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      Default Kuvaa shanga kiunoni: Nini umuhimu wake?

      Shanga ni topic tata sana kwangu kwa vile sina uzoefu nayo na kila ninapojaribu kuuliza watumiaji au wavaa huwa hawanipi majibu mazuri na yakuridhisha. Wanaume watakuambia wanapenda tu na wanawake watasema wanaume au wapenzi wao wanapenda wao wazivae.

      Rafiki yangu wa Kighana alitoa maelezo ambayo nadhani yalikamilika japo hakugusua umuhimu wake kwenye ngono….aliniambia kuwa huko kwao Shanga ni muhimu kuonyesha kuwa wewe ni mwanamke wa shoka au uliyekamilika.

      Ikiwa mwanamke huvai Shanga basi unaonekana hufai na hakuna mwanaume atataka kutoka na wewe/kuchumbia only kwa vile huna shanga kiuoni……hivyo wanawake wote wa Kighana wanavaa shanga no matter how beautiful, educated au westnized they are.

      Turudi Nyumbani……nakumbuka niliwahi kumuuliza mama yangu (wao wanavaa shanga) faida ya shanga na yeye akanijibu kuwa ni kama sehemu ya “romance”….nikauliza ni sawa sawa na kubusu au kushikana?

      Akajibu “ndio”…..nikauliza inawezekanaje mtu asisimke kutokana na kuziona shanga tu au kuzishika-shika tu? Akanijibu kuwa “mwanaume anapozichezea humpa mwanake mtekenyo furani ambao hufamfanya ajisikie raha na hamu ya kungonoka (nyege) huanza kumpanda”.

      Mimi kama Dinah nikahisi kuwa mwanaume anaetegemea kuchezea shanga ili mwanamke “anyegeke” atakuwa hana utundu wa kutosha wa kutumia mikono na vidole vyake ktk kuuchezea mwili wa mwanamke hasa ukizingatia kuwa mwanamke “hanyegeki” kwakuchezewa na vidole kiunoni tu bali kona nyingi ktk mwili wake

      Uvaaji wa shanga kiunoni ni moja kati ya tamaduni zetu waafrika, nakumbuka katika jamii ya Wanyamwezi (nadhani na Wasukuma pia as far as I remember miaka hiyo niliyoishi kona hizo za Tz ) shanga zilikuwa zikivishwa mtoto wa kike kiunoni na yule wa kiume alivalishwa kijikamba/uzi mweusi ambao huwa na vipande vidogo viwili au vinne vya mti akiwa mdogo.

      Ssina hakika kwanini ilikuwa hivyo ila nakumbuka niliwahi kuambia kuwa vijiti vile ni kumlinda mtoto dhidi ya malaika wabaya (kama ilivyo kwa tamaduni nyingine kuwapaka watoto wanja ili watishe) na shanga ni kuonyesha kuwa mtoto ni wa kike.

      Mtoto napofikia umri Fulani vikorokoro hivyo huondolewa na binti huvalishwa tena pale anapokua (vunja ungo/balehe), kule kwetu kila rangi ya shanga huwa na maana yake nikiwa na maana kama binti ni Bikira anavaa rangi Fulani, kama uliolewa ukaachika wavaa rangi Fulani, kama umeolewa wavalishwa rangi husika, kama siku hiyo wataka kufanywa (unanyege) basi wamvalia mumeo rangi husika,ikiwa ni mjamzito pia unapaswa kutuma ujumbe kwa kumvalia mumeo rangi fulani (ilikuwa mwiko kungonoka na mtoto tumboni) kama uko hedhini basi utalazimika kuongezea rangi nyekundu juu ya ile uliyonayo.

      Itasaidia kama watakuja na rangi inayoashiria kuwa mtu kaukwaa a.k.a ana ngoma a.k.a UKIMWI.....wewe unaonaje?

      Ilikuwa ni mwiko kuachia shanga hizo zionekane au zionwe na watu wengine ambao hauko karibu nao kama mzazi, mume, kungwi (shangazi au bibi) n.k. tofauti na sasa ambapo shanga huvaliwa kama mtindo na huning’inizwa hovyo bila kujali maana au ujumbe unaotumwa na rangi za shanga wazivaazo.

      Ni wazi kuwa wanawake hawa wanaojivalia shanga hizo na kuzionyesha hovyo huwapa wakati mgumu watu au jamii ambayo inathamini nakutunza utamaduni halisi wa mwanamke kutilia shanga kiunoni na maana ya rangi husika.

      Baadhi ya watu huwadhania wanawake wanaovaa shanga ovyo ni wapenda mambo ya ngono……hivi kuna mtu hapendi ngono hapa Duniani?

      Bila ngono si dhani kama mimi na wewe tungekuwepo, ngono ni muhimu ktk maisha ya mwanadamu…..au jina lake ndio linawatisha watu? Haya basi tuseme kukutanisha na kuingiza uume ukeni…..bado halijakaa vema….kufanya mapenzi….aaah kufurahia utukufu na uumbaji wake mwenyezi Mungu.

      Swala muhimu hapo sio kuwashutumu na kuwahukumu wavaaji hao wa shanga bali ni kuwaeleza kwa uwazi swala zima la shanga……tuache utamaduni wa kubana-bana yale tuyajuayo ili sote tubaki kwenye mstari na ikiwa moja kati yetu atatoka mstarini at least atakuwa anajua nini anafanya au niseme ujumbe gani anaufikisha kwa watamzamaji wa shanga hizo.

      Hii yote inatokana na wakuwa (bibi, shangazi, mama) ktk jamii kujisahau na kung’ang’ania mijini na kushindwa kuwatambulisha watoto wao tamaduni za huko watokako (asili yao) hivyo wanakuwa hawajui au wanajifanya “wazungu” na kutofuata tamaduni na badala yake wanafanya watakavyo…..

      Mimi nimezaliwa Jijini Dar ila kule kwetu (asili yangu) wanavaa shanga na ninajua mambo mengi kuhusu tamaduni ya kwetu ikiwa ni pamoja na kutambulishwa maana halisi ya shanga na rangi zake……lakini mimi kama mimi sivai shanga sio tu kutokana na mtindo wangu wa mavazi bali pia sivutiwi au sijisikii vema ikiwa nitavaa shanga au hata nikiziona (hasa lundo) zinaning’inia kwa mtu mwingine (kama hiyo picha hapo juu) huwa naona ka’ uchafu vile….kama ni kijiuzi kimoja cha shanga au cheni poa ili kuongezea/ziba "kizugaji" uwazi fulani wa vazi lako if u know what I mean.

      *Wewe mwanaume kwanini unapenda mpenzi avae shanga kiunoni? Unazitumia vipi zikiwa kiunoni na zinakufanya ujisikie vipi?

      *Na wewe mwanamke ikiwa unavaa shanga mpenzi wako huzitumia vipi wakati wa kufanya mapenzi?

      Kumbuka hapa sote tunajifunza hivyo maelezo yako ya uwazi yatasaidia sana watu wengine hasa wale wasiojua utamaduni wa shanga na maana yake halisi.
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      Kinyegezo......
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      Kwani kazi ya kachumbari kwenye Chakula nini?
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      Default Re: Matumizi ya shanga katika mahanjam ni yepi?

      Dem wangu anazo ila cjaona faida yake kwangu!
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      Default Re: Matumizi ya shanga katika mahanjam ni yepi?

      Yeyote anayenijia na shanga namuona kama mganga wa kienyeji tu.
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      Waume wako wapi watueleze Raha yake?
      raha yake ni pale mwanamke anapozi shake kunako 6 kwa 6 huku akiwa on top of a man.zinaogeza ladha katika mchezo kam mvaaji atakuwa anajua kuzungusha mauno vzuri,huku akitoa miguno ya kimahaba.hapo vp?
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      ukiva shanga tatu ujue utangongwa bao tatu,wataalamu wanasema shanga zinachochea ny...g.

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      ukiva shanga tatu ujue utangongwa bao tatu,wataalamu wanasema shanga zinachochea ny...g.
      kwa rika fulani tu!
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      Uje ukute mtu kavaa furushi ujidai kukomaa nae ukihesabu hatimaye ufie kifuani,shauri zenyu
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      ukiva shanga tatu ujue utangongwa bao tatu,wataalamu wanasema shanga zinachochea ny...g.

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      Napenda kumuona mwanamke kazivaa,napata mzuka,but game ikianza sioni raha yake..

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      Huku nako upo ! Nawasalimu

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      Default Re: Matumizi ya shanga katika mahanjam ni yepi?

      Napita tu

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      Psychologically speaking shanga hazina na wala hazileti mushkheri/radha yeyote kwenye penzi, ile ni kasumba tu. Kwa wengi wanaokaa mjini shanga zina maana nyingi na moja ya hizo ni kama ifuatavyo: Kuna kina mama wengi wa mjini wanavaa shanga kwa ajili ya biashara yao ya kuiba waume za watu ili wakidhi mahitaji yao. Zile shanga zinakuwa na madawa ya kienyeji kurubuni ama kupambaza wanaume. Then mwanaume ukishajiingiza tu kwa huyo mama ndo basi tena unajikuta unahamisha vitu vyako kiaina (bila kujijuwa). Unatoka nyumbani asubuhi kwenda kazini lakini unasahau kurudi nyumbani kwa familia yako na kwenda kwa hawara kulala siku hata wiki huku ukizidi kupambazwa na malavidavi ya kiongo. Familia yako inasambaratika kwa ujinga na tamaa yako. Binafsi, nikishaona mwanamke wa namna hii namtolea nje mara moja. Kabla ya kuoa nilikuwa makini sana kwani sikutaka niingizwe mjini kiaina na kina hii mimama ya mjini na wengi wao wanatoka mikoani kuja mjini kwa biashara hii. Wanawake si wajinga kama sie wanaume tuzaniavyo, mjini ni shule na shule ni kama hivyo tunadanganywa kutokana na tamaa zetu za kijinga, oh nimekuvalia shanga leo kumbe ndo umeleweshwa ili uache mke wako kiaina umtunze hawara na yeye hawara aweze kuwatunza ndugu zake pamoja na wazazi wake huko kwao. Na hilo ndilo somo la leo. Amen!
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      Jamani naomba mnifunde mwenzenu junior katika matumizi ya shanga, mana sijui huwa wanaume wanafurahia nini ni kuziona tu au kuna kautundu kengine kanafanyika, jamani naombeni shule juu ya hili
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      Default Naomba mnijuze umuhimu wa shanga tafadhali!

      Habar zenu tha great thinker!
      Tafadhalin wadau naomba mnijuze iv shanga wanazo vaa wadada kiunoni kazi yake kubwa ni nn?urembo au kuna mengine?

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      Ni utamaduni tu ulio pitwa na wakati lakini wako wanao ufatilia.

      Lakini zinasaidia saidia kutekenya goroli za scud na scud ndo inazid kuzidisha speed ya kwenda kwenye target.

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      Raha ya mpira ni kuingia uwanjani uucheze, so mtafute mwenye shanga, kisha urudi kutupa matokeo

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      jamani nyie under 18 wa JK hebu ondokeni humu tusijelimwa mvua 30 bure!

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      Habar zenu tha great thinker!
      Tafadhalin wadau naomba mnijuze iv shanga wanazo vaa wadada kiunoni kazi yake kubwa ni nn?urembo au kuna mengine?
      Wakati wa libenike viuno vikiumana mwanamme anatakiwa akijue kipi ni cha mwanamke.
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      Hizi ni mshikio... Unashikiria kama usukani wa gari kwenye barabara yenye rasta hivi!
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