Ribosome

Ivug atalia akikuona na wewe unamjibu upside down kwi kwi kwi teh teh teh!

Ribosome nimemruhusu kwa baraka zote huyu namuamini sio macho juu juu kwani wewe unamuonaje Mwali . huyu ni kitu kingine bwana and i am so proud of her au kama huamini jaribu kuingiza gia zako uuone moto wake, utajuta kuzaliwa sikudanganyi na wala simpaki mafuta kwa kutumia mgongo wa chupa i am speaking from experience dude!!

By Mwali

Hahahaha, roho mbaya tu hiyo.
Siji PM sasa! Ivuga, I am sorry...

Mwali nenda tu huko pm ungekuwa hujitambui ndio nisingekuruhusu but i know and believe you.
sasa hivi tufanye mikakati mtu wetu Husninyo arudi jamvini..haiwezekani aondoke kirahisi hivi kama kwa sababu ya vunyamkera wachache

By klorokwini

Tuonane wapi kusherehekea hii amen yako? hakyanani mie si kibabu

Pale pale pa siku zote! Mie najua wewe sio kibabu ndio mana sibanduki pembeni yako..